How does yelling at a child affect a child?

1.Fear and resistance to parents.

When you are gentle and kind to your child, the child will feel very close to you and will not only be willing to approach you, but will be more willing to accept your advice. But if you yell at your child a lot, it will only bring stress and shame to your child. In this atmosphere, no matter how much time you spend with your child, there is a limit to the warmth that your child can feel.

Because in the eyes of children, they will be abused and punished for the slightest mistake or mistake. At this time, the child does not feel a sense of security, but a deep fear.

2.The child has a short temper and, like a parent, yells when he speaks.

In home education, the way parents speak and do things can have an important impact on their children's development. Children are still young and do not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, but they have a strong ability to imitate, and parents who often yell at their children, children have to learn. Therefore, parents should reflect on their words and deeds and correctly exercise the rights and obligations of family education.

3.Cultivate a rebellious mentality.

There is a psychological term called"Learned helplessness", refers to being in a state for a long time and accepting it as if it is irresistible. So, over time, when the parent yells again, the child thinks that no matter what I do, the result is the same. Some even have a rebellious mentality, the more they don't let me do it, the more I have to do it, and you won't agree with me anyway.

4.It is easy to form introversion, low self-esteem, and form a pleasing personality.

Regardless of whether parents consciously yell at their children, children who have been in a state of long-term tension feel fear every time they face their parents' loud voices. On the one hand, because adults are relatively large, height will bring a sense of pressure to children, and from the volume and scolding, it will bring greater psychological pressure to children. Yelling at children often makes them misunderstand themselves and doubt themselves.

Children, on the other hand, have an innate drive to hope for approval and praise from their parents. In order to get their parents' approval, they will do their best to meet their parents' requirements.

The impact of family education on children is very great, if the child is often scolded and yelled, it will make the child have an inferiority complex or rebellious psychology, forming an extreme personality, but to restrict the development of the child.

This will cause children to be unconfident, inferiority complex, for children's education, should not be loud and scolding, should give more encouragement, in order to create a more confident, strong heart for children.

It will make the child very timid, and it will also make the child very sensitive, and the child will be very easily surprised, which is particularly detrimental to the child's development, and the child's physical and mental health will become very bad.

Parents should talk to their children gently, not yelling and yelling, which will only make children afraid of their parents and make them dislike talking to their parents. So if parents often yell at their children, what will be the effect on their children?

If parents keep yelling at their children, then the child's mind will be affected, they will think that parents are terrible, they will be afraid of their parents, and they will not like to talk to their parents. Children's hearts are very young, and they especially need love, so parents must talk to their children gently, so they can't let their children feel love, and they can't yell at their children. If parents yell at their children, it will make them very sad, and make them think that their parents don't love them anymore, so they will yell at themselves.

Although children may not be able to understand the meaning of their parents' words, children can feel the emotions of their parents, and when their parents are particularly emotional, children will also be afraid, they are afraid of their parents, I love myself, and I am afraid that my parents will scold me. Therefore, for the sake of the child's physical and mental health, parents must maintain a gentle face in front of the child, talk to the child softly, and cannot yell and scream.

Parents' yelling will make children have an inferiority complex, because children are particularly trusting of their parents, and sudden yelling will affect the child's mind, so that the child will have a kind of self-doubt, thinking that what he has done wrong will make his parents dislike him. Therefore, parents cannot suddenly yell in front of their children, they must treat their children gently, and let children feel the love of their parents, so that children can like their parents. Gentle parents can raise a confident child, can make the child especially like to communicate with others, and can also make the child cheerful and lively.

It will make the child become timid, often yelling at the child, making the child particularly timid, scaring the child when the movement is big, and making the child particularly inferior, often yelling will make the child's psychology become very sensitive and poor, and over time it will be particularly inferior, Qing Oak does not dare to express himself, nor dare to say his thoughts.

This may affect the child's personality, cause the child to have a sensitive and inferior personality, and will make the child very afraid of people, and it is easy to be nervous when encountering things, and it will affect the child's mental health, and affect the child's physical health and development.

Yelling at the child is not conducive to the growth of the child, first of all, this vice will transmit the socks to the child, and even let the child affect the whole life, sail and yell, is not conducive to the child's interaction with other people, and is easy to cause the child's inferiority complex.

Often yelling at the child Jing Min yelling, this child will cause a shadow in his heart, and then the child is getting more and more bold Liang Jing is getting smaller and smaller, if the child makes a mistake and is cautious, you can make it clear to him face to face and reason with him.

If the child always yells at the parents, then the child's blind personality will be a violent or cowardly character.

The children will be very inferior, and the children will also have a lot of psychological problems, sometimes, the child will be autistic, and there will be depression. Molds.

Many parents usually have a hot temper and don't know how to educate their children, and they yell at their children when they make mistakes or when they are unhappy. Parents' words and deeds will imperceptibly affect their children, and if parents often yell at their children and can't control their temper, it will have a great impact on the formation of children's character and mentality.

