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I have to say that now more and more people choose not to marry and have children.
I remember when we were children, how could there be adults around us who didn't get married and dragged a few children? Even if there are so many old singles in each village, they are sympathetic to the people around them for a lifetime.
Don't get married and don't have children, in that era, few people dared to think about it and dare to try, and if they tried, they had to endure gossip and even white eyes for half a lifetime.
Now, when people reach middle age, there are several people around them who choose not to marry or have children.
As for the whole society, the marriage rate and birth rate alone have reached a new low, for example, in 2019, there were only more than 9.47 million couples registered for marriage in the country, and the number of singles has exceeded 100 million
1. The cost of getting married and having children is too high.
In the concept of Chinese, most of them think that marriage is the need to buy a house, the man gives the bride price or down payment, the woman gives the dowry, etc., and the single purchase of a house, the house price remains high, for ordinary families, has emptied three families six wallets, and the mortgage is the future.
Twenty or thirty years of money bags occupied.
Not to mention, the cost of money and energy to have a child and raise a child.
2. People's concepts are changing, and they are unwilling to compromise on marriage.
More and more people realize that an unhappy marriage is more terrible than being single, so if you don't meet another person who is suitable or excited, you are willing to be single rather than compromise.
For many people, marriage is no longer a necessity, but an option.
3. The responsibility of getting married and having children is too great, and marriage is far from being as good as imagined.
On the one hand, marriage means the union of two or three families, and the responsibilities and obligations of human sophistication, marriage, and having children are too heavy, and some people think that they are not enough to bear their responsibilities; On the other hand, married life is too trivial, and many people regard marriage as the grave of love, and happiness is far below expectations.
In short, there are reasons to get married, and there are reasons not to get married. I think that each of us, in the face of the question of marriage or not, birth or not, respect the choice of others, do not comment too much, no one laughs at anyone, so, it's good!
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Each of us has our own understanding and choices about our own lives, so we have different living conditions. ......On the issue of marriage, some people choose not to marry, and these people's living conditions will have three situations: living alone and free, living with less burden and unbridled economic conditions, and feeling more lonely if they lack love in life.
1. People who choose not to marry live alone and are free every day.
For those who choose not to marry, its greatest characteristic is that it is free and sensitive. ......The reason why this situation occurs is that people who choose not to marry are living alone, their lives are completely in their own hands, and no one disturbs their lives, so the daily life of such people is a state of freedom, which will make them feel very relaxed and envied by others.
2. For those who are not married, the burden of life is lighter and the economic conditions are very superior.
Life after marriage will be more busy and tiring because of problems such as children, while for those who are not married, the burden of life will be much lighter. ......People who are not married have no children, so they do not need to spend energy to raise children, and they do not need to spend money for this, so these people will have a lighter burden in life and will be more advantageous in terms of economic conditions, and this state will make people feel very relaxed and happy.
3. Unmarried people who live alone will feel lonely because of a lack of love.
While choosing not to marry will bring you many benefits, it can also cause problems for yourself. ......Among the various problems that come with not marrying, loneliness and loneliness are the most unbearable. ......Specifically, people who choose not to marry because they live alone, so they lack care and love, such a state will make them feel lonely and lonely, and this feeling will become stronger as they get older, and eventually it will have a very big impact on their lives, and even make them finally give up the choice of not marrying and find their own love.
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Although there are many people who are not married and have children now, it is impossible for them to become the mainstream, which is contrary to the development of society and the continuation of human life, so the main idea of human beings will still develop and continue slowly for thousands of years of history and culture.
Among the post-95s and post-00s, there are indeed many people who choose not to marry and have children. However, this does not mean that this will become mainstream. The reason why I say this is because getting married and having children has always been the mainstream choice of young people, and late marriage and late childbearing do not mean that there are three reasons why young people will make the choice of marriage and childbearing.
1. The concept of getting married and having children has always been the mainstream view in the minds of young people.
Although there are many young people who choose not to marry and have children, this does not mean that this is the mainstream choice of the post-95s and post-00s. In fact, among the post-95s and post-00s young people, the vast majority still choose to get married and have children, which is their mainstream choice. It's just that the behavior of young people who choose not to marry or have children is too conspicuous.
Therefore, it leaves people with the illusion that most young people choose not to marry and have children.
Post-00s young people choose to marry later and have children later, which does not mean that they will not marry and have children.
For the post-95s and post-00s, most of them did choose to marry later and have children later. This makes it true that there are not many people who get married and have children among the post-95s and post-00s young people. But we have to make one thing clear, that is, late marriage and late childbearing do not mean that they do not pretend to marry and have children.
Those post-95s and post-00s who choose to marry later and have children later will eventually get married and have Heng and Lao Tzu, which is the mainstream choice of most people. Those who really choose not to marry and have children are always in the minority.
3. Real life will prompt the post-95s and post-00s to make the choice of getting married and having children.
Among the post-95s and post-00s, there are indeed some people who have the idea of not marrying and having children at the beginning.
But with the gradual enrichment of life experience, the minds of these people will change. Under the influence of their families, relatives and friends, and those around them, these post-95s and post-00s will gradually realize the necessity of getting married and having children, as well as the many benefits they bring to themselves. Thus prompting them to finally change their minds.
I want to get married and have children instead. It is precisely because of this reason that unmarried and infertile will never be able to become the idea of young people born in the 95s and 00s. The vast majority of them still choose to get married and have children.
I think it has something to do with the influence of their parents, because the post-90s generation is the generation that was spoiled by their parents, so when making friends, they will be very selfish and will not take into account the other party's thoughts.
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