My boyfriend said that he can t do anything for you, and he wants to drag you down What do you mean?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-28
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The boyfriend said that he can't do anything for you and drag you down, so he may be breaking up with you, or he may be looking for certain excuses and excuses, because he feels that he can't do anything for you, and he may drag you down when he is finished with you, and it will not help you, one is that he may not want to continue to be friends with you anymore and wants to break up with you, 2 It is possible that he does not feel that it will help you much, and you two are not very suitable for being with you, and it may drag you down like this. It is possible that his personal ability is insufficient, and it is possible that his family conditions are not very good, so he will say this aspect, then what he means is to say, it is possible that he does not want to break up sincerely, just take a look, see what kind of reaction you have, what kind of attitude you have towards him, whether you can always accept his current situation He should also have a certain purpose of temptation, or it may be that he just wants to break up with you, I think so.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Boyfriends can mean this in many ways:

    1.He may want to show his concern and love for you, but he feels guilty and helpless because he feels that he can't help you enough.

    2.He may think that your relationship has reached a stage where he feels that he can no longer do anything for you, and therefore wants to end the relationship.

    Regardless of your boyfriend's true intentions, it is advisable to be open and honest in communication and understand his thoughts and feelings in order to better understand his words and actions. If there are any problems between you, you can try to solve them together to maintain the stability and health of the relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    can't do anything for you, and said that it dragged you down, your boyfriend feels sorry for you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    A responsible man should be able to overcome problems and solve them. What kind of difficulties make him feel that his inability to solve them will affect his future life, and he will not be able to return to heaven with his own efforts. Since this is true after his self-assessment.

    So what are you waiting for. Do you want to be a savior, or do you want to be a poor husband and wife? Then in the future, if he turns over, you will be a great achievement?

    So what do you need love for? It's me, I'll break up. Fight for each other.

    He will be mature in the future, and he will still be willing to stay together, and if I don't marry, I will marry. I'm going to marry a man, not be a mother to him, and wait for him to grow up. If a man is saying that he wants to break up because he owes money, it depends on why the boyfriend owes money.

    If it's because the business has failed, or the business has lost money, I don't think it's terrible, it's mainly up to you. Nothing can be successful all at once, and if everything is so easy, then everyone is now a well-known entrepreneur and a billionaire. But it's not, investment is risky, and it's normal to lose money like this.

    It also shows that the boyfriend's daring character should be cherished, such a man will definitely have a future and will give you the economic freedom and happiness you want in life! Of course, sometimes these men's words do not mean to break up with you, but they are afraid that you will break up with him, and the first thing he says is a temptation for you. In any case, if it is true love, owing money is not a big deal, and it is normal for modern society to owe money!

    Two people are together not to see each other having each other, but for a lifetime. There is nothing to be tied up, this is at most a kind of selfishness, why do you feel afraid of being stumbled, can you say that you don't love if you don't love? If we can't even get through this little wave, is there still any need to be together?

    Everyone is very self-inflicted, what you think doesn't mean that I think, what you say about bonding is just a test of feelings in my eyes, if I choose to give up, then I naturally don't deserve to love you. In fact, there are many things, when you can't figure it out, you can put aside the relationship between you, and I think you should be able to understand.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When your boyfriend says this, he means that he doesn't have the ability now, or he doesn't have the conditions to have a future with you. He feels that without this ability to make you happy and satisfied. That's why I use this sentence that I don't want to drag you down.

    But he definitely still likes you and loves you in his heart. It's mainly because of some practical conditions. I feel that continuing to be together in the future will affect your development.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It shows that he wants to break up with you and feels unhappy with you, which is just an excuse. Because you didn't think so. He wants you to give up on him when you hear this, so that he can go and find the life he wants in the future.

    If you don't have any thoughts about him, then forget it, don't insist any longer, he's just making excuses for himself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The boyfriend said that he didn't want to drag you down, so understand this sentence, that is, he wants to break up, and then wants to leave you, and he says that he doesn't want to drag you down, it may just be an excuse, it's just an excuse for her to want to leave, and she is looking for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sometimes a boy, he feels that his ability is not strong enough, he can't meet you, some requirements he can't give you a happy family, he is chosen to give up, of course he really loves you, will make such a move, if he doesn't love you, he will definitely not. This is what you do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I will understand that my boyfriend may choose to break up with me directly because his ability is not so strong, because my boyfriend thinks that my boyfriend and I will not be particularly happy when we live a life, and may also choose to break up with me, the main reason is that my boyfriend is too inferior.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My boyfriend said that he didn't want to drag you down, one might be really a serious problem, for your own good, I was afraid that you would dislike him, so I chose this way, and I wanted you to have a real attitude.

