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Like you said, I'm not hitting you, and you probably only have a 20 percent chance because I used to have the same troubles as you. But there's still a chance that you're nice to her, but you probably haven't really touched her. She probably thinks that the better you treat her, the more she owes you, so she wants to make it clear to you, and the analysis is that she doesn't want to break you off completely, because she still can't bear you, because you're too good to her.
Once you give up completely, she may feel a sense of loss for a while! Things like you, I don't think you should be too nice to her, if you're too nice to a woman, you'll be led away by her. You've been a failure before And there's the question of whether you're handsome or not This is very important It's very likely that because you're handsome, it's much easier to chase than you're now Most girls are vain Who doesn't want to make others envy her in front of their friends I'm telling the truth If after a while, you still don't have hope Landlord I suggest you spend so much time and energy It's better to find a new girl Don't fall to death in a tree that doesn't bloom Some people are good for a girl for several years It's not as useful as another guy being with that girl for a few hours, that's fate.
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Courtship is not successful, being friends is actually a wise choice, and there is no need to be extravagant for a long time.
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1) Don't be too sad and don't do extreme acts.
After confessing to being rejected by the other party, it is inevitable that you will be depressed and fall into a "sad" mood, but you can't be too sad and affect your normal life and work. It is advisable to self-regulate and do what you love, or talk to friends and family to restore your calmness.
Some were rejected, wanted to die or live, and even used threats: If you don't agree to be my boyfriend, I'll jump from here.
This kind of behavior is extreme, and it is also very selfish, thinking that if I confess, I can get the other person's heart, in fact, to confess with this kind of thought, it was wrong from the beginning, and I should understand a sentence, "Love is mutual, not unrequited love".
Correct confession, first of all, is to be confident enough, followed by very distracted, and finally at the right time and place, self-confidence and heart, go with the flow to express your emotions, which is easy to improve the success rate of confession.
2) Analyze the reasons for failure and gain experience.
Why did confession fail? Some confessed, never reflected on this problem, and waited until the next confession, and failed, and some were rejected more times, and began to cast nets in a large area and selectively fish.
I believe that only when people understand that they are wrong can they change their direction. For example, the reason why I was rejected by the other party this time is actually that my image is not good, my clothes are sloppy, my hair is oily, and the upper is dirty.
Summary: In the confession failure, find the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine, so as to truly solve the problem and gain experience.
3) Try a second confession.
After your confession is rejected, will you continue to confess? Some people say, no, they have rejected me, I will confess again, so embarrassing, so faceless, let's give up and change to another confession!
Failure is the mother of success, and confessing to a failure and choosing to quit is not confident or a sign of not loving enough. The last time you failed to confess, maybe you didn't do enough, maybe you were too nervous, and maybe you were too sudden and scared the other party, why don't you try to confess a second time?
Don't feel that if you confess again, I will be very cheap, the more you hint at yourself in your heart, the more you dare not confess, only if you have tried and worked hard, you will know the result.
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I don't like you! Or maybe they haven't figured out to be with you yet.
I feel that she may be testing you, she should at least not be disgusted with you, but it feels like it hasn't penetrated to the level of boyfriend and girlfriend, so she should also be groping, starting with understanding you and knowing you well, and then slowly see if there is any possibility of development. At least you have a guarantee, that is, you can at least be friends of the opposite sex. You can also probe her at the right time and place and ask her what she means. >>>More
Think about the reason for the rejection? If someone else has something to love, I advise you to give up! >>>More
You have to think about what type of girl this girl is, if it's a cold type, you don't have to think about it, she's telling you seriously, being friends is just perfunctory to you, but some girls are very shy, and want to see how you do it again, and enjoy the feeling of being chased.
First of all, she already has a boyfriend, and if you entangle her like this, it will cause her a lot of trouble. >>>More
It is normal to confess to be rejected, you are brave enough to confess to the person you like, say what you want to say, even if you refuse, you will not regret it, understand that the person you like does not like you, you don't have to work this person anymore, you can start a new relationship from scratch, this person does not like you does not mean that others do not like you, so don't be discouraged. Be brave in the face.