What is a real laydown?? What is really letting go, and what is letting go

The real letting go is when facing the person who once haunted me, there is no ups and downs in my heart, and when facing the things that once made me linger, my heart becomes calm and calm.

The real letting go is not not not to connect, not to think, but to face the people and things that have been unmoved. When a person can become unmoved by the things he once cared about, he has already let go.

There is a very interesting phenomenon in life, when we are struggling to lift heavy objects, it is easy to think of letting go. That's because the pressure of heavy objects forced me to make such a choice.

In life, we will find that it is not so easy to let go of ourselves, whether it is a relationship or a matter that we are obsessed with, because we care, our minds are also moved.

But don't be too nervous, it is these people and things that can't be let go of that make life colorful, and after we make the decision to give up, as time goes by, the time spent on the people and things before us will be reduced, and it is also the norm of life to let everything return to nature.

What I am afraid of is to deliberately let go, the more I want to let go, the more I want to get rid of the pain, the more I will feel the pain, the mind is always there, and I can't really let go at any time.

Giving up is a choice, and letting go is a state of mind. When the state of mind is not reached, use some methods to let yourself give up first, and at the same time focus on other places, and over time you will be calm.

In a relationship, the real letting go is not that you hate him when you think of him, not that you blame him when you think of him, nor that you remember him badly when you think of him, and it is not that you can't remember anything related to him when you think of him.

And the real letting go is a kind of thinking of him, you will still remember the warmth he once gave you, and you still haven't forgotten the bits and pieces that the two of you have experienced together, but all of these, you know are just memories and experiences, and you only regard them as a thing of the past, you will no longer have any unwillingness, no more regrets, and no more a little bit of thinking about what to do with him.

Therefore, letting go is not "deliberately not remembering", but "I still remember, but it is all in the past".

On the other hand, those who deliberately avoid talking about someone, those who show hatred for the other person when they mention it (love and hatred are earnest), or when you ask someone about her, she says that she has forgotten everything, and so on, most of them are not really letting go.

The real letting go is that you can calmly accept the fact that the relationship is over, that you can happily look at the beauty of the past, and that you can calmly face the present person.

The real letting go is.

See the man.

See something like that.

There will only be one feeling.

Oh... It seems to have passed by once.

That's true letting go.

Putting it down is. When you need to ditch something.

Or some kind of feeling.

That's the case.

Let's call it down.

Really let go, there is no ripple in the heart, return to the previous normal heart to look at, even like a different person, the previous hatred can be indifferent! In the future, those who love deeply can smile slightly, and the ones who were entangled before will never be touched again! No matter what kind of state of mind, if you really let go, you will feel:

Oh... But that's it! There are no complicated emotions, as if it were someone else's story.

It's easier said than done! The so-called let go, but only on the surface of the let go, but has been in the heart, maybe time will gradually indifferent to everything, until then can really let go, and it will be relieved, but it is still inevitable, occasionally I will remember, or a "only brow, but on the heart", try to let go, let everything go with the wind, you will find that it is good to let go, at least the heart is no longer so tired.

In a relationship, it's easy to like someone, but if you have true feelings, it's hard to really let go.

However, if you do the following, it means that you have let go.

1. Be able to get along with each other as friends.

When we broke up, we both said that we would still be friends in the future, but from the role of lovers to friends immediately, I think few people who have really loved can do it. So,Time is the best medicine, and when two people can get along as friends, it means that everyone has truly let go of the relationship.

2. There is no hatred, only gratitude.

When you really let go of a relationship, the unwillingness and resentment that you couldn't love at the beginning have long since disappeared, and only gratitude is left in your heart. WhenWhen you sincerely thank the other person for the hurt they have done, you really let go.

I still remember the love between Xie Na and Liu Ye back then, it was also vigorous at that time, they were in love for six years and never got married, and then they both had their own happiness, and when they met again, the two of them could face it calmly, and they became relatives and friends from the original lovers.

3. Rediscover the feeling of being a lover.

In a relationship, when we can accept another person, it means that you have truly let go. Although the previous feelings are unforgettable, if you meet another person who makes your heart flutter, it means that you can already let go. Letting go does not mean forgetting, but just hiding the emotions in the bottom of the heart, not being eroded by the years, and the heart is no longer painful when you think about it, only warmth.

4. No longer reminiscing about the past.

When we truly let go, we don't recall the bits and pieces of the past anymore. Because, when that person chooses to leave you, no matter how good he has been to you, it no longer makes any sense. When we no longer recall the beauty of the past relationship, and start to work hard to live and make ourselves better, it means that you have let go of that former relationship.

In love, let go in order to start again. When you're in the mood to start over, you're truly letting go.

Remember, no matter how deeply the relationship hurts you, you can't let yourself fall.

Love yourself, and you can get the next stop of happiness.