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You don't have to think so much, the more you think about it, the more tired you are, just look a little away; I think life is not going well because you haven't met the right one for you, both in life and work, and no one's life is smooth.
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You have to think about the problem from a different angle, you can't be so extreme, you have to believe that the current troubles and pains are only temporary, as long as you get through it; Life is not always smooth sailing, and it is not only your life that has setbacks, everyone will experience many painful things.
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You must adjust your mentality, everyone's life can not be smooth, and you can only meet the rainbow after experiencing strong winds and waves. Don't look at how comfortable others are, it's all hard work.
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Life is not smooth, more often depends on your state of mind, if you have flowers in your eyes, then you see the world is brilliant, if you only have dark clouds in your eyes, then your whole world is raining.
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Thank you! Why don't you be happy every day? I think I care about everything. Rather painful?
This kind of person has a mental illness. Withdrawn personality and heavy burden of thoughts. There are a lot of obstacles in my heart.
Many heart knots cannot be opened. There is also a lack of communication with relatives and friends. The main reason is the confusion about his own outlook on life and worldview and values.
If a person does not have ideals and goals, and there is no clear pursuit in life, he feels that everything is meaningless, and this kind of person has a tendency to commit suicide if he does not adjust his mentality. How to solve the problem of thinking? The first is to establish a correct outlook on life and the world, marriage and values.
The concept of labor and the concept of money. The second is to let go of the burden and cheer up anew. Whether it's marital problems, work problems, or family problems, let go of the unpleasant things of the past.
We can't let the burden of our thoughts always torment us. The third is to get out of oneself and have more contact with relatives and friends with positive energy. Through their sunny side, the sails of life are raised.
Fourth, participate in more cultural and sports activities. Sing, dance, and take part in some tourist activities. Spend more contact with peers.
Communicate with each other and open up knots. The more friends you have, the fewer difficulties you have. The more happiness there is, the less pain there is.
In general. Buddhist master Zhao Puchu told people that sorrow is also a day of joy. Why not live every day happily.
Life is short and fleeting. Live each day happily. Truly realize the value of life.
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Because you don't know how to be happy, you don't know why you're happy.
The main thing is that you don't know that you are living right.
meaning and value, then your goal is not.
In this way, you live in a mess and don't know what to do, so nothing is the most important thing to you.
Then joy, anger and sorrow are not so abundant in you, because nothing has much to do with you.
First find the meaning of your true life, then you find the real pain, and then you will start to be truly happy.
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Because you don't have a purpose in life, maybe you lack faith. That's how I used to live, even.
Suicide attempt. Ever since I met the Lord Jesus, he made me know the meaning of life, and since then I have light in my heart and live in joy every day. It's true! I hope you can go into church and listen to what God will say to you, and you will believe me.
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You live every day unhappy, paper painful. Look for the reason within yourself. You ask yourself what makes you unhappy and miserable.
It is the same as a doctor to see a patient**, symptomatic**! I think you should go out and chat with your friends and broaden your horizons! Boost your self-confidence!
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What are you unhappy about, miserable. Life is like this, not many things are as good as they should be. If you can't change yourself now, you can't change the environment, and you can't achieve the results that you are satisfied with. It's just a matter of changing your mindset and your thinking. Contentment.
Be open to everything, in good times and bad. In short, life is going to be experienced, it depends on what kind of mentality you use to face it.
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Why are you tired, unhappy, and miserable every day you live? This price is from yourself to find the reason, to see what makes you so miserable, what makes you so tired.
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Worries have been pressed in my heart, can you be happy?
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Let go of unhappy things, work hard in a good direction, have a calm mind, and the mood is very important
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Everyone is pretty much the same, and they didn't find what they wanted to do the most.
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Eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes are fundamental.
1. Life is only a hundred years, it is better to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.
2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.
3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.
4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life. Laqing.
In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.
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Troubles, in fact, seriously, we can't blame others for this, blame others and strange things will cause troubles.
For example, the root of the problem is, "I must do this and that." If you get your wish, you will be happy, and if you don't get your wish, you will feel uncomfortable, and this will be trouble, and this is how the trouble comes.
It is because of the wrong attachment that people are unhappy.
Therefore, it is very easy to reduce our troubles, and we will slowly let go of the attachment to some small details of life, which are not related to the basic principles of the individual, and the things that are good and evil, so that even if things happen, we will have no reason to be attached.
So if you figure it out, you'll be fine, anyway, if you're worried or not, nothing will change what happens.
Secondly, if you keep pressing yourself for some bad things that have not been dealt with in a positive way, such as hanging on your troubles, it will naturally be more difficult for your mind to settle down. And this all depends on whether you are willing to change and repair.
If you are always dragging a body full of wounds, sooner or later you will not be able to survive a day, it is better to temporarily let go of everything and take good care of your wounds, so that you can continue to face all kinds of ups and downs in life with a stronger and better attitude. There are good and bad in reality, the important thing is to look at the mentality, the mentality is not good, the good can become bad; With a good attitude, anything can be better.
Life is impermanent, and it is impossible for everything to go according to our will, so how can we think of solutions, or even improve our state of mind?
This is also the reason why we often feel more pain than happiness, which is also caused by our obsession with everything going well, and refusing to let go when we encounter pain.
Or if you have any bad habits on weekdays, it may also lead to this situation.
If you can understand this truth, then you will be able to face the good times and bad times with a calm attitude, because although the sunny days are not long, the rainy days will not be long, and it will be fine after they pass.
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That what the way you do things is problematic and needs to change.
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