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There is a problem here, that is, there are some differences in the way of thinking and acting between the two generations.
Just like us, our elders say that we change certain behaviors, and we may have heard it at the time, and we may still be the same after that!
These are some behavioral habits that can't be changed in a day or two!
The children's grandmothers can't be idle, they want to do something when they have time!
For my grandmother, she thought like this: I can earn some pocket money while taking care of the children, which is really a double win!
The child's grandmother thinks that the child is still young, and it is not very urgent to do homework, so it is...
But for the child's mother, it is important for the child to develop the habit of doing homework, and this is the contradiction!
Personally, I think that the child's grandmother earns some pocket money, there is nothing wrong, the key is to do this when taking the child, it is a bit inappropriate! The main thing is that maybe the child is not safe either!
I really have to talk to the child's grandmother, either to help you take care of the child, or to think of other ways?
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It is a good thing to let parents watch their children take their children to work, and it is good to cultivate children's self-help ability from an early age, and not be restricted by all aspects when they grow up.
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This normal older generation is very diligent, and there is nothing wrong with working with children!
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Let the parents watch the children, but the parents take the children to work? Actually, it's a good thing. Cultivate children to develop a good habit of loving labor from an early age. Just don't ignore your child's studies and work until late!
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I think parents take care of the overall situation, there is work to do, and children still need to watch, so take children to do it and understand parents.
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In the countryside, this is very normal, as long as the safety of the child is ensured, so that the child can also be exercised?
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It's not a bad thing for grandparents to take their children to work, and it's good to exercise.
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Legal analysis: It is not necessarily necessary, but parents have the obligation to support their children, and children also have the obligation to support their parents, and children, as one of the members of the family, should help their parents to work.
Legal basis: Article 26 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 26 Parents have the obligation to raise, educate and protect their minor children.
Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.
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It is not necessarily necessary, but the father and mother have the obligation to raise their children, and the children also have the obligation to support their parents, and the children, as one of the members of the Bi Chi family, should help their parents work.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 26 Parents have the obligation to raise, educate and protect their minor children.
Adult children have a duty of support, support and protection to their parents.
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Legal analysis: It is not necessary to be senxiang, but parents have the obligation to raise their children, and children also have the obligation to support their parents.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 26 Parents have the obligation to support, educate, and protect their minor children.
Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.
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I think it's affection.
Parents only have the obligation to raise their children, and children only have the obligation to support their parents, as for the children's children, the parents help to take care of the baby is love, in order to reduce the burden on the children, because they feel sorry for the children, and they are unwilling to take the baby is also their duty, you said that the parents worked hard to raise us, reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, most of the money is used on us, we finally graduated from college, and it is time to get married, the little money that the parents saved, It was used to sponsor us to get married, so why do we have to trouble our parents when we have children? My parents haven't rested since they gave birth to us in their 20s, and now that they're old, do you have to help us take care of the baby? So what does a person want to do when he lives this life?
Or when a person gets married, what is the point? Is it just to keep repeating the process of taking care of children? Bring your own children, suppose you don't think you have time to take care of a child, then don't give birth, or discuss with your parents, and regenerate in the case that they are willing to take the baby, we used to be children, and we will eventually be parents, we are harsh on our parents, and we will eventually be treated harshly by our children in the future, anyway, if I have a child in the future, if my parents are not willing to bring, I will bring it myself, and in the future, my child will have a child, I will take it if I am willing to take it, I am not willing to bring, I will give financial help, such as paying to help them hire a confinement sister-in-law, if I am a mother-in-law, my daughter's in-laws are not willing to take care of the children, I will pay half of the confinement sister-in-law, and let my Wang Zhengwan daughter's mother-in-law pay the other half of the money.
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Don't let your parents spoil their children too much, when the child makes a mistake, you can't let your child go because of doting, if you can't handle it yourself, you can tell the child's parents. Also, don't buy too many unhealthy snacks, including cold carbonated drinks, for your child.
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1. Pay attention to the discipline method, because the next generation is relatively close, so the grandparents will love the children more much, which may lead to excessive spoiling, so pay attention to telling parents not to be overly pampered. 2. The parents of the older generation have more traditional ways of giving birth, so they must communicate with their parents in a timely manner.
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If you don't have time to watch your child at work, you will often have the problem of intergenerational care when you hand over the baby to your parents. Parents may spoil their children, and there may be differences in educational concepts, so you must be psychologically prepared to hand over the baby to your parents.
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