My ex girlfriend is having trouble right now, do I still need to help her

Pick it up and put it down. Stop being sorry for your current girlfriend.

First, do you have a girlfriend now? Second, what difficulties did your former girlfriend encounter? I don't approve of helping her as much as you can in any difficulty, if you are very irresponsible to your current girlfriend, don't do this.

Ex-girlfriend, now that you have a girlfriend, don't worry about her, otherwise your girlfriend will.

Jealous.

I still need to ask, after all, I once loved.

It's time to show your demeanor.

Who brought it up first when we broke up??

Why did you break up, please explain the problem clearly. ok

If you want to see what difficulties are and analyze specific problems on a case-by-case basis It's not a matter of principle, just help her, because she is the woman who used to be with you.

Ask your heart

If only she cared a little more

If the landlord and her are friends now

You can help her as a friend

2 people choose to be together Love is to tolerate each other, understand each other, trust each other, if the landlord loves the current object very much

You can tell her the truth After all, there is nothing to hide between two people

Yes. Help her as best you can.

Unless there are very special circumstances, it is not recommended to reach out.

The first point is that you have to see if you are single, if you are still single after separating from your ex-girlfriend, there is no other object, and you are in charge of your own affairs.

If you have the ability to help, within your ability the ex-girlfriend is in difficulty, and you feel that you can help her, that's totally fine, after all, the two have been together before, and you want her to do well.

If you already have a current one after separating from your ex-girlfriend, and you want to reach out to your ex-girlfriend to help, you must ask for the current one's consent.

It's not because you don't have an idea or don't want to help, but because you don't want to affect your current relationship because of your ex-girlfriend's affairs, it's not that we don't have feelings, but the two people have no relationship in the first place, don't let the past things affect your current feelings.

I think if you explain it to the incumbent, she should understand you, and if you reach out to her without going through the incumbent and be known by the incumbent, your relationship will most likely end.

Because the current one minds that you are entangled with your ex, even if it is to help, if you get the current one's consent, then it should be fine, and even the two of you can help her together.

The second point is that if the two of you are not very happy when you are separated, she breaks your heart, you don't want to help, and I personally don't think it will ruin the relationship.

Don't give the other party any hope, let the other party think that the two of you are still possible, but the individual is not related, so it is still based on your own personality.

Third, if you don't have the ability, don't force your help.

If it is a gesture for you to help your ex-girlfriend, then of course you can help, showing that you are generous and helping others.

If you don't have the ability to do it yourself, even if you want to help, you have to think clearly, after all, if you do it for a long time, the final result is not necessarily what you want, or not what the other party wants.

So whether or not you want to help sail the mess depends on the reason for the two of you to separate, and whether you yourself are capable or not.

It's okay to help, it's okay not to help. Ex-girlfriend, that is, your relationship has ended, and you have become the most familiar stranger.

We are socially distanced from strangers, so it's okay not to help.

If you say: I am kind, I am naturally enthusiastic to help others, I will help strangers in difficulty, and of course I will help my ex-girlfriend when she is in trouble.

That's no problem, it's a good thing to help people, of course you can help, that is, when you help, you have to clarify your identity, you are already each other's predecessors, if it is impossible to get back together, don't fantasize about getting back together with each other, or cause the other party's misunderstanding that you can continue the front edge.

If you happen to be both single, and you happen to be separated from each other and feel that the other person is okay and can continue to develop, then it is better to get back together.

For this kind of breakup, I think it can be divided into the following types for the help of the ex

1. Living in a dream.

This kind of girl usually has such a mentality, feeling that the male ticket was very lucky for her in the past, and after separation, this person still belongs to her own failure, and she should be good to herself as always, and feel that as long as she needs it, he should come over to help her immediately. For this kind of psychology, all I can say is, honey, don't live in dreams, okay? Do you think anyone can be summoned by you and go as soon as you call them?

Wake up! Second, I want to eat back grass type.

Well, as the saying goes, "a good horse doesn't eat back grass", but here's the problem, you're not a horse, so you can continue to eat. There is no reason to do anything, okay, find an excuse to meet, and then help after hiding is the best excuse. In this case, it's not that you can't understand it, the key depends on your situation, if you have the intention, then go and help, and the ending will definitely be happy.

3. Do whatever you want.

If you want me to say, this kind of girl is amazing. She really treats you as a friend, so she treats you the way she treats you, and she doesn't have the slightest thought about you. If you can put it down, go and help, if you can't let it go, don't go, I'm afraid you can't help but keep her, in this case, it's another trouble, don't make trouble for yourself, okay?

Let's sleep at home!

Four 、......It's so hot, I can't write it anymore, and I'll analyze it again when I have time. In short, it depends on the state of your relationship, try to think about the psychology of the other party, if there is no problem to help, if you feel inconvenient to refuse.

I don't think I should help rationally, so as not to feel uncomfortable in my heart. But my predecessor is in trouble, and I think I will still help. I don't know how to refuse, but I will tell him: please don't think about it, I'm just helping you as a friend!

It's always hard to say about the economic account, if you think it's worth helping, you can help, and if you don't help, no one will blame you. Since two people have broken up and have new friends with each other, why bother with a relationship in the past, and be misunderstood by your current or ex's current incumbent, and make any moves and contradictions, in addition to being hurt, you may also have love and money. Don't mess up your format, and keep the current one quietly.

First of all, it can be based on the principle of not disturbing. And then with the beam, if the ex has an object, forget it.

