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In the face of difficulties, they are not afraid but courageous. They don't blindly vent their emotions, but choose to use reason to solve things. They don't lose all their previous achievements because of a momentary hothead.
Of course, there are a lot of immature people in our lives. They are always like children, with tenderness and innocence. They always deal with things, they always like to be vague, they don't know what is the most appropriate way, they like feelings.
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Everyone's birth is different, and their fate will be different. Some people are born with fine clothes and food, glory and wealth; Some people are born with nothing at home. This is an innate factor that we cannot change, but that does not mean that fate cannot be changed.
A person's destiny, like doing things, is affected by "time, place, and people". Although it is usually the time and innate conditions that determine a person's initial destiny, it is necessary to rely on "people" and rely on one's own strength to strive for the top. If a person learns to be a man and learn to do things, he will naturally be able to change his destiny and become a person with a good life.
In the many thoughts of the ancients, they gave three rules of life to teach future generations to learn the counterattack of life and change their fate.
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They face difficulties, fearless, they face thorns, move forward bravely, they will not blindly emotional, but will choose to use reason to solve things, they will not because of the fever of the brain, which leads to the abandonment of previous achievements in our lives, of course, there are many immature people, they always look like a child, with a childish and naïve, they deal with things, always like to be vague, do not know how to be the most legitimate method, and like to be emotional.
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This vernacular speaks of the warmth and coldness of human affection and the reality of life. In the eyes of the weak, it is too difficult to live; In the eyes of the strong, difficulties are like floating clouds. Only with the determination to overcome setbacks can you reach the pinnacle of life.
People who are really capable often understand these three rules when dealing with the world.
1. Lingyun's ambition
As long as a person has set up lofty ambitions, his ambition is where his goal lies, and even at the end of the mountains and seas, his development cannot be restricted. His ambition can be invincible, and even if there are thousands of difficulties and obstacles, they cannot hinder his progress.
Those who have aspirations have their own ways to do everything, and those who have no ambitions have their own difficulties. All success, determination is the first step, where there is a will, there is a way, only to establish a lofty ambition and make unremitting efforts for it, in order to reach the peak of success.
2. Broad knowledge
A person who is deaf and clear-sighted must understand the current situation so that he will not be blinded by reality; If a person wants to understand human feelings, he must have rich experience, be well-informed, and practice natural human feelings.
Looking at the well and looking at the sky, there is only one hole to see; Climb the mountain and look far away, only to know that there is a sky outside the sky. Everyone is young and naïve, and they do things rashly; The more you know, the more you know that there are countless capable people, and the more you are in awe, so that you will not be arrogant, have the spirit of self-reflection, and continue to make progress and improve your ability and ability.
3. Perseverance
No matter how difficult things are in the world, some people can do it, and they just rely on their intentions. No matter how simple things are in the world, there are people who fail, and the reason is just carelessness. Doing things is inseparable from the spirit of perseverance, failure will come again, experience continues to accumulate, ability continues to improve, there is always a time to conquer suffering.
There are many great things in life, which are not successful by intelligence, nor by ability, but by patience. Just like the allusion of dripping water through stones and iron pestles into needles, people have perseverance and everything will come true, and people have no perseverance and everything will collapse!
In the face of great difficulties, as long as you have ambition, knowledge, and perseverance, you have nothing to fear. People who have the ability often understand these three rules, and if they are all in the middle, they are too powerful!
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