Some people want to get married, and they get married but then divorced

Before getting married, we all hid our shortcomings from each other, just like a layer of fine yarn, there was a sense of mystery, and after marriage, we would all start to quarrel for the cruel reality for a little sesame big thing! The laughter of the past disappeared in an instant, many times we always complain about each other, empathy, in fact, we are less patient, less communication, after marriage is the sublimation of love rather than the grave, after marriage needs two people to operate together, more considerate of each other, in each other's perspective to think about things, everything will become very happy.

Some people say that whether it is a man or a woman, a person's life is always untidy, and a suitable other half is needed to be perfect. There are many reasons why two people are together, many forms of love, blind dates, etc. But there is only one destination, together...

When two people are together, they first have a good impression of each other, and then develop into lovers, boyfriends and girlfriends and even objects. The prerequisite for marriage is that two people have deep feelings, and at least two people must have the same view of things, in order to achieve unity of behavior and action. It is necessary to spend enough time to get to know each other before getting married.

If you get married and then find out, some of them will get divorced.

People want to get married because they are tired of a lonely life, and when a person is alone for a long time, there will be a fierce desire to be accompanied by someone in the depths of his heart! So will choose to get married. There is also a belief that a person can only complete his normal behavior as a human being if he gets married, has a family, has a business, and has children.

There is also a kind of two people who love each other very much, and if they want to be together for the rest of their lives, they go through the legal procedure, that is, marriage. Divorce is because the relationship between two people is no longer as strong as when they are in love, and they gradually fade away and even have no family affection, which is what people often say has no feeling. There may also be a third party, in short, there are many reasons for divorce, more than marriage!

I chose not to get married because I saw through the feelings of the world, although I didn't become a monk, but I was not far from seeing through the red dust, I was used to seeing those divisions and combinations, and I felt that the relationship was too unreliable, so it was better to be better for myself to be better and to be alone.

If you don't understand it, you get married, and if you think about it, you divorce.

Divorce can be related to many factors, such as personal personality, marital concepts, communication skills, etc. Here are some of the factors that may affect the stability of a marriage:

Divorce certificate. 1.There is not enough understanding of the ruins and understanding. Marriage is a relationship between individuals and needs to be based on mutual understanding and acceptance. If both parties do not know each other well enough before marriage, it is difficult to establish a stable marital relationship.

I don't understand. 2.Expect different things from each other.

Married couples want to be able to get something out of each other, such as financial support, security, love, and so on. If two people do not have the same expectations of each other, it is easy to have contradictions and conflicts. 3.

There is no effective communication. Communication is an important part of a marriage relationship. If both parties cannot communicate adequately, or if the communication method is inappropriate, it will lead to a lot of misunderstandings and conflicts.

4.The character is not suitable. Everyone's personality is different, and if the personality of a couple is not suitable, many problems can arise.

5.External pressure. For example, career, finances, family pressures, etc., can also have an impact on the marital relationship. In conclusion, there can be many reasons for multiple divorces.

Pressure. 6 Here are some specific examples that can lead to multiple divorces:

1.Not enough to understand and master each other's living habits. For example, one person may prefer to travel alone, while the other does not want to be separated for too long.

If both parties do not know each other's habits well enough, it will be difficult to establish a stable marital relationship. 2.Have different marital expectations and values.

For example, one person wants to value their career, while the other is more focused on family life; Or one person wants a more intimate and delicate marriage and the other wants to be more free and independent. If the marital expectations and values of both parties do not coincide, it will be difficult to move forward with the marriage together. 3.

Lack of effective communication. If the two parties cannot communicate adequately, or the communication method is inappropriate, it is prone to contradictions and conflicts. For example, one person may be too opinionated, while the other may prefer to remain silent, which can make communication between two people difficult.

4.The character is not suitable. If the personalities of two people are not very suitable, it is easy to be separated.

Feelings are all subject to change. After getting married, if you can't continue to live because of various problems, you will consider divorce. Divorce is a kind of letting go of each other, and the luck is boring and there is no fuss.

Divorce, again and again, is really heart-wrenching to talk about. But we still have to analyze it carefully, why is this problem so common? It may be that you have not found a suitable partner, and some people may not think enough about it when choosing to get married, and eventually find that they are not too compatible with each other, and can only go to divorce.

There are also those who are not good at handling relationships in marriage, leading to conflicts with their partners and eventually divorce.

There are other reasons for their own problems. For example, some people are unfaithful before marriage, disrespectful to their partners, lack of responsibility, etc., these problems may affect the stability of the marriage, and they can only choose to divorce after the last book. There is also a situation where there are great differences in the living habits and values of the two people, which is unbearable in the long run, so they have to go to the road of divorce.

Therefore, multiple divorces can be due to multiple factors. If you want to avoid this, you need to reflect on yourself, enhance self-cultivation, and focus on personal growth and inner health. At the same time, it is necessary to establish good communication and interpersonal skills with your partner, and to understand and support each other.

I believe that as long as you put in the effort, you can build a stable and happy marital relationship.

Divorced and married, there are several situations, one is to divorce with the original match, and the later cavity can not find a more suitable match than Zheng Coarse's original match and remarry with the original match, the second is that the divorce is because of fault, and usually wants to find someone else to marry, and the third is that the divorce is unable to raise the child Wu Zaozi alone and chooses to marry someone else