Do you know how to cherish it after a breakup? Why do you cherish it more after a breakup?

Listen to this later song, we are naïve, and we don't know how to love. You can refuse him, if he still doesn't give up, just continue with him, don't leave regrets.

In fact, men and women, like women, often feel their preciousness only when they lose the things around them, and they must face their hearts sincerely, and don't do things that they will regret for life.

Hehe, is it a reversal drama? Because she's already in your heart.

No one can replace it, in fact, it's a pity that people who love each other can't be together.

Maybe when I went out with someone else, I found out that the original girl was the most suitable for me.

Hey, it's so painful to be together like this... It might be good to be separated.

Maybe, it should be lonely, and when there is a good one, she will kick you away!

To put it bluntly, it means that when two people are together, because they are too familiar, they don't know how to cherish each other, they don't know how to cherish each other, and they give these things in the relationship, so after the two people break up, these things can be clearly felt, so they will regret these.

The main reason for this is that you only realize that you are not calm and do not cherish the hard-won love before after you break up, and if you want to get more love in love, you need to pay more, so you regret not cherishing each other before.

In the world of emotions, it is said that the best relationship is "two feelings are happy with each other, and they do not owe each other". When you are in love, you do your best, love each other deeply, and don't let the love of two people have any regrets. Let go when you don't love, leave freely, and don't need to blame anyone.

However, a female reader confided in me: she and her ex-boyfriend have been dating for half a year, and she thinks that she has paid a lot for each other, and now she has broken up, and she always feels that she has suffered a loss, and she feels very uncomfortable, and now she is in a lot of pain!

In fact, women can empathize and ask themselves, didn't the other party pay? Many women will regret that they were too good to their ex-boyfriends after breaking up, resulting in a feeling that they always have a sense of loss, in fact, this illusion is not selfish, it can only be said that they stand from different angles.

The woman thinks that her feelings are in vain, so she feels aggrieved and sad. In the same way, men will also feel annoyed and regretful that they have wasted all their money and time on you. So women don't feel that they are at a loss, these three reasons tell you the answer.

1. Two people are willing to be together.

Two people can be together, it must be because they love each other. Because women like each other, they are willing to be good to each other and willingly take care of each other's daily life, work and family. No one pushes themselves, it's completely their own choice.

Since it is your own choice, it is unreasonable to blame others in the end. Therefore, when two people are together, it is "Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai."

One is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer".

Both men have given their time, energy, money and affection, and in horizontal considerations, are equal. Therefore, women do not need to feel regrets and losses, thinking of the good memories of the past, everything is worth it.

Now that the matter has passed, let it pass away with the wind, life is too short to linger.

Second, two people together take what they need.

When two people are together, in addition to love, they need each other more, they need to have a companion for themselves, eat, chat, and have fun together, and they happen to meet each other, so they start a relationship of "no regrets".

No matter how open-minded and generous a woman is, she has to admit that she will still be selfish when dealing with feelings, and she has her own little abacus in her heart, not wanting to get anything from a man, but she will definitely get what she wants from the other party, whether it is money or feelings.

So women need to understand that what you want, the other party also wants, this is the normal "each takes what he needs". Even if the relationship is a business, there can be harmony and long-lasting.

Once one party is weightless, the balance of the two people will naturally be unbalanced, and such an unequal relationship must be that the person who pays more will be hurt more.

After a complete breakup, you may find that this relationship is extremely cherished. When you suddenly look back, you will find that this relationship is what you want most. can slowly realize that his other half was really good to him before, and he couldn't live without him.

will slowly realize that after the breakup, you are really wrong. But they have broken up, and all that remains is boundless regret.

Because only when you break up completely and understand that you really lose her irretrievably, will you realize the good of the other party, and you will regret it in the future.

Because I know that there is no way to recover the other party, I know that I will completely lose this person, so I will know what it means, only to know that I regret, because I used to think that I would always forgive myself, so I will not completely cherish it When I really lose the other party, I understand how important the other party is to me.