If you want to help, make sure that many people help is wishful thinking, thinking that the other person needs help. It's best to discuss it with the incumbent, as it is a sign of respect for the incumbent. If you encounter unreasonableness, you will have no tricks.

Your ex-girlfriend is having trouble if she asks you for help. Then you should help her, after all, the two of them used to be very much in love. 1. If your ex-girlfriend is in trouble and it is a big matter, she needs help urgently, and she asks for help from herself, then she should help.

Generally, the relationship between exes is more sensitive, if the ex-girlfriend encounters difficulties, like the ex's opening to borrow money, it may have reached a very difficult level, otherwise he will not ask for help from his ex, and if he is rejected, he will probably feel very sad. At this time, if you have the ability, then try to help your ex-girlfriend as much as possible, after all, the lovers who used to fight for rent are closer than ordinary friends, and in principle, there is no relationship after the breakup, but emotionally you should give support.

Second, if the ex-girlfriend is unhappy because of long-term discomfort in life, because of emotional difficulties, or unsatisfactory work and unsatisfactory life, then no matter how much help you have, you can't change your state.

If the ex-girlfriend you want to help is because of your own reasons, you don't have a stable job, your life will not be reasonably arranged, and you will let yourself live a chicken feather, then as an ex-boyfriend, even if you give more financial help, you can't change the lives of others, so it's best to think clearly before making a decision, don't end up with kindness to help, and like finding yourself a piece of sticky candy, it's troublesome to seek your own help if you have something to do.

3. Whether it is an ex-girlfriend or an ordinary friend, if a friend is morally in difficulty, he should help within his or her ability.

When we are in a relationship with someone, whether it is an ex-girlfriend or an ordinary friend, if the other party is in trouble for a while, we should try to help others as much as possible, because who has not encountered difficulties yet, and may not need the help of others. But it is necessary to distinguish the difference between emergency relief and poverty relief, and don't let yourself get into it.

When it is known that the ex-girlfriend is having a hard time. In such a situation. I need to find out what kind of difficulty the other party is first.

I can only help if I have the ability to help. Isn't there such a thing as a no-brainer? Although the two have broken up.

But after all, I once had it. There are some special reasons for breaking up. Of course, I help on the premise that it can't hurt me, and now my girlfriend's interests.

That's when I help. Because for me now. Girlfriend now.

That's what matters to me. I want to cherish my current girlfriend. What about the out-of-season girlfriend?

When he encounters a difficult nuclear spine, he comes to help, and he helps. If you really can't help, there's no way to do it. This is my principle and bottom line of being a man.

That's why it's difficult to know your ex-girlfriend. I can help. But I have my bottom line and principles.

Because that's what I think. Don't say she used to be my girlfriend. Even if he's just a normal friend of mine of the opposite sex.

Or just one of my classmates. As long as he has a hard time. As long as I can help the other person, I will help with such a favor.

Because that's what I think. A person will always encounter some twists and turns on the road of life in his life, and in such a situation, he needs the help of his relatives or friends. I think of it this way, helping others is the same as helping myself, which means that I often help people around me, including my ex-girlfriend.

That way, when I need help from others in the future. Only then will someone be willing to help each other. As people often say, this is what I am saying for everyone.

So, when it comes to knowing that your ex-girlfriend is having difficulties. As long as I can help them, I will definitely help. At the same time, I want to tell my girlfriend about the right to help.

I want to be honest and open. So that my current girlfriend won't misunderstand me. This will also give up a lot of troublesome things.

So, knowing that your ex-girlfriend is having a hard time. In such a situation, I will definitely help.

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Knowing that your ex is not in a good state and will want to help the other person, it shows that you are a very emotional person.

If you can treat your ex-girlfriend as a friend, you can generously take the initiative to lend a hand, and it is up to her to decide whether to accept it or not. If you are hesitant to worry about the relationship between the two people before, does it mean that you have other thoughts in your heart? Think further about what these thoughts or worries mean to you, and be aware of what you really think before making a decision.

If you decide to help the other party, it is necessary for you to ask for your wife's consent, on the one hand, it is to respect her wife and avoid unnecessary influence on your marriage; On the other hand, perhaps the wife can offer a different perspective and solution.

Ask your current wife or girlfriend for advice and see if you can agree?

Without going through your current dear person, she knows that her husband is helping his 'ex-girlfriend', and there will be hidden worries about conflicts between you and you.

Seeking the consent of the current person and then going to handle it is a 'justifiable help'.

Without going through the current situation, this kind of emotional help often turns a good thing into a bad end.

It's worth being a friend, just help.

First of all, there are 2 problems that you have to face.

1 What am I (lover.

Friends or doctors or multiple).

2. What is the premise and bottom line of my help.

When I reach that threshold, do I leave completely or do I keep my distance?

Think about these 2 questions first!

First of all, I think she was hurt, so I don't trust people outside! But what does it mean to open a house multiple times? Throw one by one, to put it bluntly, she is like this, and the man who opened a room with her is also such a man, I don't want to say whether she and the man who opened the room are bad people!

The forest is big, and everyone has it!

I think this person is also relatively stubborn in his heart, doing so many things, and not believing in love because she has not met (but it is a good thing to meet you) a good man, and this person is not too simple, she may not know what a good man is, and another point, she may be temperamental, or even selfish! If you can't control yourself, do you want to open a house??? What did she think!

So after you solve the first 2 questions, the third question is to understand her situation, her personality.

Hobbies, history, family environment, etc., learn as much as possible to get to know her better! You can't help her without knowing her!