What is it like to break up for many years and still love each other?

What is it like to love each other after many years of breaking up? Probably, when the phone rang or vibrate, his heart trembled, and he immediately lit up the screen to see if it was a message from him, and then found that it was just Weibo's push today, and he would never take the initiative to contact him again, even if it was just a greeting.

Probably, when you hear someone accidentally mention his recent situation, your heart is shrinking and your heart is drumming, but you still have to pretend that nothing happened, pretend to listen calmly, and then say, "Oh, that's it." ”

Probably still, every day I will go to see his Weibo dynamics, see if he hasn't posted any news today, see which girl he interacts with very frequently, and then click into that girl's Weibo from beginning to end, and the bitterness in my heart slowly spreads.

Probably, there are still sweet group photos taken when they were together in the mobile phone and dare not delete them, and every day when I miss him very much, I turn it out and take a look, as if I am still with him, as if I can bump into his spoiled eyes as soon as I look up.

Probably, I will burst into tears when I hear every "exclusive memory", because I like you, it's really my exclusive memory, no one is allowed to take it out of my body, even if we are not together now, I still like you very much.

Probably, when I was with him at the beginning, you really never changed after the bad habits he didn't like were corrected, he likes straight hair, then you really never perm it again, always look at people with straight hair, he likes black hair, you really don't dye your hair honestly, for her, you have made all the changes, even if you break up, you don't want to change anymore.

I hope that all those who still love each other after the breakup can get out of this tearful day as soon as possible and find a different scenery in life as soon as possible.

Breaking up for many years can only show that in fact, in your heart, the other party is not so important, haven't you come over for so many years, but you will occasionally deceive yourself and ask yourself if you still love each other, but in fact, it confirms the lyrics: "Those who can't get are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear"; You have always loved her after breaking up, mostly because the breakup was also proposed by the other party, you are either unwilling, or unconvinced, but things still happened.

Then let's talk about the experience of the person you really love, maybe you have really loved, how deep the love is, how deep the pain is, you will wake up in every lonely day, or in a dream, or wake up from a dream, with tears, alone, nowhere to complain, holding her (his) **, or a person facing the computer, listening to the songs you used to sit together and listen to, the roads you have walked, the scenery you have seen, the food you have eaten, and the sweet actions you have done, but they are all a dream and come to naught.

You will wake up every morning with her words still in your ears, maybe you always don't believe it, you deceive yourself, and even want to run to his city to tell her that you still love her; But you don't have the courage, because you didn't have the courage to do what you did at the beginning, and now you are still so incompetent, you blame yourself again and again, beat and scold yourself, like a depressed person who is sick, and refuses to wake up for a long time.

What is it like? In fact, if you don't do it, you won't die, you won't be sober and sober, occasionally Yaoyao's own head, it's been so many years, if there is a if, will you wait until today? No matter who is right or wrong, it is handed over to the youth, you can't go back to yesterday, and after you choke on the bitter fruit, stand up and continue to live well, the other party has long since remembered you and started your own life, why bother practicing yourself.

Don't imagine living in your own imaginary world, what you need is to save yourself.

Feelings are fragile, but sometimes they are angry words, two people who were once together, and then only one remained. The rest of us are still obsessed with the person who left, and the person who left knew the other person's intentions but no longer accepted the difference, only because we were together. I used to have a friend who used to be a messy girl.

Ah, it's the kind of person who keeps changing boyfriends without a window period, who doesn't refuse to come, and doesn't chase after who goes. Listening to her evaluation of herself, she is quite chic.

Just some time ago, she broke up with her boyfriend who had been dating for almost a year. Long-distance relationships.

When we first got together. She said that this guy was her second relationship for her. The first paragraph is the first love, so I don't understand. Although they have not been together for a long time, only a little more than a month, we all know that with such a relationship, she can be serious enough to remember it for two years.

So when she happily talked about this boy, that happy look was like her first love. She said, "It's a miracle that you can like each other with someone who happens to be your own!" You can imagine how serious she is about this relationship. <>

She only has him in her eyes, and he says that he will be unhappy to see her interacting with other boys, but he can't stop her. She began to avoid other boys, and gradually, he was almost the only one of the opposite sex in her life. She washed her hands and made soup for him, and made him a bento every day.

She was able to give her all her goodness.

And now it's his inner drama that can be played for a long time with a random like and a comment, get up and brush his WeChat steps to brush his circle of friends, and want to know everything about him, but everything about him has nothing to do with him, the only thing related is that he can never go back to the past.

I feel like a lot of people around me are like this, I have a friend, he is like this, although they broke up, but he has always liked the woman, he said that she has her own love, but she still likes the woman very much, but she has always refused to give up. And then I want to wait until one day, he can change his mind, in fact, I personally think it's very painful, this is obviously in love but can't be together, in fact, I personally think you can consider other girls, one day you will find that you will also fall in love with someone else.

I was very conflicted in my heart, thinking about the other party but not daring to say to her, I could only record that I wanted to talk to her, I really wanted to be with her, and I would promise to treat her well.

Although they didn't come together in the end, first love is first love after all, and it is the most profound no matter what time it is. What she can never let go of in her heart is her painful feeling.

Why do you feel that after breaking up, you love each other more and more?

