What does it feel like to be in a relationship for many years and break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Regret, pain, resentment, unwillingness, the experience is not important, what matters is what has been learned from the failed relationship? What did you understand? A relationship carries too many memories of each other, no matter whether it is beautiful or painful for each other, they should be thanked, it makes them mature and their hearts become strong.

    If you fail in love, you can't extricate yourself from it, like the sky is falling, and the final love failure is doomed, love failure is not terrible, what is terrible is that you lose yourself, you should reflect on where you are not good enough in love, slowly self-correct, get it calmly, lose it indifferently, fight for its inevitability, and go with the flow.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is a song called, walking and walking and falling apart, the feeling of breaking up, no one can say, or tired of it, there is a new love, or, the parents of both parties do not agree, I feel that the song that can represent true love, and only Amu's has a kind of love called letting go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When it comes to this question, I think it's a heart-wrenching topic. After many years of love and finally broke up, most of these couples broke up between 25-30 years old, and it was when the relationship for many years was about to come to fruition, but they finally broke up for one reason or another. From the most youthful time to the slow maturity, they have witnessed each other's growth, from young and frivolous to finally succeeding, it can be said that the best time in life is accompanied by each other, but in the end they can't continue to go on.

    If I had to say what kind of experience it was, what kind of feeling I think would be the word "regret". Years later, when you recall that relationship, whether it is a peaceful breakup or an unhappy breakup, the reason is no longer important. Perhaps the only thing that I am silently thinking about is this regret.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Breaking up is a very sad thing, everyone has been familiar with it for many years, it has surpassed love into family affection, and suddenly one day he (she) disappeared in your life, just like the body was hollowed out, there was no soul, did you sleep asleep suddenly chest pain, suddenly awake, tears have unconsciously flowed down, it turns out that she, he, is still in my dream, one day and two days, one day and two days, time has passed, my heart is light, without you, it turns out that I am still alive, and I smirk twice when I recall.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Some people say it's funny. Surely love is together. In fact, in real life, there are many couples and even couples who are in the same bed and have different dreams, so in this case, the breakup must be reluctant, but more often than not, there is a sense of loss when there is suddenly a lack of people next to them.

    I don't feel very sad in my heart, there is still a little sadness, after all, people are still affectionate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are some reasons for the breakup, and both parties must have them. It may be a temperament, or the external material conditions cannot be satisfied, but no matter what, you can still go and see what can be done better, readjust, and start again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After all, we have been together for many years, and our feelings are all there, and it takes some time to alleviate them. You can choose to go out for a walk, adjust your mood, and start over.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A friend of mine, who talked to her boyfriend for four years, they were high school classmates, and the boy confessed to her after the college entrance examination, and then she knew that the boy she liked also liked herself, and the most beautiful thing should be this, they applied for the same university, and they were together after the college entrance examination. Different majors in the same school, my friend has a very bad temper, she herself said that sometimes she can't bear her temper, but her boyfriend really spoils her, tolerates everything about her, once she had a birthday, her boyfriend colluded with a few people in our dormitory to give her a surprise, at that time my friend cried, campus romances are very simple, eat together, go to class together, make ** porridge at night, my friend has said more than once, her bad temper is used to by her boyfriend. When I was about to graduate, one day I asked her what she was going to do after graduation, she said she didn't want to graduate, I asked why, she said that she would break up after graduation, and then I knew that because of their physiognomy problems, the man's parents disagreed, my friend was a dog, her boyfriend was a chicken, and the man had a falling out with his parents because of this, and he ran away from home, but he didn't agree, and finally they discussed, and they broke up after graduation, and after talking to me, my friend cried, and cried when he hugged me, which was very sad.

    After graduation, my friend lifted the couple's space, and thousands of messages were deleted, and I still remember that she cried all night that night, four years, because of the incompatibility, she broke up, it sounds ridiculous, but they really broke up, and it must be very painful in my heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The feeling of breaking up in love for half a year: If the other party proposes to break up, you have been in love with her, it will definitely hurt. If you don't like each other, breaking up is called release. If you love each other very much and break up due to other pressures, it is called heartache.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After half a year of falling in love, the breakup feels like this:

