Why do small children like to yell? How can parents enlighten his emotions?

Because children can't control their emotions, they don't know how to vent bad emotions, so they will yell; Parents should communicate well with their children when they are yelling, so that they can calm down, do not hit their children, and do not scold their children.

Because the psychological stress of these children is too small. Therefore, parents should be by their children's side. Comfort them. Tell them it's okay.

It may be that such a child is too short-tempered, so parents should patiently persuade him, and if he is still like this, they should reprimand him.

Introduction: Some parents always like to yell at their children when educating them, thinking that this will solve the problem, but have you ever thought that this can only solve the temporary problem, but not the fundamental problem. So why do parents like to yell at their children, let's find out today.

In the view of this kind of yelling, in fact, is the way of parents to solve the problem, but this way is wrong, he wants the child to understand his good intentions, but the child is so young that he can not really understand the intentions of the parents, so on the basis of such an unequal communication, it will be particularly irritable, and then the parents will use this way of yelling to tell the child some truth. But know that this tone of questioning, or yelling, can make the other person's emotions instantly and successfully, and then let the child start a fight with you. In general, this emotion of parents is not particularly understood, because this way does not solve any problems at all.

In addition, there is another kind of parents themselves have other things piled up, and then because the child's thing comes out directly, everyone will have a bad mood, but you must know that the child is a child, he can't understand some of the bad emotions of the parents, so parents must choose an appropriate way to solve it when facing their children, and don't use yelling to solve it. Don't let your child be an outlet for your emotions. In addition, there is a kind of parents will be nosy, the child is developing well, but parents always want their children to develop according to their own rules, the child does not meet the requirements of the parents, and then the parents want to coax their children, if you take the standard of a 50-year-old to require a 20-year-old person to think it is possible?

Probably not.

It is because there are many differences between parents' concepts and children's, and sometimes children don't know how to do exercises, and parents like to yell at their children.

Parents think that this will make the child feel afraid and obedient, but this will cause great distortion in the child's heart, and there will be a lot of problems, and the child will be very sad.

They feel that this can deter the child, make the child obedient, and make it easier for them to manage the child.

First of all, it is very likely that the parent's usual communication at home is also like this, and he always uses yelling to solve the problem, so the child will imitate these behaviors of the parents.

It may be because the home is carefree and uninhibited, and at this time parents should be properly educated so that he does not shout.

This is because the child feels that speaking loudly can solve the problem, and parents should communicate more with the child to reduce his voice.

When a child yells, it is easy to cause annoyance to others, and it is also bad for the child's throat and throat, so when parents see their child yelling, they must understand the reason and take action. So, what should you do if your child yells?

1. The reason for yelling: unable to express it in words

The child's language ability cannot convey his will well, and the thinking ability is higher than the language ability, and the child will yell and even cry inexplicably when he is in a hurry.

Solution: Strengthen parent-child communication.

Mom and Dad should take some time to communicate with their children every day, such as taking time to chat with their children every day, tell small stories, play small games, etc., and comfort them in time by accurately understanding their emotions. In particular, some families plan to have a second child or have already given birth to a second child. Parents should also pay special attention to soothing the emotions of the first child, not ignoring the big one because of the small one, but let him (her) participate in taking care of the younger brother or sister together, so that they can feel the sense of responsibility as an older brother or sister in the process of taking care of the younger brother and sister with their parents.

2. The reason for yelling: Feeling neglected

Children at this stage will also shout to attract the attention of others and make themselves the center of attention.

Solution: Pay more attention to your child.

Parents should not let it go, but they should not reprimand their children, and should communicate well with their children to understand their children's ideas. The mother can say to the child like this: "The mother knows that the child has something to tell the mother, but the child is getting older, so he can't fully say what the child wants."

Don't worry, child, come, tell your mother slowly, your mother can guess it. After the child has expressed a little idea, parents can understand the child's intention through the child's words and ask the child, "Does the child want this?"

Did Mom guess right? "Maybe the child still doesn't understand the mother's words at this time, but for the child, what the mother says is not so important, the important thing is the mother's concern for the child and the knowledge to treat the child patiently. At this time, the child can feel the understanding and love of the parents, which is enough for the child.

The child will stop yelling and can calm down and avoid frustration.

How can we change the problem that children always lose their temper and yell when they are angry? I've been thinking about this problem for a long time, but there has been no effective solution.

I know that I am also responsible for the fact that my child has become like this, because I am a mother who is impatient and wants to criticize him in a hurry, and even when he is sometimes stupid and waiting for criticism, if he does not care, or does not listen, I will yell at him and use my voice to get his attention.

