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First, reflect on your own problems and try your best to resolve the contradictions that led to the divorce. Second, let go of the past and build a good relationship with the other person in another capacity. In addition, enhance your attractiveness and increase the sense of need of both parties.
Marriage is not a trivial matter, but a solemn and sacred thing. After getting married, many couples feel that their relationship is not as sweet as it used to be, arguing over some family trivialities. When their emotions spiral out of control, they impulsively divorce until they lose each other.
1. Reflect on your own problems and try your best to resolve the contradictions that lead to divorce. If you want to recover after a divorce, you must understand yourself correctly and first reflect on your own problems. Whether there is enough care for the partner, whether there is a lack of tolerance and understanding, identify the differences between the two parties, and make appropriate compromises.
The contradictions between the two parties will precipitate over time, and the deeper the backlog, the easier it is to erupt when one party can't hold on, which will eventually lead to the end of the divorce, so we should try our best to resolve the contradictions that lead to the divorce. After analyzing the reasons, you should sincerely apologize so that the other party can reasonably see your determination and sincerity in repentance. When the contradiction is resolved, the feelings will naturally ease.
2. Let go of the past and change to another identity to establish a good relationship with the other party. Now that you are divorced, you are no longer husband and wife, and you have no right to bind each other. Both parties should communicate reasonably to rebuild each other's comfort.
If the idea of remarriage arises, we should let go of the past and start anew to welcome a new life.
3. Enhance your attractiveness and increase the sense of demand of both parties. The promotion of one's own values can stimulate the attention and favor of the object of marriage, and attraction can attract the attention of the other party from multiple external and internal dimensions, and the more the other party pays attention to you, the more they will invest in you. However, he had a sense of need.
He feels inseparable from you, and it is difficult to change his inner image without you, show a different side, make him have a sense of anticipation for you again, and his emotional problems will naturally be alleviated.
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You should correct your attitude, you should always give the other party some comfort, and you should also communicate with the other party with a rational attitude. You should also correct your mentality and don't let yourself be too humble.
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You should take each other out to play, you should often chat with each other, you should often shout and ask for warmth, you should also surprise each other, and you should also create a sense of ritual for each other.
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You should be very good to the other party, but also change some of your previous shortcomings, and communicate more with the other party. In this way, you can let the other party see your sincerity.
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Then you should apologize to him, and be kind to the other party in the future, and you can also prepare some surprises.
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If you really want to redeem the other party after the divorce, you must learn to reflect on some of the problems that exist in yourself. If you can find out these problems, you can easily solve the contradictions with the other party. If you can't build these relationships, you're not attractive to others.
Marriage is not a trivial matter, since you have already been divorced once, you should be cautious about marriage. Many couples will quarrel with each other over some trivial family matters, but they must also control their emotions and not always vent to others. Find the problem and solve it, and others will be willing to get back together with you.
After two people are together, don't talk about each other's past, you must communicate reasonably. If you already have the idea of remarrying, then you should choose carefully with each other and don't treat marriage as a child's play. Only by re-embracing it, can your ideas be truly realized.
There should be no estrangement between two people, and they must face it correctly. After discussing the past, they will be very sad for each other, and they will not want to continue to be together. <>
Everyone should be more attractive so that they will want to stay with you. To elevate the other person's attention to yourself, you must combine internal and external. The more you invest in yourself, the more the other person will be attracted to you.
Everyone has what they need, and at this time, you have to dress yourself up handsome and improve your connotation. <>
In general, since two people want to be together, they should have a correct attitude towards each other and must communicate well with each other. Don't feel that your love is very lowly, love is equal. There are many trivial things in life that will make you quarrel, as long as you work hard to solve them.
Don't run away when you encounter problems, you must take the initiative to communicate with each other, so that you will have a good result. Getting married again is no longer the same as before, and you must choose it well.
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You need to let the other party see your determination, see your attitude, be sure to talk about it, be sure to change some bad habits before, don't quarrel with the other party, you can let the other party see your sincerity.
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You can care more about each other in life, take care of each other more, and secondly, understand each other more in life, and you should reason with each other more, you can order takeout for each other every day, and you can also care more about each other and tolerate each other.
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Then you should sincerely apologize to the other party, and it is best to communicate face-to-face, and then promise that you will never make similar mistakes in the future.
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1. Integrate into each other's family Although you are divorced, but the families of both parties still exist, after the marriage of the Seeper Dust Feng, you can try to integrate into the other party's family, you can find each other's family to eat, bring some small gifts to the door, and close the relationship between you and his family, after all, you have been a family with a rotten Ming Sutra, and it is impossible to break up quickly because of divorce. As long as you treat it sincerely, one step at a time, I believe that his family will not reject you thousands of miles away, and they will also be able to get back together after washing. 2. Take advantage of inseparable family affection If the two of you have your own children, and then don't care who the children will be raised, the children are your reunited bonds, as long as you usually take care of the children more, care for the children, and let the children form a dependence on you.
At the same time, I will not object to this request to raise children together on the grounds of raising children, after all, the children belong to everyone, and you both want the children to be good, so that you will have more contact with each other, and over time, the other party may consider getting back together with you for the sake of the children. 3. Take advantage of the friendship between you When you redeem it, you can use the good girlfriends or good buddies around the other party, and you can usually say more ** to greet Yuan Li or make an appointment to eat and go shopping, and invest yourself at the right time to redeem it, and want to get back together. Let the hungry faction sue them to help you clarify and beautify you, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort.
Fourth, the last is to strive to improve your personal charm The above three methods are to recover from external conditions, then your own conditions must also change, you should strive to improve your charm, so that the other party falls in love with you from the beginning. This is the hardest thing to do, and it has to be done. After the divorce, the other party will not care so much about everything about you, but if you change yourself, show the other party a new self, exude a different charm from the past, and attract the other person from the beginning.
All in all, it is not easy to save a marriage after a divorce. Before making this decision, consider the whole situation and the possible consequences. If you really decide to save your broken marriage, you must have a firm determination, touching sincerity and patient waiting, all of which are indispensable.
We must be prepared to fight a protracted war, and breaking the ice cannot be done overnight. It's the same with recovering a wounded heart.
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Legal analysis: If the husband is sick and the wife wants to divorce, then the husband can choose to do his best to save his wife, and if he can't get it, he will break up.
Legal basis
Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office.
The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.
Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly submit a divorce lawsuit to the people's court.
People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.
In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:
1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;
2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;
3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;
4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;
5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.
If, after the people's court has ruled that the divorce is not allowed, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party files a divorce lawsuit again, the divorce shall be granted.
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