A few months after the blind date, the man is going to get engaged? I cried myself

Although I'm a man but I'm about the same age as you, to be honest, I don't support you getting married now, and you should pay attention to the girl's lifelong events, after all, as you said, the two people are not familiar enough, and they are not sure if he can bring you happiness in the future, I feel that it is more appropriate to further understand. But I don't want you to have trouble with your parents, after all, they are also for you, and you should talk to them well. (It's not good for a girl to have a big temper, just like a girl I know who is also a 23-year-old horse, and when she disagrees with her parents, she stabs the door with her fist, and she doesn't want to think about the pain, it's still herself) to learn to adjust her mentality, and if you're angry, you'll be wrinkled, haha.

Girls should live for themselves, especially when they are young, they must do what they like, and they don't need to live for others to see. Everyone's thoughts are different, and your decision can't satisfy everyone, so don't think too much about it and make a decision that satisfies you! Come on!

If you don't like that boy, just tell someone, even if you hurt him for yourself, I think it's time to do this, tell him to be friends first because he is still young, I think he understands,

You have to make it clear, otherwise you will be accommodating, people will think you are reserved, and if you don't make it clear, you will be sad and useless.

Looks like you don't like that guy. If I like you, I won't be so sad.

Just tell the man

You're a garbage woman.

I'm a love psychiatrist.

1. After all, they don't know each other well through blind dates, and they are all rushing to get married, and the man is in a hurry to get engaged may be afraid that you will regret it, in case of a quarrel through understanding, it is easy to break up and want to trap the relationship.

2. Some boys go on a blind date, he may be eager to get married, so he wants to determine the relationship between the two as soon as possible.

3. Some men don't want their feelings to affect their careers, so they will be anxious to stabilize things when they determine their marriage partner, and then they will not spend their energy on love and can concentrate on work.

4. Of course, there are also factors that parents urge to marry, so the other party wants to reassure their parents, so they will choose to get married first.

5. Maybe the woman is particularly good, so she is not very secure, and she is afraid that the woman will be snatched away by others after repenting, and the engagement can make the girl at least have a sense of belonging and will not regret it easily.

The blind date has known each other for three months and is ready to get engaged, and this time is appropriate. Basically, the two of them got to know each other better after three months of dating. The best time to get married, that is, to get together for about a year.

This kind of thinking is indeed very hasty, because the time of contact between the two sides is still a bit short, and it is still necessary to constantly understand and keep in contact.

Let the feelings continue to heat up and increase.

But in some places, the so-called marriage is for both of you, as a couple, to have a reasonable identity and a legitimate relationship to understand.

This kind of marriage does not mean anything, if it is good, it will continue to communicate, and if it is bad, it will be broken up.

It's nothing, and it doesn't mean anything.

It depends on the situation, the man is older, his parents and himself are anxious, so it is understandable that he wants to get married as soon as possible. There is also a fact that I am more satisfied with the woman in all aspects, so I think this girl is here, so I want to make a marriage as soon as possible. There is also the man's shortcomings, afraid that the woman will know about it, so he wants to make a marriage as soon as possible, and the woman must figure out what she is making a decision.

The man who has known him for more than a month is in a hurry to get married, it should be that the man's family is in a hurry, as for what you think, it is better to listen to your parents' opinions, you have a bit of a flash marriage, and it is not impossible, as long as the other party is a good person, you also really love each other, and it is completely okay, but you still have to understand the other party more clearly, otherwise I am afraid that I will regret it in the future.

It may be that his family is urging him, or it may be that he feels older, but these are not your problems, you feel that the time has not come, so don't rush to settle things, it is not good for you and your family.

Of course it's not good, it's too urgent, the general man must have a problem, so you still have to be careful, don't be led by others, after all, it is a lifelong event, you must understand more before deciding, don't agree easily, otherwise you will be irresponsible to yourself.

There is an old saying called the night is long and dreams are many, and now it is like this, which means that the other party is very optimistic about you, afraid that you will fly, this is a very normal thing, there is nothing to say, the money is up to you, whether you are satisfied with the other party, and the engagement is just a ceremony, you have to decide as soon as possible, if you are not satisfied, it is okay to quit, marriage is a very important thing in life, one is to consider carefully can not be easily decided, you must think carefully before starting, be cautious!

If you seem to be in this situation, you still need to observe again, after all, you don't know each other very well, and only one month is not long enough, you should observe for another two months before making a decision.

What I want to say is that the girl is a man, and he is going to marry after knowing him for more than a month, is he too anxious Does he understand it clearly? Don't you feel like you're right with him I feel like his family is similar Or that you can adapt to his family and life, whether he can adapt to the relationship between your current family, and what is the background of his family So a series of adaptability needs to be cultivated slowly, nothing is not clear, nothing is certain Your relationship with him is just a relationship, and there is no such experience as living with each other, so if you say it, let's talk about it after a while If you get married in the month, the probability of divorce is still very high Hurried without any consideration.

Maybe I just want to get married in a hurry, I don't have any special ideas, my family is pushing tightly, and I definitely don't think there is any problem, so I get married. A person has a person's idea, you think it's too fast, you, can you discuss it? After all, this marriage is a matter of two people, and he is not the one who has the final say.

The time of knowing each other is too short, and you don't know enough about it, you can refuse it first, tell him, and then talk about it, and it's not too late to get to know each other and then get married.

A little anxious, you can tell the other party the truth, if the other party gives up on you because of this, then you don't have to be sorry, if the other party agrees with you, then get along again.

This is not good, the time of knowing each other is too short, the mutual understanding has not been clear, and the foundation of the relationship is not deep. Marriage is a major event in life, and it is not good to be so sloppy.

Shouldn't it be good? I've only known each other for more than a month, and to put it bluntly, I'm still a stranger. And marriage is a lifelong thing. How can you casually marry a stranger?

A month should also be decided, if you can continue to go, it is time to discuss the engagement of the parents, if it doesn't feel appropriate, don't continue, it's not good for both parties.

Do you see each other every day for a month?