From the moment you break up, the relationship is destined to come to fruition, so stop having illusions. Instead of not being able to let go of this relationship all day long and grieve for it, it is better to spend time on changing yourself and making yourself excellent, so that the road of love and career will become smooth, and when you really have a new love, the so-called can't let go and let go.

You've been together, have the closest relationships, rely on each other, and miss each other all the time. But since the relationship has come to an end, it should be completely cut off. When we meet again, it only adds to the sadness.

A relationship is scarred, and you can't go back to the past, don't think too beautifully, the fact is that the cruelest ending you can think of is waiting for you, whether a person has feelings for you or not, you can feel it, sooner or later you have to let go. So, let those who don't know how to cherish our good go, free and easy.

Human beings themselves are stupid and lazy creatures, and through the influence of social order, morality, education, and many other aspects, we will allow ourselves to present a relatively perfect state in the constraints. But this is not the real self, but the id, which is shaped under the influence of the superego, when we leave those social environments and enter the environment of interaction between two people, the influence of the superego becomes weaker, and the influence of the ego becomes greater, and we will let go of the shackles and show our true selves.

But we will ask the other person not to let go of the pretense, but to keep improving, to become more perfect, obviously this is an extremely double standard thing, maybe because of love we can do it for a certain period of time and tolerate it. But with the passage of time, one day it will not be able to hold on, and many people break up at this stage, and the breakup is not bad for anyone, just because we have no experience.

Therefore, after separation, leaving the environment where two people communicate, entering the social environment, and thinking about the previous things, you will find that in fact, the other party has many advantages not so early. At this time, I will feel guilty again, I have done so many excessive things to him, but I will have a sense of shame, and under the comprehensive influence, I will suddenly feel more in love with each other.

It may be that distance produces beauty. It's because when there is no breakup, two people are tired of being together all day long, and they will naturally feel troubled if they don't have private space for a long time.

Now that the two of you have been separated for a while because of the breakup, you have had a better cooling-off period and private space for each other, and then now in retrospect, you realize that you loved each other so deeply. If you love each other more and more, it is recommended to get back together as soon as possible. If it's one-sided, you can also test if he has the idea of compounding.

This is because two people don't cherish each other when they are together, so after they are separated, they feel that they have lost forever, and they will feel very sad in their hearts, and they will feel more and more in love with each other.

I feel that after the breakup, I love each other more and more. That's because you're already good with each other, but you can't think calmly because of your mood swings. Once you calm down after the breakup, you will think of many good things, and then you will love him more and more.

It may be an illusion to feel that you love each other more and more after a breakup, because you broke up with the other person, and you know that you have lost her, so you will miss the days when we were together, and you will have that feeling of loving each other more and more.

When I didn't break up, I was together every day, I always felt tired and bored, and I didn't see each other for a long time after the breakup, and I didn't have her to take care of her, but I missed it more and more, which is the same as being separated for a long time.

That's what it feels like to get, not to cherish, to lose. Like cherishing, so some feelings should not be easily let go, and they will definitely be lost if they are let go. So your feeling may be that after letting go, you still can't let go of your previous feelings.

After the breakup, you love each other more and more, which means that you don't feel the advantages of the other party in love, and now that you have broken up, you know that the other party is the person who loves you the most, and is very good to you.

Because two people are breaking up, you will suddenly miss other things that have been good to you in the future, and after the breakup, you will have a special nostalgia for the past and ignore the bad side of him who used to be to you.

This feeling is more common in real life, often get not know to cherish, lose only to know regret, this kind of thing happens often, it also shows that you don't cherish each other enough when the two of you are together, after the breakup, you feel that the other party is indeed the person you love through comparison and comparison, and it is true that you still can't let go of him in your heart and can't do without him, so the need for this kind of affection also shows the change in your heart, through the comparison you will understand these things, if there is a chanceYou can contact him again through various channels to relieve this uncomfortable psychological state in your heart, which is what you should do.

Because you can't get it after a breakup, you feel more and more in love, and the more you can't get it, the more you care about second-hand things, you don't have this feeling before you break up, and there will be a sense of loss after the breakup.

This is understandable, so many people love each other more and more after feeling that they have broken up, mainly because they will understand each other after the breakup, and they will understand the relationship, think of the other party's dedication, and the happy moments in the relationship, and slowly feel regretful.

When you are with each other, you don't feel that the other person is so good, and after separation, some people compare with him, and you think he is very good.

In fact, it is a normal phenomenon, every man and woman who breaks up will feel this way, in fact, it is not necessarily more love, but just unwilling.

Because after the breakup, you have a certain distance, after all, two people have loved each other so much, so they will definitely love each other more and more.

This is your inner thought that you don't want to lose the other person, and for such things, it also belongs to you who really loved the other person in your heart.

Because you feel that after the breakup, the other party's image in your mind is better, maybe you have discovered the advantages of him that have not been discovered for many years.

After breaking up, all I think about is the good of the other party, so I magnify those good infinitely, so I will feel that the other party is so good, and I will feel that I love each other more.

Because you care about each other very much in your heart, you will feel that the other person is very good after the breakup, and you will feel that you love each other very much. If this happens, you can get back together.

This is called easy to fall in love and difficult to get along with, and only when you lose it do you know how to cherish it. This is the true feeling of many lovers. Cherish the people in front of you.