How to live alone in high school without relying on friends

Updated on society 2024-07-16
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Why is it tiring to interact with people in high school, the root cause is that you and your classmates have more life experience, and you each have friends from junior high school and even elementary school, so you will naturally have some exclusivity.

    First of all, I don't think you should cut off relationships with others, at least not with them, you want them to ignore you and be cold to them, there's no need to break off relationships fundamentally, besides, it's not so easy to break off those inextricable relationships when you want to cut off those inextricable relationships. Even if they are not good to you, sometimes appropriate patience can play a certain role in analgesia, when the level of this bad is high, you can vent, in a way that is harmless to yourself, and don't appear too close to others, as you said, most people can't be completely trusted, for this kind of person, the more you trust him, the greater the risk to you.

    Second, about how not to be embarrassed when there are no friends around, I think if there is no one around, it will not be embarrassing, and people who are not friends, if they are not enemies in a certain sense, they will not embarrass you, if there is really someone who embarrasses you, then you can be indifferent to him, the more you ignore him, the more he does not feel the psychological advantage brought by the scourge of you, of course, when you are bullied, it is sometimes necessary to swallow your anger, and sometimes it is not desirable, when the so-called bullying reaches a certain level, you should ask for help from someone you trust.

    Third, when it comes to eating, you can eat with other people, but if you don't go into the environment, how can you understand that those people are really good to you, and those people just don't like you?

    Fourth, taking advantage of the problem, in fact, when others ask you to help them run errands, it is nothing more than a convenience, then you show that it is not so convenient to ask you to help, and you will naturally get rid of these requests. However, people still need to help each other after all, you may need to find a person who remembers human feelings, that is, someone who is not so numb, and help him more, because helping him can get rid of other people's requirements, and helping such a person is likely to receive unexpected surprises when you need help but no one helps.

    Finally, I don't think you should be so withdrawn, unless that's your personality, if you want to be in contact with others, then try to let yourself go, and after finding friends, especially friends who can help, these troubles will naturally disappear, which is more effective than all the methods mentioned above. Of course, making friends requires heart-to-heart communication, and superficial friends may make you more uncomfortable than enemies.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Friends are often ignored when they speak, and it feels very good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Again and again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Go your own way, go forward, and you will succeed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then it's all up to you.

    But I believe there are still a lot of good people in the world.

    If you don't have a diploma, you can find a job that doesn't require a diploma.

    Can't you support yourself with your own hands?

    First of all, you can't lose faith in yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be optimistic about your own one-third of an acre.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I feel that life is really not easy, so we should make ourselves happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's okay, he sits, you let him sit, keep silent, after a long time, they will understand, it's just that you suddenly changed a little too fast, your friends can't adapt to it, give them some time, give yourself some time, ask for adoption, thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Normal. Sometimes loneliness is also a joy.

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