People are like this, they don't cherish it when they have it, and they don't know it until they regret it when they lose it. Because when he had it, he thought that the other party would never leave, so he took it for granted, did not cherish the other party, and waited for the other party to be disappointed and desperate, and left, and then remembered the other party's goodness, and regretted it, but generally this time is too late, and some people lose it for a lifetime.

Because after the breakup, I realized that that person was really good to him, and he would never meet someone who loved him like this in the future. That's why I regret that I didn't cherish it, there will be no gap without comparison, and I won't regret it if I live happily after breaking up.

To break up completely is to do things absolutely without thinking that the other party can leave them, who doesn't know that the other party can't wait, and they don't cherish themselves later, so they regret it.

People have a common problem, they don't cherish when they have it, and when they lose it, they find that what they had before is the best.

In the final analysis, it is still a sentence, what you can't get is the best.

In fact, it doesn't matter if you give him a chance or not

What matters is whether you feel the need to do it again.

Perhaps, when you start over, you will find that starting over is not what you want.

Because people are like this, if you don't cherish it, and then you will feel sorry if you miss it, and it's a pity, because you will be nostalgic for the previous bits and pieces, nostalgic for the previous feelings.

Because of the loss of the knowledge of cherishing, this sentence is very reasonable, when a person loses something, then she will feel that this thing he used to have, now there is no more, he will inevitably feel lost, so he will have remorse.

Because some people often don't care much about what they get in their hearts, only when they lose it will they know how to cherish and regret it, just like that sentence, what they can't get is always in turmoil.

Because when you get it, you don't know how beautiful it is, only when you lose it, you know how beautiful it is, so some people only know that there is still the value of feelings when they really lose it.

Because what you can't get is always in turmoil, and what you have is fearless.

After a complete breakup, I was able to feel that the person's number didn't feel when he was by his side before, so I didn't cherish it.

If you break up with the wrong question, you will regret it and not cherish it. Because he is the one you used to be good to him. Well, he took it for granted.

He sometimes doesn't see what you're doing. It is only after the separation that he will perceive that you are good to him. will regret not cherishing the past.

Because I have completely broken up, there is no chance to redeem it, and the previous happy life has become a thing of the past, so I will regret why I didn't cherish it when I had it.

Maybe when you have this relationship, you think that you should take it for granted, but when you really lose this emotion, you find that the other party has many advantages and finds the other party's good, so you can regret it.

Because if you don't break up completely, you always feel that he won't leave you, so at this time, it doesn't matter to you whether you cherish it or not? When you really break up, you feel that he is your true love, and then you will regret it, but you have separated.

Many people toss like this, and they don't cherish their feelings when they hold them in their hands, and they only find out her good when they lose them, but the other party is no longer waiting for you in the same place.

Since you have broken up, you don't have to regret it, you love each other wholeheartedly when you love each other, don't let two people have regrets of love, let go of each other when you don't love, leave freely, no need to resent at this time, no need to regret anyone to complain, don't cherish the original, and what you missed will not come again!

The reason why you regret it after a complete breakup, and you don't cherish this before, is because people often know how to cherish it after they lose.

People are guilty of this problem, and they only know how to cherish it when they lose it, and they must remember this lesson in the future. When you meet someone you really love, don't let go.

People are like this, only when they are lost do they know how to cherish if they have it, and if they have it, they don't know how to cherish it, of course, but they are also lost, and they must be redeemed at the first time, even if they can't be recovered, there is no problem, and he will let you know what it means to cherish and cherish the people in front of you.

Many people only miss each other's good when they are really separated, and it is easiest to find out that they have done wrong before after separation, but at this time they often can't go back.

Why a complete breakup? Do you regret not cherishing the previous ones? Because I feel that you can't find the best, better than your ex, so you feel regretful, you will compare, as long as you don't compare, don't compare, you can still live better, find better.

