Are people good and deceived by others? Isn t it good to be simple?

Personally, I think that you should be kind and have love in your heart, only if you are given love to others, others will give you love, if you pay evil to others, I think others will not give you love. I have heard such a story, there is a couple to travel, stay in a hotel at night, they went to a result of the family is full, but it is still raining heavily, then the service lady said, I am on duty tonight, you two will live in my room, if it is usually I will send you to other hotels, but it is inconvenient to rain outside, it happens that I am on duty and I can't sleep, you will live in my room, the two old people are not good to excuse and live, The next morning they got up and came to the bar, and it happened to be the young lady on duty, and when they were about to settle the bill, this young lady said that since you are not staying in a suite, she will not charge you, and the two old men said that you are the person I want, and I will give you a hotel in the future. A few years later, the woman received a letter with a round-trip ticket to Australia and a simple letter about what happened that night, and the couple really built her a hotel, and then because she managed it very well, the hotel also developed very strongly, which tells us that we must have love in our hearts and give love, but not necessarily what we pay will be rewarded, I think you should not ask for anything in return since you give.

Just be yourself, there's no need to think too much. If you change around, you will lose yourself, just be happy. You must know that there are always more good people than bad people, and there is nothing wrong with being simple.

I don't agree with this theory, we can't bully the weak

We can't bully anyone, and we can't be bullied by anyone.

Kindness must have a ruler, and forbearance must be measured.

As the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. If a person always has the kindness of the bottom line, he will naturally be pinched around as a "soft persimmon".

People live, don't always believe that patience is calm for a while, endure the calm in the end, unscrupulous but come, we can be roses, but we can't be without thorns.

The writer Sanmao once told his story in the book.

When Sanmao was young, her family instilled in her the idea of being kind. Under the influence of her parents' education, she has always believed that kind people are not deceived by heaven, and people are not bullied.

If it weren't for studying abroad, Sanmao would have always felt that his thoughts were right, all people were worthy of love and warmth, and everyone was worth forbearance.

Under the influence of this kind of thinking, Sanmao is kind to others everywhere, she helps her roommates fetch water, make beds, and clean up in the dormitory, and she thinks that her kindness will get the same feedback from others.

I never thought that my roommate would take her help for granted, or even treat her as a nanny who could be called at any time, not only that, but her roommates would use her things casually, without considering her feelings at all.

Finally, Sanmao Shoumo couldn't help it, and in a dispute with her roommate, it broke out completely, and her actions surprised her roommate, and she also made herself respected.

Sanmao wrote in "West Wind Doesn't Know Faces":

If kindness is just blindly giving, then this kindness, I'd rather not. ”

The world is too hot and cold, and people's hearts are as ruthless as wolves. In this world, if you are kind without a bottom line, the world will gnaw you to the ground.

Living in this world, our biggest stupidity is to believe in the goodness of human nature without a bottom line, if our kindness and forbearance, in exchange for worsening the harm, it is the coolest to turn our faces directly.

To be a man, turn your face when you should turn your face.

I have seen such a sentence on the Internet: "Not showing mercy to the wicked is also a kind of cultivation." ”

Couldn't agree more! We can be kind, but we must bring a little edge, otherwise kindness will lose its meaning, and it will encourage the arrogance of the wicked.