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1. Learn with your child. Parents can learn with their children and make them feel that they have company. When I was studying, I didn't feel lonely and I thought it was fun. The company of parents is really important!
2. Encourage your child to ask questions. Encourage your child to ask questions that he doesn't understand, or that he doesn't seem to understand. In addition to studying, children are also encouraged to ask other questions, that is, let them develop the habit of asking questions that they don't understand.
3. Teach children patiently. It may be that the child's receptivity is very poor, but you must control your temper and don't want to get angry just by teaching it. Teaching children to learn requires patience, explain it to your child slowly, and be a patient parent!
4. Give children learning rewards. You can give your child some rewards, as long as your child can improve from before, give him a reward. Reward is the best support for the child.
5. Talk to your child more. Don't look at the child's age, in fact, he understands many things. Parents should talk to their children more so that they understand the importance of reading and pay attention to learning.
6. Check the homework every day. Check your child's homework every day. Don't excuse yourself as busy, or otherwise, not to check your child's homework. Checking homework is also a pressure for the child to know that his parents are supervising his studies. Can't let up!
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Parents encourage their children to learn the following habits:
1. Create a harmonious atmosphere of progress.
A child's growth is a particularly complex and variable. To create a good environment for children to learn, it is not to let children study all day long and not do anything unrelated to learning, but to let him really feel that the people around him want him to study well. The atmosphere of harmony and progress is the driving force for children to forge ahead and the catalyst for children to change their life values.
2. Set an example for your children.
In order to let children learn well and stimulate their learning potential, if parents can lead by example and play a role model, then they can let children have a learning goal and then develop the habit of learning. Parents are the best teachers for their children, and simple truths are pregnant with infinite wisdom.
3. Use gestures to encourage children to learn.
Use gestures and words to encourage your child's performance, such as clapping their hands or compliments, but be sure to be specific to let your child know that they are good**, such as "Your drawing is so beautiful" or "Your writing is very good!" "Your grades are very good".
4. Use language to encourage children to learn.
When children encounter something they dare not do, parents should use this sentence to encourage their children's courage. In school, making friends, and in school group life, children will encounter things they have not done at any time, and their hearts are full of fear, which is a matter of course. Parents are always ready to encourage their children.
Children's confidence and courage come from the encouragement of parents.
When parents keep telling their children, "No problem, I believe you", the children gain strength from their parents to bravely face the problems in their lives.
5. Pay attention to the use of diversified expressions.
The younger the child, the more diverse the ways we encourage him, so that he can get the maximum acceptance of the senses, such as clapping, smiling, hugging, eye contact, saying "you are awesome", etc., the combination of action and language will be better, because the baby will feel more encouragement.
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I always take my kids out to play, and it feels better than material rewards.
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Many parents understand that it is to reward their children's efforts, but this is too abstract and difficult to operate. The best thing to do is to reward the whole family. How?
The improvement of a child's performance is undoubtedly the result of hard work, but it also includes the efforts of the family, so it is naturally the whole team that is rewarded, not just the individual.
So, this reward should be for the whole family, such as going to a movie, going to an amusement park, having a big meal, attending a concert, and going on a trip. I believe that this approach is more objective from the perspective of a third party.
Material rewards can easily become a means of blackmailing children, and the reason why children are given material satisfaction is because they need it; The second is because he put in the effort to get this thing.
A good parent in my mind is that when the child does not do well in the test, he does not scold, he does not beat, nor scolds, and when he does not do well, he becomes very good, buy this and buy that. You see, the child's requirements are not high, and they have nothing to do with money, but this thing that has nothing to do with money is the most expensive thing in the world, happy! Scum do understand!
Companionship! Love! None of these things are directly related to money.
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I think it's okay to celebrate on a small scale as a family to encourage children to continue to work hard, but it's a bit of an exaggeration to celebrate with a big feast.
Learning is the child's duty when he was a student, and 60 points is the standard for testing the child's learning results.
Of course, things can't be generalized, the child in the topic may not have found a proper learning method or just become interested in learning, the passing grade is the first success after his efforts, as a parent is also for the child to learn and progress to do their best to support him. Now that both the child and the parent have been rewarded, the parents are too excited for a while to celebrate in such a way that I find exaggerated.
I think there is a certain disadvantage to this, that is, it is easy to make children satisfied with the status quo and not want to make progress. If the child works a little hard to achieve a little results, the parents will show people in this way that they are extremely satisfied, and the child's psychology will produce inert thoughts, thinking that as long as they can get a passing score in the future, the parents will be no more happy.
Therefore, I believe that parents can encourage their children to continue to study hard through small family gatherings, and guide their children to look at the efforts and results correctly, so as to help children establish correct values and move towards a better self.
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1.Spiritual encouragement to accompany the shouting.
Encourage children through verbal praise, you can say: children, you are awesome, you are really good at learning, you have scored 100 points in the test, you must keep it, guard against arrogance and rashness, continue to work hard, and strive to score 100 points in every exam!
2.Material rewards.
You can reward children with school supplies, such as homework books, tool boxes, etc. You can also buy your child a favorite toy as a reward.
3.Spiritual and material combined.
The second is the combination of material rewards and spiritual rewards, which not only gives Yu Lu Yeyan encouragement, but also gives material enlightenment and dispersion, and the combination of the two will have a better effect.
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