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Now that it is known that there is no result, there is no need to continue. It's all hurting to each other, and the longer it drags on, the more it hurts. A quick knife cuts through the mess, and the long pain is better than the short pain.
In fact, sometimes, feelings are cultivated slowly, how do you know that there is no future between you, will you be too pessimistic, and sometimes you have to be optimistic. As long as you are together, have the same three views, have the same personality and temperament, have a common language, have a common topic, and can get along, the relationship will get better and better. Height, education, and family background are all secondary.
Sometimes, fate is predestined, and there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but it is difficult to hold hands on the other side without fate. Since you are destined to know each other, you should cherish each other's fate. It's best to let things go naturally.
Maybe you have a fate to go to the end, and you shouldn't always think about the worst. Positive and optimistic, this is the attitude towards life.
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This is a very personal question, and the answer will vary from person to person. However, generally speaking, if you think that you and the person have no future, then you need to seriously consider whether or not to continue.
In some cases, you can still move on even if you know that there is no future with the person. For example, if you're just starting out with this person, you may not fully understand each other's future plans and goals. In this case, you can choose to continue dating to learn more about the person and see if you have shared plans for the future.
However, in other situations where you know and there is no future with the person, continuing with it may cause you more harm. For example, if you've thought about this seriously and have determined that your goals and ways of life don't align, continuing with it may make you even more distressed and upset.
Ultimately, this decision depends on your feelings and circumstances. If you're confused or unsure, seek advice and support from friends, family, or professionals.
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I feel that it should be continued, because no relationship can give you a clear future, and no one can ** in the future.
When two people step into a relationship, they must both have a vision of a better life in the future. But no one can give you an accurate answer to what will happen in the future, and if you break up because you don't have a clear future, then I think you may be lonely for the rest of your life.
The future of no relationship is sure that good things are waiting for you. The future is never predictable, and no one knows how far your relationship will develop, or whether the relationship will be happy or not.
Maybe it's as sweet as honey now, and tomorrow we may part ways; Maybe what you think is a bright future is just your own fantasy. No one can give you a definite future, and all the mountain alliances and sea vows need time to verify.
Only the past is certain, and only when you and the person you like grow old, can you be sure that your relationship really has a happy ending.
The future needs to be created by oneself, and happiness needs to be fought for by oneself. There is no clear future relationship, and it is still necessary to continue. In fact, this is a multiple-choice question, and life will never give you an extra answer.
If you choose to end the relationship, if you really, really don't have confidence in your relationship, then maybe happiness will be farther and farther away from you. Because no one can give you a definite future, and even if someone gives you a promise, that promise is still an illusory thing until it is verified.
Life is actually so interesting, your future needs you to create, and your happiness needs to be fought for by yourself.
Being able to have someone who loves you by your side is a blessing in itself, and the joint efforts of the two of you can create your own future.
If you love him, then continue the relationship, and believe that you can be happy, and you will be truly happy.
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Knowing that there is no future should not continue! Many people are entangled in their own fantasies, disguise their own things as self-centered, and forcibly add their own ideas to each other's body, so that the relationship problem has been in a passive state. It's the happiness you want to get, but the other party doesn't look at you?
So you always pay, and you don't know if you can become your other half in the future, and the price you pay is very high. Always flattering your boyfriend or girlfriend? This kind of love between men and women, I think we should be sober, we should have a sober understanding, the future is a slim data, and there is no hope.
Some things are marriages because there is a huge disparity between families, or the status of men and women? Tied to your academic qualifications, so that you don't want to climb the branches because you're going to climb the branches? Do you want to think about yourself?
You have to see your own shortcomings, the level must be, the education must also have, in this society of all kinds of renewal society, there are some people who are like this, they pursue the beauty of the original ecology, and there are no too high requirements but the difference is not too far, although the difference is not too big, but Cinderella becomes a princess There are many things, this kind of love is the pursuit of some people's rich people, a love, both men and women should be willing to do so, if there is no harmonious way of getting along with each other? Without a marriage that looks like a happy one, the future is bleak? The future is bleak, and the future is bleak, and the life still has to be abandoned.
And some people know that they have no future with one person, and impose their will on another person, and they are not optimistic about such a marriage, nor are they optimistic about such a mode of getting along. Therefore, quitting a relationship early is to help yourself, if you are still addicted to that relationship, it will only harm yourself, and the brake is a wise choice. If you are still obsessed and continue to walk?
So it's you who hurts yourself, it's a wrong pursuit, so the wrong decision has to recognize your own mistakes, your own obsession and your own ignorance of the sky? If the relationship keeps going, then you will be hurt even more, and you will not be able to stand it for a while? Some people think that they can solve this problem, but the emotional problem is really difficult to solve, and only by making up their minds can they get out of the situation where Mo Ling and Liang have no future.
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I always remember watching "Journey to the West: The Great Sage Marrying" when I was a child, and Supreme Treasure said to Zixia in a dream, I am lying to you. Zixia replied with a smile: Lie and lie! Like moths. I knew I would get hurt, but I would still throw myself into the fire.
So, if you're only twenty-two years old, I'll say to you: go and fall in love, and you won't die if you break up.
As long as the attitude is sincere, then the relationship makes sense. Just because the results may not be good, is there no need to try? Not necessarily.
It is the same with human life. Perhaps it is never about finding meaning, not about getting a result, but about experiencing life itself.
If you're over twenty-five, don't be in a relationship where you don't know the outcome or you already know you're going to break up. Because at this age, it may not be a very responsible choice for yourself – if you are still looking forward to marriage.
Why do people go on blind dates instead of falling in love when they reach a certain age? Because everyone is rushing for the result, with their own conditions, picking and choosing from each other like buying vegetables. If I can do it well, if I can't, I still have time to find the next one.
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Neither option is good.
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Categorically, no!
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To love someone, we need to understand and understand, to apologize and thank you, to admit mistakes and correct mistakes, to accept rather than endure, to tolerate rather than conniving, to support rather than dominate, to condolence rather than questioning, to confide rather than accuse, to remember rather than forget, to communicate with each other instead of explaining everything, to pray silently for each other rather than to ask each other for many things. It can be romantic, but don't waste it, don't hold hands casually, and don't let go casually!