What is the reason why children like to yell and talk at home? How to solve it?

First of all, it is very likely that the parent's usual communication at home is also like this, and he always uses yelling to solve the problem, so the child will imitate these behaviors of the parents.

It may be because the home is carefree and uninhibited, and at this time parents should be properly educated so that he does not shout.

This is because the child feels that speaking loudly can solve the problem, and parents should communicate more with the child to reduce his voice.

Introduction: Some parents always like to yell at their children when educating them, thinking that this will solve the problem, but have you ever thought that this can only solve the temporary problem, but not the fundamental problem. So why do parents like to yell at their children, let's find out today.

In the view of this kind of yelling, in fact, is the way of parents to solve the problem, but this way is wrong, he wants the child to understand his good intentions, but the child is so young that he can not really understand the intentions of the parents, so on the basis of such an unequal communication, it will be particularly irritable, and then the parents will use this way of yelling to tell the child some truth. But know that this tone of questioning, or yelling, can make the other person's emotions instantly and successfully, and then let the child start a fight with you. In general, this emotion of parents is not particularly understood, because this way does not solve any problems at all.

In addition, there is another kind of parents themselves have other things piled up, and then because the child's thing comes out directly, everyone will have a bad mood, but you must know that the child is a child, he can't understand some of the bad emotions of the parents, so parents must choose an appropriate way to solve it when facing their children, and don't use yelling to solve it. Don't let your child be an outlet for your emotions. In addition, there is a kind of parents will be nosy, the child is developing well, but parents always want their children to develop according to their own rules, the child does not meet the requirements of the parents, and then the parents want to coax their children, if you take the standard of a 50-year-old to require a 20-year-old person to think it is possible?

Probably not.

It is because there are many differences between parents' concepts and children's, and sometimes children don't know how to do exercises, and parents like to yell at their children.

Parents think that this will make the child feel afraid and obedient, but this will cause great distortion in the child's heart, and there will be a lot of problems, and the child will be very sad.

They feel that this can deter the child, make the child obedient, and make it easier for them to manage the child.

Many parents like to yell when educating their children, but this is easy to cause depression in the child's psychology, causing the child to become unspeakable, which indicates that there is a problem with the parent's education method, the core of education is not to criticize the child, but to let the child recognize his own problems, and take the initiative to correct, when the child becomes introverted and does not like to talk to other people, parents must not take the way of yelling education, but communicate with the child in a gentle tone.

Parents should communicate more with their children in normal times to get closer to their parents. After all, every child wants to be cared for by their parents, so parents should talk to their children more often, in fact, it doesn't take too much time, but it can give children a sense of security, and also make children feel that their parents actually care about him, then children will become more lively, full of hope for their future, parents must not put too much pressure on their children, let children become depressed, and let children release their inner pain when communicating with children.

Parents should give their children more encouragement, encourage their children to become more positive, encourage their children to socialize more with the people around them, and then the encouragement and companionship of parents can give children more self-confidence, parents' yelling, hitting children's willpower, and finally let children become more and more negative, cheer for children, let children learn to be independent, then children will become more diligent, and dare to try some things he was unwilling to do before.

Parents should treat their children as their good friends, many people always communicate with their children with a condescending attitude, which will alienate the feelings of both parties, parents should give their children enough respect, do not violate their children's privacy at will, and communicate and get along with each other in an equal way, which will make children feel more cordial, and parents and children should have intimate conversations, rather than parents dictating to children.

You should correct your bad habits, don't often yell in front of your children, communicate more with your children and take your children out to play more, be gentle with your children, and guide your children to speak slowly to give your children a sense of security.

At this time, you need to change your attitude towards talking to your children, and you should be gentle when talking to your children in your daily life.

Educating children is also a way, if yelling at a child can cause the child to become introverted. We usually don't dare to speak, so our usual behavior has a great impact on children.

Now that you already know that it is because of your yelling at your child that your child's current personality is caused by this, then you have to correct it, and from now on, strive to maintain about half an hour of communication time with your child every day, so that the child can slowly accept you from the heart, accept himself, and rebuild his self-confidence.

You should learn to soothe your child, channel your child's knots, make your child cheerful, and cultivate your child's positive and optimistic attitude.

As a mother of two children, she is often happy because of her child's innocence and cuteness, and at the same time, she is exhausted by her child's various bad habits.

The first rebellious period of a child occurs around the age of 2-3 years, which is the "baby rebellious period". One of the manifestations of the "baby rebellious period" is yelling, when parents also show obvious anxiety. What should parents do if the child yells and yells?

First, look for the reason in yourself. Parents should first find the reason from themselves, is it that our parents usually shout like this when they talk at home? It is said that the 2-3-year-old child is the time when the learning ability is the strongest, and what he hears and sees, he will output in the same way.

Because he himself can't tell right from wrong at his own age, he is just following his parents' way. At the same time, this is also the most overlooked by our parents. We can usually guide the children to adjust their voices to the right level, and we can do their own demonstrations and let the children follow along.

When your child does it, give your child affirmation in time. For example, when you meet a child talking to others, give the child a demonstration, what kind of way to speak, others can accept you, you say it again and let the child say it again, and then affirm that the child is now more and more respectful of others, and there is no need to shout.

Second, parents need to learn to listen. When the child yells, it is best for us parents to squat down at this time, keep eye level with the child, listen carefully, and let the child express his bad emotions or grievances. Then don't rush to a conclusion for your child, you can give your child a relatively reasonable suggestion and let your child choose.

Here our parents should not fall into the trap of "we think we are right".

Third, actively encourage your child. In daily life, find and look for children's good performance and give praise and affirmation in time. Praise indirectly allows the child to understand right from wrong, and when he is praised for doing the right thing, he knows that he is doing the right thing.

Children will also be able to understand and receive more and more correct information as they grow up.

It is said that there are no children who are not well educated, only parents who do not know how to educate or have not learned to educate. Getting along with children does require continuous learning and patient guidance. I hope that every parent can get rid of the influence of negative emotions and be a good guide for their children with a positive and sunny attitude.

Because children can't control their emotions, they don't know how to vent bad emotions, so they will yell; Parents should communicate well with their children when they are yelling, so that they can calm down, do not hit their children, and do not scold their children.

Because the psychological stress of these children is too small. Therefore, parents should be by their children's side. Comfort them. Tell them it's okay.

It may be that such a child is too short-tempered, so parents should patiently persuade him, and if he is still like this, they should reprimand him.