Always magnify the little things that ordinary people don t care about, and finally involve themselv

I think that some people like to magnify small things, not necessarily because of the person's psychological problems, which is not enough to show that a person has psychological problems. Some people like to magnify small things, which shows that they care about this matter very much, which seems to you to be a small thing, but in his opinion, it is a big thing. From the point of view of psychological nutrition, he cares because he lacks it himself.

For example, some fathers who have lacked love since childhood will love their children very much, and some parents who have been hungry since childhood respond to their children's requests for food. And from a psychological point of view, everyone will pursue their own sense of superiority.

Show yourself superiority. A trivial thing is a very remarkable deed for him.

I think it's like a person who only loves you will behave very naïve in front of you, if he doesn't love you and matures your uncle in minutes, believe it or not, so, it depends on the specific reason, maybe he will magnify the little things because he cares about you and let you notice him, maybe because he doesn't want to have any intersection with you anymore and quarrel with you on a small matter, everything has two sides, and it has little to do with whether there is a psychological problem, the important thing is to see what kind of mentality you have with his attitude, It doesn't matter if you're disgusted or impatient, just like a lot of people will quarrel with you only if someone loves you.

This kind of person may be habitual, or it may be pessimistic. If you exaggerate good things, you like to brag. Such a person is afraid that the world will not be chaotic, and he always likes to watch other people's jokes, and he is fine, but once such a person is spread, nothing will become something.

In fact, everyone has a narrow-minded side, but we usually don't find it, in the work, some people are narrow-minded, he can't tolerate a little negligence, because a little mistake will lead to unpredictable consequences, this is called meticulous, his magnifying glass is used in the right place, in life, some people are very resistant to the kind of small mistakes, big mistakes do not make the practice, he will try his best to avoid every thing that he thinks is wrong, this is a rigorous attitude.

This is the mentality of the weak, like to magnify things, the pursuit of maximum interests and attention, if it is not good for their own or undignified things for the weak side, they will be small, and the big things are to let the strong bear the small things to be magnified and let the strong side bear, so there are many benefits.

That's a problem of human body, that kind of person is too demanding to be perfect, things require perfection and at the same time to get along with others with a tolerant heart, hey, no way, it's just that some people are like this, they have to make more trouble in order to withdraw that she is right, others are wrong, it's a big deal that she ignores people, regardless of what other people think.

This is also to divide people. There are some people who can distinguish priorities and priorities, and they will not change from small to big. If you're talking about quarrels, sometimes everyone turns over old accounts like this, so it's getting bigger and bigger.

Let it be a little bit in the small things, and don't bother to coax it, and express it more in action. But you can't mess around in big things, it's really going to be spoiled, and it's not good for anyone.

There are really such people, including your family, friends, a small thing, he just wants to make it big, I think, mainly related to their own cultural level, natural character, it is not entirely right to say that they have psychological problems, psychology will definitely affect behavior, so these people can not simply say that they have psychological problems, the reasons are many.