Is it true that the more mature people are, the more likely they are to feel lonely?

When I saw a sentence on the Internet, I felt sad: A man after middle age often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on. Because society is constantly improving.

The development of the market economy has increased, and internationalization has deepened day by day. The competition we face is also increasing. If you want to pursue a better quality of life, you have to face more work problems, more life problems, and so on.

Therefore, not only middle-aged men, but also middle-aged women, young men, and young women are all under the pressure of having four elders and two youngsters. The older we get, the more we need to take responsibility for the elderly and children. And people in middle age do not have advantages in many aspects (except for public institutions and technical jobs).

The more I grow up, the more I think, and my outlook on life, values, and worldview become more and more mature. And in the process of this, we will find that we have many attitudes or perspectives that are similar to others but are so different, and in this difference, we are prone to feel lonely. And when we have more time to spend with ourselves, it's easy for us to feel more and more lonely.

When you become an adult, you'll find that the days when you used to talk to your friends for hours and hours are gone. The friendship is getting weaker and weaker, and the address book is full of work**, and I finally took a break, only to find out that it was all work**, and there was no one who could talk to him.

The more mature a person is, the less easily he will bother others, and when we show off everything we have, we have already bothered others.

The more mature a person is, the more likely she is to feel lonely, but the more he will enjoy solitude, as a way to motivate his own growth. When you are lonely, please don't be confused and don't be afraid, make yourself a better person, and slowly you will meet those who are like-minded with you.

In today's society, it is natural that the more mature and lonely you are, everyone is working hard, but there are many people who forget their original intention and ignore a lot while struggling.

Loneliness is a transition period from naivety to maturity. If you grow strong in solitude, you will surely become a mature, responsible person; If you fall in solitude, you will be a depressed person.

The more mature people are, the more they will be calm and control their emotions when facing things. And such abilities often make them feel lonely.

Friendship lacks formal structure, strict commitment, and binding. It's unlikely that we'll go months without contact with our partner, but we can be estranged from our friends for an entire year. As we become adults, our responsibilities and focus shift, and that's when friendships are most vulnerable.

People are like this, after experiencing a certain event, they will begin to think and calm down, forget all the people around him, forget everything, forget time, and this time is called "loneliness".

It's true, I really didn't have this feeling before, I always felt that what others said was false, and I didn't know it was true until I experienced it myself. After I matured, I slowly felt that there were many things I shouldn't do, I had to be responsible for many things, and there were fewer and fewer people who knew me.

Loneliness is when there is no one to accompany or refuse to be accompanied by others. As a state, as long as a person is accompanied by someone, he is not alone; As an attitude, a person can choose to be lonely or not to be lonely, and people are very active in this regard.

The price of growing up may be what you have to pay, what you pay is innocence, liveliness, happiness, and many, many things that we don't know or even care about. Goodbye, ever. I am willing, growing up alone, and leaving those memories of you.

The older you get, the more you can see what you realize, and the more you feel that everything seems meaningless, so you feel lonely!

This phenomenon may be due to the following reasons:

1.Higher self-awareness: As people get older, they generally know themselves better and know what they really like and don't like. They may find that they prefer their own company to that of others.

2.Energy limitations: Young people often have higher social needs and abilities, but as they get older, people may find themselves with limited energy, they may prefer to focus their energy on limited social activities, or simply prefer to stay home quietly.

3.Pursuit of quality: Middle-aged people are often more concerned about quality of life, and they may prefer to choose social activities that satisfy them, which often require some alone time.

4.The need for reflection and introspection: As people get older, they tend to be more introspective and think about where their lives and future are headed, which often requires some alone time.

All of the above are possible causes, and the specific situation also depends on the individual's life experience and personality traits.

1. The life of adults is relatively stressful, and everyone has their own difficulties, and not everyone can empathize with them. 2. Adults have their own careers, and some people may neglect their families because of their work. 3. Some adults will feel that they have grown up and should no longer rely on their parents.

4. Adults are very sensitive in their hearts, they don't like to communicate with others, and they don't want to share their own things with people who are deferred from registering. 5. Adults have their own ideas in their hearts, and they are sometimes reluctant to share their thoughts with their parents, nor are they willing to let their parents interfere with their own ideas. 6. Adults have their own secrets, and they are reluctant to share their secrets with others, nor do they want others to interfere in their lives.

7. The mental age of adults is relatively old, and they will not be as carefree as children.