Do people who are more mature in mind have less exposure to life?

Regarding the issue of the circle of friends, it has been carried out on some news recently. Just like some time ago, Weibo was still discussing a new way to play WeChat, that is, the circle of friends is only open to friends for the first three days. That really caused a controversy on Weibo, and everyone had their own opinions and showed no mercy.

In fact, I like the circle of friends very much now, when I was young, I always felt that WeChat, WeChat circle of friends are things that mother-level people can play, like we young people should play more buckles, Weibo these tall things. But then I also started using WeChat, and I found that WeChat Moments is a place that protects privacy. Because in the past, when I shared some life on the button, no matter who gave you a comment, other people would see it, so sometimes I felt embarrassed.

But the circle of friends will not, it protects our privacy very well, so that those who are not friends can't see each other's comments, so for me and my friends, it is a way to speak more freely.

As for the matter of often posting moments, I think smart people should often post moments and take a look at their recent lives. Because now my WeChat group is not just our friends and family. There are many more work groups in it, and if you want to get faster and better cooperation, then WeChat Moments is a very good carrier or a platform.

In the past, I didn't like to post on Moments, because I thought it was a very cold behavior. It can give people a very mysterious feeling. But then I realized that this feeling was only for me.

Especially in the short period of time when I was doing advertising and sales, I found that WeChat Moments brought me a lot of help. Because of my work, I have added a lot of business owners and marketing directors. So how can you make them remember you from so many circle of friends?

That's basking in life. Because basking in life is a good way to get closer to each other. In this way, the other person will also have a feeling of joining your life group, and the level of mutual trust and intimacy will also increase.

But for the circle of friends in this aspect of work, I don't recommend too high frequency, two or three times a day is the most normal.

In the past, my colleagues also had the kind of people who didn't like to post moments, so in this case, when he often called the other party again to ask about the intention of cooperation, the other party would start to remember you.

So in my opinion, really smart and mature people should be able to post on Moments, because they will not let go of these business opportunities.

<> With Weibo, WeChat and other social tools becoming more and more widely used, many people like to bask on Weibo and Moments to eat, bask in the scenery, and bask in the other half. Now there is also a popular saying "mobile phone eats first", and many people like to share their lives on social networks and post their lives.

Many people will think that people with mature minds will not show off their lives, think that those who show off their lives are very naïve, and are very disgusted with those who are exposed to the sun and night, and feel that those people are just superficial scenery and just showing off their lives. Indeed, the purpose of some people's life is this, in order to show off and satisfy their vanity, this part of the people can be said to be immature and naïve. These people, no matter how big or small, all come to dry, and trivial little things also come to dry, making people feel that they live in this world just to use it to show their circle of friends.

I don't like this kind of circle of friends myself.

However, there are also some people who share a happiness with others in order to share a happiness with others, go to other places, encounter beautiful scenery, take pictures, show others, watch a good movie, bask in the circle of friends, and Amway others. Eat something delicious, dry it, and let the pot friends try it next time. Share the good things you encounter with your friends.

Wouldn't it be nice to share a happiness with multiple people? I think sharing social is for this, not for yourself, but for everyone.

Back to the topic, in fact, I think that life has nothing to do with mental maturity, whether your mind is mature or not, mainly depends on what kind of mentality you have to expose your life. And whether a person basks in life is mainly related to his personality and habits, some people like to share their happiness, and some people like exclusive memories and treasured them. There is no right or wrong in any of this.

For example, I think it's good that WeChat recently launched a new feature that only allows friends to view your circle of friends over a period of time. Personally, I like this feature, because after posting my life, it will automatically hide it for a period of time and become my own exclusive memory.

1. The adult world is self-aware.

According to the principles of psychology, everyone craves attention and respect, so it is beyond reproach to post a circle of friends to attract the attention of others and satisfy vanity.

What is the purpose of our Moments? Isn't it just a desire for attention, to see how many people care about and support us?

However, we can't post on Moments, no one cares if we are doing well or not, and we don't have that many audiences. In fact, everyone lives in their own world, and we are always a supporting role in other people's worlds.

In this world, apart from our parents, there are very few people who really want us to live well, especially better than them. Therefore, when we mix well, try to show off as little as possible on Moments, which is easy to pull hatred and cause others to be jealous.

These words seem to be a bit extreme, but they are also realistic, and they also show a law of human nature - people can allow a stranger to develop, but they cannot forgive the rise of a person around him.

Furthermore, do you have real friends in the circle of friends? It is estimated that many people just regard the circle of friends as a place to manage their contacts - it can be the icing on the cake, and there is little charcoal in the snow.

When you are developed, post a circle of friends, and it will instantly attract countless likes; Even old classmates and colleagues who haven't been in touch for a long time, when they see that you are good and that you are useful, they will take the initiative to greet you and call you brothers.

The circle of friends is like a small river and lake, bringing together relatives, friends, colleagues, customers, classmates and other acquaintances, and it is also full of human feelings, showing off comparisons, disliking the poor and loving the rich, warm and cold people, the world is hot and cold, and so on.