After two people really break up, we can quietly observe each other's advantages from a distance, once we discover each other's advantages. We will feel that we should not have to break up with them and regret it.

This is that there is no real breakup, and each other doesn't know that the other party is so important to you, so only after the separation can you feel the preciousness of the other party, so it is useless to regret it.

This is human nature, not knowing how to be grateful, selfish. Two people must understand and help each other when they get along, and love will be happy if it goes both ways.

Because after the breakup, you found out and regretted it. You also know that it's too late to regret it, after all, she has left you, and it is impossible to be together again, so you can only think about it yourself.

What is too easy to get is often difficult to leave a deep imprint on one's heart.

On the contrary, it is those who strive for what they finally have, or what they get again after they are lost, that are more cherished.

Because they have experienced the pain of loss, they will not have another chance, and if they talk about the situation they face, they will also uh and expect that they have already come before, so it will definitely be easier to get some tolerance and know how to deal with the corresponding situation. Because I lost my words before, I also experienced the feeling of regret at the banquet, so I wouldn't say that I would let go and give up so easily.

In fact, many people's feelings are not so smooth sailing, in the relationship, more or less will encounter two people quarrel or cold war, some people's contradictions can be quickly resolved, but some people's contradictions, on the contrary, will become more and more serious.

In fact, everyone will encounter a breakup, some people's breakup is really irretrievable, but some people's breakup just feels that the other party doesn't care enough about themselves, so they will be more unwilling in their hearts.

Everyone's attitude towards their ex is also different, some people will choose to live peacefully with their ex, but some people will never contact each other again after a breakup.

But people who have really loved each other, how can they easily forget each other, love is the most beautiful part of life, and it is also the most cherished part, some people can't let go of each other at all after breaking up, and after breaking up and reuniting, they will be better for the person they love.

The lost and regained feelings are definitely not false and false, but must be the most sincere trust and respect between each other, the sweetest care and love. Once such a relationship is lost, is it not worth rejoicing? The answer is yes.

Life in the previous life of the Qing Dynasty, in addition to the pursuit of material wealth, but also need a lot of spiritual food! Anything we can lose and regain will be cherished, and that feeling of being lost and regained is really good!

There are times when relationships are beautiful, and there are times when people are sad and disappointed. The beginning of a relationship is all about happiness. But there are also people who slowly become distracted in the process of falling in love.

Even for various reasons, the two broke up. There are also some people who reminisce after a breakupIn loveThe beauty of the times. That is, the ex has become the white moonlight in his heart, can he only be cherished after breaking up?

I think this question is different from person to person, and many people will remember it after a breakupPredecessor

After all, when they are in love, two people choose to be together because they look at each other's strengths. There will also be many sweet moments when they are together, and two people tremble to manage their love, from not knowing anything about each other to becoming veryThere is a tacit understanding。In this process, there are many shining points worth remembering, even if two people, because of many things, have contradictions, and in the end they fail to get together.

It doesn't mean that two people will become enemies. There are not a few people who break up peacefully. So after the breakup, the good of the ex is still the good of the ex, and the happiness of the two people will not be just because time has passedChange

So many people still miss their ex after a breakup. This also creates the phenomenon of being cherished after a breakup.

Of course, it doesn't mean that all people forget because they only remember each other's previous goodnessContradictions, will be more cherished after the breakup. It is also possible that in the process of falling in love, because he is not mature enough, or his personality is relatively impatient, which causes some regrets between two people, theseIt's a pityThere's no way to make up for it because of the breakup. But the vacancy of chaos has always existed, and even after a long time, it cannot be forgotten.

This can also create the illusion of cherishing the original relationship more after the breakup.

In fact, love is a thing to cherish the moment, if you choose to be in love, you have to pay more at that timeFeelingsWith time, keep the beauty in your heart. Don't wait until you lose it and regret it. What if it's already lost?

Don't let it affect later in life, either. No matter how suitable a lover is, you have to open your heart and fall in love with a new person.