I know that now the child has become like this, it is just like me, I can no longer always lose my temper with him, I should patiently accompany him to change, but for his tantrums, how should I change?

After thinking about it for a long time, I thought of a way, if he yells or loses his temper in the future, then let him face the wall. I don't lose my temper, I don't get angry, it's just that you make a mistake and you have to face the wall. If he doesn't want to be confronted, he has to talk to me with a good temper.

I don't know if this has any effect, but I hope I can stick to it for a while and see the effect.

If the child is always throwing tantrums and yelling, parents should let the child learn to relieve his emotions, and at the same time guide the child to learn to release his emotions correctly. Some parents directly blame their children when they see their children lose their temper and think that their children are wrong, but in fact, parents should correct their attitudes and use their own ways to help their children better deal with their dissatisfaction. Children actually have self-awareness when they lose their temper, and parents should protect their children's self-awareness, and at the same time guide their children to grow in the right direction.

Smart parents will not deliberately tolerate their children when they lose their temper, nor will they immediately curb their children's tempers, on the contrary, parents will induce them to let their children express their dissatisfaction in their hearts. Parents should guide their children to talk about their unhappiness, so that parents can effectively help their children solve problems. If there is a reason for the child's tantrums, then parents can help the child solve the problem, which is the most effective way for the child.

Don't hurt your child because of irrationality, if the parent yells at the child when the child is angry, then the child may be very inferior, and will not dare to show his emotions in front of his parents in the future. Parents should first calm down their children, and then communicate with their children after calming down, otherwise the children will not be able to listen. <>

After asking the reason for the child's tantrum clearly, we should help the child solve the problems he is struggling with in a way that is correct, and know how to look at the problems faced by the child from the child's point of view. To help children change their attitudes in the most accurate way, we must seize the opportunity to educate children, so that children can grow better. Parents should sort out their own thinking, and then guide their children's thinking, and don't directly hurt their children when their minds are confused.

Children like to lose their temper indiscriminately and yell at every turn. For such children, parents can ignore each other, quietly watch the child lose his temper, and wait until the child recovers before communicating effectively with the child. The reason why children lose their temper is because they want to use this to deter each other, parents are afraid of softness, and the child will become more serious next time, and even threaten parents with hurting themselves, usually this kind of child is spoiled and raised, never know how to be grateful, and do not know how hard the parents are, only know the momentary pleasure, vent the temper, completely ignore the parents' thoughts, so let's find out in detail!

One, children who like to lose their temper indiscriminately

Some children are naturally stubborn and have some points on their bodies that cannot be touched by the other party. Some children don't like others to wronged themselves, once others are wronged, they will be particularly angry, parents should find out the child's temper, which points can not be touched, try to avoid. Children are also independent individuals, do not ignore self-esteem, should understand children and respect children's ideas, it is impossible to lose their temper for no reason, to find the original intention of the child's temper.

Second, what should parents do?

There are two ways to do this, the first is to look on the sidelines. Although this seems to be ruthless, it is the most effective, no matter what the purpose of the child's tantrum is indiscriminate, while yelling, if the parent keeps yelling, it will only make him more angry, which plays a counterproductive role, and it is easy to do something radical when people have emotional outbursts. The second point is to make a plan.

If it is not something that touches the bottom line, but the child keeps losing his temper, the parents must punish him, not to hurt him physically, but to do housework or homework to punish.

In short, if the child does not lose his temper many times, parents should not go online. Everyone needs to vent, and as a parent, you should also tolerate your child's bad temper and find a way to solve it if there are too many times.

Parents should first divert their children's attention and calm their emotions, and then reason with their children so that they can realize their mistakes.

Parents should let their children vent their emotions. After the child has calmed down, parents should talk to the child and ask him why he is doing so.

Parents should ignore the child when the child is making a fuss, so that the child will become emotionally stable if he does not get attention, and then the parent should give the child some ideological guidance.

1. We must educate children to strive to understand other people's attitudes and opinions, and learn to think from the perspective of others. Instead of being overly selfish or only looking at problems from your own point of view, you must let your child have enough communication skills and self-expression skills. When you are more irritable, you can't be immersed in the painful experience and can't extricate yourself, or even anger others, but you should take the initiative to communicate with others and express your thoughts, which is an effective way to communicate and communicate.

2. Rewards and punishments should also be used appropriately, and when children have irritability, tantrums and other bad behaviors that parents do not want to appear, they must use punishment measures appropriately. For example, reduce the child's play time, or reduce the child's pocket money, etc. These punitive measures can effectively reduce the number and frequency of bad behaviors that parents do not want their children to have.

Only by actively implementing reward and punishment measures and having clear principles can children gradually reduce their irritability and tantrums.