Children are very trusting of their parents when they are young, so they are willing to tell their parents everything, if the parents do not understand the child at this time, but yell at the child, the child will become very timid, or there is a sense of fear of parents in the heart. After a long time, children will be particularly insecure, very timid when doing things, cringe when interacting with others, lack self-confidence, and dare not make deep friendships with others. After a long time, the child may become withdrawn, not talkative, and very cold.

Although children are small, children also have their own self-esteem and ideas, and if parents often yell and serve their children in front of them, it will hurt their children's self-esteem. After a long time, the child may be psychologically distorted and feel that the parents do not love him, and slowly the child's personality will become particularly withdrawn, and even have an extreme idea and be very rebellious.

Most children have their own ideas and dreams when they are young, if parents always yell at their children when they are young, and if the children live in this environment for a long time, the children's personality will also be affected by this, and they will become particularly irritable and love to lose their temper at every turn. If the child is too strict with the parents, he will not have the courage to explore the unknown world in the subconscious, and some dreams at the beginning will slowly lose interest later, so the child's life will become very dull, and even have an inferiority complex from the heart.

The first is not conducive to the child's growth, the second will bring pressure to the child, the third will affect the child's self-confidence, the fourth will affect the child's personality, and the fifth will affect the child's values.

It will affect the child's future expression of his own opinions, and it will also affect the child's personality, and it will also affect the child's future life, and the future learning will also make the child feel that he is particularly inferior, and he is not good at anything, so that the child is particularly introverted and unwilling to communicate with others, and the child will become reluctant to speak.

It will affect the child's hearing, it will also affect the child's personality, it will make the child become particularly rebellious in life, and it will also make the child learn the way that parents do, and they will yell when they talk to anyone. Make the child feel very insecure.

Children's education has always been a headache for parents, and once the child's education is not good, it will have a certain impact on the future life and learning. When many parents educate their children, they often yell at their children, which is a wrong way and will also cause some harm to their children.

The child is a vulnerable group, at the same time the child's ability to imitate is very strong, if the family meets some wrong behavior of the parents, he will also imitate, this time it is necessary for parents to be correctly guided by the side, in addition to the child is full of great curiosity about the world, they do not know what is right, and do not know what is wrong, at this time parents need to be corrected, when the child has the wrong behavior, the first reaction of parents is not yelling, Instead, you can communicate with your child calmly, telling your child that this is wrong and undesirable, and that it will hurt others a lot. and the harm to others, the child will not do such a wrong thing again. It is important to know that children are a growth type of group, and parents need to constantly guide them correctly in the process of children's growth, so that children will become better and better in their later lives.

In life, if anyone does not do something wrong, after doing something wrong, as long as he corrects it in time, he is a good child, let alone a child who does something wrong.

Children are relatively unfamiliar with this society, the most familiar people are the parents and relatives around them, and the child's education is also more difficult, at this time it is not only a single parent to educate, it should be the parents at the same time to educate, so that the child will develop better and better in a loving environment, and at the same time when encountering some things, can be solved independently.

It will have a great impact on the child's personality, the child will become particularly introverted in personality, and it will also affect the child to become inferior.

It will cause children to lack a sense of security, lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, rebellious psychology, rebellion, and let children learn wrong behavior patterns.

It affects the child's personality, affects the child's mood, affects the child's hearing, affects the child's attitude towards the parents, and affects the child's learning.

If parents often yell at their children, it will cause a shadow on the child's psyche, or it may be a negative emotion. Make your child feel frightened. In this way, when children are facing others or making friends, they instinctively learn from their parents' yelling behavior.

And if you yell at your child a lot, it will definitely cast a shadow on the child's psyche, and the child will be slightly reluctant when he sees someone, and he will not dare to speak out, because he has grown up under your yelling, so he has no courage to speak.

If the child has any mistakes, you can make it clear to him face to face, yelling at her will not help, but will put a kind of pressure on the child and give the child not to be afraid.

This is a very bad example, babies will develop the same habit of yelling as their parents, such children tend to have low emotional intelligence.

Introduction: Frequent yelling at children can undermine children's trust in their parents, and can make them feel very inferior and cringe. The development of the child's interpersonal skills can also be affected, and the child is still very insecure.

I don't know why some parents always yell in front of their children, it may be because the children are relatively young, there is no way to achieve the standards of parents, and then parents will yell at their children, to be honest, this behavior is not very good, you must know that parents must follow the characteristics of children's physical and mental development, to talk to children according to their children's age, to educate children, you always yell at children, yelling, useless, but will destroy the relationship between you and children, It will destroy the child's trust in you, and you will only get farther and farther apart, such a situation is actually not a few, as a parent must not always yell at your child, otherwise it will also make the child become very inferior, because in the process of yelling at him, the child's self-esteem has also been hurt, and he feels that he is not respected.

And parents always yell at their children, but also make children particularly insecure, I will feel as if I have not been taken seriously, and my self-esteem has been seriously hit, so there are also big problems in the process of interpersonal communication, he does not know how to interact with others correctly, after a long time, children may also become yelling to solve problems with others, such a person will not be liked by others wherever he goes, Therefore, I hope that parents can educate their children in the right way, and let their children use the right way to tell their parents what they are saying in their hearts, so as to be conducive to the healthy growth of their children.