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The divorce rate in China in the current society.
Getting higher and higher, as the old people in the family often tell us a sentence, in the past, when things were broken, everyone always remembered how to finish it, and now everyone thinks about how to change it faster, in fact, the meaning of marriage is like this, there will undoubtedly be some differences between two people together, and often the final divorce is due to a variety of problems, everyone chooses to ignore him, but then usually all the damage is the child, should you contact the ex after the divorce.
Between husband and wife, if they don't really want to divorce, no one should talk about divorce. Very hurtful, simple two words, etc., so to a person at the same time denial. After talking too much, the other person will slowly preset the probability of true divorce, and then prepare for himself to go back.
After getting married, everyone needs to put together half of their individuality, there is nothing that is necessarily unsuitable, but one understands tolerance and humility, and the other understands how to grasp proportion. Life is forward-looking, and no one stays at the moment of divorce.
Therefore, if you also have feelings for your ex-husband, then don't do it, work hard to keep it, and strive to remarry and live a good life. If you just want to brush up on your ex-husband's presence and confirm that you are doing well now, then there is no need, no one is interested in the daily life of strangers, please don't take yourself too seriously. Mutual respect is also the importance of the new appointment.
As soon as you get in touch, there will be a spark in the ashes. I think there is also a higher state of life, to be a good friend who helps each other, and to stipulate that you are upright and not afraid of being slanted.
Under the greater pressure of work, the cutting is still messy, the tidying is still messy, and it is worthy of the heart! And not serious.
As a last resort, naturally try not to contact it, and it's not divorced, unless you still want to remarry but there is a high possibility, otherwise you shouldn't contact, which is related to interpersonal relationships.
It's very different, being friends after a divorce or a breakup is just idealistic, because this kind of association is too sensitive, and it is very easy to cause unnecessary inconvenience and controversy to each other, so not contacting does not mean hatred, but mutual respect, and it is the last tenderness and love for the other party.
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Because after the divorce, many men will have new feelings, if they have a other half, it is not convenient to contact the early stage, since the divorce, the two parties do not need to have too much contact.
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It may be that I have saved enough disappointments before the divorce, I have had enough of grievances, and divorce is relief, so I never contact my ex-wife.
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Because they feel that since they are divorced, it means that the two people have no relationship, and there is no need to disturb each other's lives at all.
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In this case, it stands to reason that a man and his ex-wife are divorced, after all, they have children, they are the man's biological flesh and blood, and they are connected by blood, that is, they are divorced from their ex-wife, and they should look at the children.
Why don't you come, it shows that the man is a man who is unkind, his heart is as hard as iron, he has no responsibility and responsibility, and he knows that his son is his own, and he doesn't care about it, which is really a dereliction of duty.
Since the ex-wife is going to divorce and divorced, he will break off with his ex-wife, and he doesn't want to have anything to do with his ex-wife, even the children are involved, and he (her) becomes a victim of both of them.
However, a man hates his ex-wife to the point that it is forgivable, and it is not right to involve the child, the child is innocent and not at fault, as the father of the child, he doesn't even look at the child, and the child hates it, which fully shows that the man is narrow-minded, small-bellied, and not a real man.
If it is a real man, he is divorced from his ex-wife, no matter how much contradiction he has with his ex-wife, the rift is irreconcilable, and it will not involve his children, he will also look at it and care, why not go to see his children, he just hates his ex-wife to the extreme, he doesn't want to be responsible, and let his ex-wife bear it alone.
When a man is divorced and hates his ex-wife to the core, coupled with the man's narrow-mindedness, small belly, and lack of affection, how can he contact his ex-wife.
I don't want to say a word to my ex-wife, and I don't want to see my ex-wife, if I want to break it, I don't even recognize my son, so I have such a desperate feeling.
This is also a man who is divorced, dizzy, distracted, full of distracting thoughts, ruthless, ignoring you, not looking at his son, completely abandoning your mother and son, and dying like this.
Because she has children to raise, this lady is a person who pays great attention to family values, so she did not succeed with Dou Wei later, also because she invested more in the family than Dou Wei, and he thought that Dou Wei was very irresponsible, so she never got married and has been raising her own children.
Men are rational animals, and after divorce, men generally don't think much about their ex-wives and will continue to move forward to find their next partner.
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I guess you might feel very happy, because many people get divorced very unpleasantly, and both parties are like enemies, and he is happy to see that the other party is not having a good time.