Therefore, many adults choose not to speak out after seeing the truth of the circle of friends. Isn't it better to live alone, with less expectations and fewer disappointments?

Showing your own life, more or less want to let your relatives and friends in the circle, or some people with specific relationships see, after seeing it, everyone will like and comment, and you will be concerned by everyone like the central character at a certain moment, and you will be in a good mood, especially the beautiful and enviable life of the sun, which will arouse everyone's envy, and the person himself will have a slight sense of superiority at the psychological level, which is actually a kind of satisfaction that is recognized by everyone. Most of the people who are mentally mature are strong in their hearts, love themselves and life, and their spiritual world is very rich and fulfilling, and they don't need to rely on a good life to make everyone envious and get temporary inner satisfaction. Live your own day, you don't need to show it to anyone, I hope we are all queens, and we shine with confidence!

Because after a person's mind matures, he has experienced many ups and downs, and he has seen many things very thoroughly, and he will not completely expose his life to others like some young people, know how to protect himself, know how to enjoy life without showing off, and will not let irrelevant people see his life.

A truly mature person will not deliberately flaunt his achievements, titles, or family fortunes, because they know that there are still people in this world who are inferior to them. It is precisely this understanding and understanding that makes them rarely expose their lives.

The more mature the mind, the more understanding of the difficulties of others, this understanding also contains a person's bearing and self-cultivation.

And the truly mature person understands a truth: on the same plane, there are both people walking in front and others walking behind.

Although they vary in distance or speed from each other, they all walk on the same plane equally. The so-called "pursuit of superiority" means that we are constantly moving forward, not being superior to others.

When we are able to free ourselves from the cycle of competition, there is no need to beat anyone, and we no longer see others as "obstacles" on our way to success.

No more basking in life.

Some people say that the more mature the mind, the less likely they are to live a life.

When an individual loves vanity and longs to be recognized by others, you will post your well-designed ** on social networks, and then hide all your shortcomings, so as to create your ideal image and vow to show your most beautiful self to others.

We are not qualified to judge the social style of others, everyone has some personal needs. But from the point of view of mental maturity, this is a sign of immaturity.

A truly mature mind is able to control its own desires, while an immature mind can only be controlled by desires. Truly mature people don't need to derive a sense of self-worth from the compliments of others.

The more mature the mind, the less people need to get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction through the appreciation and recognition of others, and naturally they rarely show their lives to others, which is meaningless and unnecessary.

The more mature the mind, the less vanity there is, and the more able they are to treat things from reality, so they are unassuming, unassuming, and relatively low-key, and the less they bask in life.

What is called the more mature the mind, the less people will show their lives, this kind of immaturity with people's psychology, what is the connection, there is no connection, some people like to show their own things to others to show what others show, and it is not necessarily to let you see others more The hospital just records your own life and waits until the next 10 years, or 20 years later, go back and look at it, because at that time your memory must have deteriorated, and you don't know what you were doing today 10 years ago or 20 years ago today, But if you turn to that record, it's easy to remember, you have to figure out what this means is not that every time someone else shows something, others are just recording, what you want to enter, just in your perspective, in your eyes, it seems to be life, you have to figure out this logical relationship.

Because the more mature the mind, the more mature the person. He is willing to keep his happy life to himself to enjoy with his heart. That way of living in the sun is not enough to prove his happiness.

Why is it that the more mature the mind, the less exposure to life? In fact, I think it's mainly because of the words of a person who is very mature in mind, so he is more mature and stable in doing things, and. She doesn't want to expose her life in front of everyone, she wants to have some private space, and if she doesn't want to show off her life, the main reason is that she doesn't want others to feel that she is showing off her life, and she is relatively low-key.

A person, the more mature his mind is, the more he knows how to understand the difficulties of others, the more he knows how to restrain himself, he knows what his upper limit is, what is his bottom line, and understands that what is in front of him is the most valuable.

People with mature minds rarely bask in their lives, and those who often bask in their lives often do not live happily. Happiness in a person's heart does not need to be exposed or expressed, but naturally revealed. Life, the scenery that really deserves attention, is yourself, instead of envying others, instead of showing off, it is better to enrich your own heart.

Personally, I think that life is your own, and there is no need to show off or show it off. If you have a good life, there is no need to show off, let alone show it, and I also believe that people who are really happy will not show off, will not show off, and will not be idle in life.

A person, the more he lacks something, the more he often likes to show off, so those who like to show off and like to bask in life often do not live happily, they just lack happiness. Life is your own, whether you are good or not, you just need to know it, there is no need to post it. People live with a heart, there is sunshine in their hearts, life is beautiful, there is happiness in their hearts, and life is happy.

A good life, a happy life, not elsewhere, has always been in your heart, only by strengthening your heart, can you live your own life and keep your happiness.

A person whose mind is becoming more and more mature, he will spend more time and energy on enriching himself, instead of basking in the circle of friends, and if he gets more sun, his happiness will not necessarily increase, but it will definitely become darker.

Xinzhi mature people rarely show their lives, this is because mature people generally don't care about these small details, especially unwilling to let these small details of their lives out, because they pay more attention to other more important things.