    1. Happy breakup; Resume singleness and say goodbye to love.

    2. Breakup sadness; I don't want to be separated, so I want to keep it.

    3. Breaking up and missing; If you don't cherish it at the time, you will read it.

    4. Heartbreaking; The relationship between being deceived and being deceived.

    5. No feeling; You say you, I am me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After talking about love for half a year, since I broke up, I must feel very uncomfortable, and it is also a very sad and lost feeling, and it is also a repositioning and re-understanding of myself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It must be sad and sad, because I gave my feelings, but there was no good result.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After half a year of falling in love, what is Guan Yu to break up? If you really like each other very much, your heart will hurt very much, of course. Can't put it down. They will not think of each other in real time. If true. If you like each other, don't give up easily.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No one is the same, if you are too affectionate, you will be miserable, and some are relieved, two people are unhappy together, no matter what, don't be entangled when you break up, after a long time, it will fade.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It feels like there is no unified answer for people, so it's a big question.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    For those partners who have been in love for ten years and finally chose to break up, this feeling is undoubtedly an unforgettable pain, and this relationship will always be buried in the psychology of two people, and it is impossible to forget.

    Two people have been in love for ten years, it can be said that the best time of their youth are dedicated to each other, in this ten years, carrying too many good memories of two people, ups and downs and joys and sorrows, two people have paid a lot in their feelings, they are all from the heart of the desire, can bring each other happiness, but the final result, contrary to expectations, this will undoubtedly make two people feel particularly painful, especially regretful things.

    If you want to calm the pain brought to two people because of this relationship, it will take a long time, or even a lifetime, with this regret and pain. But despite this, you should still let yourself go on as much as possible, after all, life still needs to go on, since it is no longer possible to let this relationship finally go to the end, then let this feeling leave the best memories in your heart, let yourself cherish it forever, life is like this, this is also a person's growth process.

    In the future life, I will cherish my partner more and know how to maintain my marriage and family more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After ten years of love and a breakup, it is likely that they will not be able to forget this person in the short or long term, but since they can break up, it must be because there have been many misunderstandings or frictions in the past ten years, and the two people cannot reconcile, so they can not reconcile even if they have been together for so long, which shows that the problems between them are very big, and there are a lot of them. Because Chinese medicine is free from all these troubles.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ten years in love, in fact, it is the same as husband and wife. It's just a piece of paper. But I haven't been in love for ten years, so it's better to say if you only love or not, and say that it's only sensual and interesting in the second half of the section.

    The breakup was very uneventful. It doesn't feel much. If there is affection, because everyone knows each other too well in a long time together, advantages, disadvantages, sexual interests, goodness, sadness, enemies, benefactors, and so on.

    Ordinary people have a saying about what they say, and even you know how many rats you have in your house. But that's not the end, the parents on both sides doubt your intentions, but they can't say anything about your feelings. But once the breakup is for two, it is a relief for both families.

    You yourself are also a kind of relief, but ten years of youth have not achieved positive results. Because what is left behind in life? Cultivate something!

    Because no one is interested in the second half of your life. However, there is a but, love, and it is a painstaking love, ten years, so what is left in the bottom of my heart is which person who will linger for life? I don't think so, because no one left anything for anyone.

    It's just a long memory. Therefore, love is to strike while the iron is hot, to have a home and a goal to rely on each other. Interdependence is all that matters.

    This dependence is not financial, not physical, but mental.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After talking about love for ten years and breaking up, the first feeling must be unreal, sad, after all, they can't be separated for so many years, and suddenly they will feel very unreal, and they feel that this time it's a joke or something, and they haven't been married for so long, which means that the two people have tended to be dull and boring, and they have regarded each other as family, and they must be very light for the relationship, and they tend to be relatives, if they break up, they will definitely break up peacefully, and they won't cry like those young people!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After ten years of falling in love, you have broken up, if you are a person in your heart, it will be very painful, and life is worse than death, but if you don't have each other psychologically, then you don't feel anything about breaking up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some people are reluctant to leave, and they love him more than he loves you, so they keep using you as a spare tire, and when others ignore him, they only think of you.

    The longer the time drags on, the weaker the real feelings become, not because they see people's hearts for a long time, but because they get used to it over time. The person who has been in love with you for a long time and hasn't said to marry you will suddenly break up with you one day, I don't dare to say 100%, but there is a high probability that it is.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Heartache, hatred, feeling that the earth has stopped spinning.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I have experienced it myself, the woman agreed to break up, and I am relieved!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is not necessarily, not that the longer it goes, the more emotional it becomes.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It doesn't matter what I think?

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