After graduating, I went back to the countryside to farm, and others looked down on me, what should

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    What I want to say is that this matter is up to you, do you feel that others look down on you, have you figured out what to do yourself? If you are very determined to farm in the village, what can others do if they look down on you? The days are your own, and your life is your own, so why care so much about what others think.

    But to be honest, it is indeed a pity if you choose to go back to the countryside to farm after graduating from university. After all, your parents provide you with books and let you learn knowledge, they hope that you can have a broader future and that you can do more. Of course, we are not saying that there are no good things to do in the countryside, but there are really many fewer opportunities, <>

    But if you really don't want to stay in the city and don't want to work in the company, no one can control you about this matter, because whether it is studying, working, or going back to the village to farm. All these choices are made according to your own ideas, you are an adult, no matter what kind of choice you make, as long as you think clearly, then what does it matter what others think? You feel that others look down on you because you feel in your heart that farming in the countryside will be looked down upon, so you especially care about such an idea.

    If you feel that there is nothing to worry about, you should think about it yourself, whether you want to go to the city to work or you want to farm in the village, as long as you have firm up your own ideas, then do it towards this goal, as for what others think, don't listen to what others say, just do what you want to do, I think this is the most important thing. In fact, there are some people who can't do it without caring about other people's voices, you mind very much, but you don't want to change, then you can only change yourself, otherwise, it's just yourself who is uncomfortable. Sometimes, when we encounter something, we have to learn to self-regulate so that we can have a better time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think you should care about other people's opinions, work hard for a few years to make some achievements, impress other people, and maybe become the leader of the village in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no need to care too much, doing what you should do is the most important thing, others look down on you, and it will not affect your life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everyone has their own different lifestyles and life choices, so why care about other people's eyes, just stick to your own choices.

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