    It may also be that I don't love you and deliberately found an excuse that seems to be good for you, but is actually for myself to get out.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, to put it bluntly, he wants to leave you, unless there is any special reason, such as a physical illness, or a career or something, then it is necessary to figure it out, if it is because of these, it is understandable, but if not, he just wants to find a step to leave.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your boyfriend told you that you don't want to drag you down, there may be two situations, one is that she is now in great difficulty and needs to be solved, but he doesn't want to drag you down, so he will break up with you, and the other situation is that your relationship is not particularly good, it just so happens that he has encountered a little difficulty, which is easy to solve, and he will break up with you directly with this difficult idea, in fact, the biggest meaning of this sentence is that the boyfriend wants to break up with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It can be understood that your boyfriend's physical mobility is inconvenient, and because his movement is restricted, he may not be able to do a lot of work and cannot provide you with a better material life, so he will say that he doesn't want to drag you down.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When your boyfriend said this, it was obvious that he was going to break up, he said that he didn't want to drag you down, and the implication was that you were very good, very good, and he didn't deserve you. Falling in love with you is that he has climbed high, he has wronged you, and he is dragging you down.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you can feel this boy, his current mood is relatively humble, he feels that he can't do a lot of things well, and he doesn't have a good job, he shouldn't have a stable income**, so he doesn't want to drag you down in the relationship, if you are together, he may also become a drag oil bottle, this kind of boy is more mature, he doesn't want to get carried away because of love, bring you a bad life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want to drag me down, I should think about what kind of trouble he has encountered, or he owes money to someone else and can't pay it back, and he doesn't want to drag me down because of that. Or what are the difficulties in his family. I think if it's true, I should be brave enough to face it with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your boyfriend says that he doesn't want to drag you down, on the one hand, it can be understood that he really doesn't want to drag you down, he is either poor in his own conditions or poor economic conditions, etc., and he is inferior to you in all aspects, so being with you drags you down, on the other hand, it is possible that your boyfriend doesn't look down on you and says so.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think through the drama of your boyfriend, it shows that he may not be optimistic about the relationship between the two of you, or that he already has the idea of this consumer, so you must communicate with him well.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you choose him, you have to bear it with him, and now he can also give you a good life, and you deserve better happiness, so he doesn't want to drag you down, he thinks that you are worthy of a better person, and you should not suffer with him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe your boyfriend thinks that his future is not so good, but he wants you to live a happier life, so he chooses to let go and let you meet better people.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think this sentence has two meanings, one is that the boyfriend may have encountered something difficult, which will bring a lot of pressure to the relationship, he doesn't want you to be embarrassed, he doesn't want you to be stressed, and the second is to break up with yourself and find a reason.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When my boyfriend said this, he must have encountered some problem that he couldn't solve. Or the current financial ability is not enough for you to live a happy life, I want to break up with you, and I don't want to drag you down. It's also possible that he has other options, just using this as an excuse to break up with you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My boyfriend said that he didn't want to drag you down, he probably felt that he wouldn't succeed no matter how hard he tried, he wouldn't bring you a happy life, he didn't want you to suffer with him, he wanted you to find someone you like who could give you happiness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My boyfriend said that he didn't want to drag you down, I think it shows that your boyfriend has low self-esteem, and at the same time, he can show that his boyfriend doesn't particularly like you, so he wants to break up with you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your boyfriend says this, it means that your boyfriend doesn't like you anymore. His expression is very tactful, and what he really means is that he doesn't want to associate with you anymore. Love must be between you and me, since your boyfriend has expressed it like this, you have to face the reality and break up with him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This needs to be understood, why he said this, it may be that he has a disease that will cost a lot of money, it may be that his family needs a lot of money, or it may be that she feels that she can't keep up with you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think it's important to make sure he really loves himself. If I truly love you. If you are reluctant to separate, you can overcome the current difficulties together or wait for him to pay off his debts, and then make future plans, and make a decision after careful observation, bless you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on your boyfriend's situation at the time, if his environment is very good, he wants to end the relationship with you, which is a way of speaking in retreat; If he is in a bad environment, it is genuinely thinking about you, a feeling of freedom if you love her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't know what other people think, but when I say this, it's usually a rejection, but I just don't like it. When I say this, it must be that the woman has a retention behavior, and this is a certain deceptiveness, which makes people sound like there is something else, as if there is something unspeakable or that she doesn't deserve it...For a while, it will open the brains of the woman who is in a relationship. I don't dare to assert others at will, so I'll use myself to say it:

    I don't want this girl to leave me, I also want her to like me, but I don't like her at all, I want her to like me but it's my vanity in my heart, but I'm also ready for her to leave, because I don't know where other people's thoughts are going, there is a possibility that the woman will accept and leave, so if she leaves, I can accept it.

    And then for me, this sentence also has an element of self-deception, convincing myself that I really "don't want to delay you" rather than "don't like you", in fact, it's just to not want to accept the fact that I am scum, I know that I am scum, although I can't accept my scum, but I am really scum, so I will deceive myself for other reasons or something, in fact, it is also to reduce my guilt, to find sustenance for my psychological pressure, if I succeed in self-deception, Then my words will be more deceptive when communicating with you.

    What I said is to look at myself as an example, to bring myself into the problem and to stand in my own way, I can't represent the truth, let alone the truth. In fact, there are really too many reasons for saying this, maybe he really loves you, maybe he really has his difficulties, and there may be really a lot of helplessness. Speaking of which, even if there is a lot of scum, but from some perspectives, are they really scum?

    Even if there is a lot of scum, there is indeed a beautiful and beautiful love, maybe we haven't experienced it, but it can't be said that it doesn't exist.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    My boyfriend says I don't want to drag you down. It's easy to understand, it's that he's going to break up. He says he doesn't want to drag you down, and maybe it looks like he's responsible. But in reality he is running away from his sense of responsibility. I don't want to be responsible for you anymore. In the name of beauty, I don't want to drag you down.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When your boyfriend says he doesn't want to drag you down anymore, he means that he may feel that he is very bad and unworthy of you, or that it has seriously affected your future, so he is planning to break up with you.

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