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For most old people, the son marries the daughter-in-law to carry on the family lineage. Although everyone's minds are more open-minded now, there are still many elderly people with more traditional ideas. If the daughter-in-law you marry never gets pregnant, then you will be talked about by others.
Slowly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become more and more tense, and there will be more and more quarrels in life in the future. But everyone knows that there are many reasons why women don't get pregnant, and you can't blindly blame women, sometimes it's also a man's problem, but for some mothers-in-law, they never suspect that it's their son's problem. There are many cases of divorce in real life, and women are forced to divorce because they are not pregnant.
Let's talk about a story that made my ex-mother-in-law slap in the face
Xiaoqing is a virtuous woman, so she and her husband met when they were working, and then the two got married naturally, and their lives after marriage for half a year were very happy, except for the mother-in-law who always talked about asking for grandchildren, there was nothing else. Later, after a year of marriage, Xiaoqing has not been pregnant, at this time the mother-in-law began to be anxious, and then wondered if there was something wrong with Xiaoqing's body, and without saying a word, she took Xiaoqing to the hospital in the county to do a detailed examination, and when the results of the examination came out, Xiaoqing's physical condition was very good, and there was no problem, so the two of them went home. <>
After another half a year, Xiaoqing's stomach still didn't move
At this time, the mother-in-law began to suspect that the county hospital must be inaccurate in the inspection, it must be that Xiaoqing can't have children, so she began to find fault with Xiaoqing, either this is not good, or that is not good. Outside, he also told his neighbors that his son had married a woman who could not have children, and said a lot of ugly things in this regard. Xiaoqing knew about these things, and she was very angry, so she ran to her husband and said, we are going to a bigger hospital for an examination to see what the problem is, so the two of them went to the big hospital for an examination, Xiaoqing's examination results came out, and there was still no problem, but Xiaoqing's husband was found to be infertility.
It turns out that I haven't been pregnant for so long, it's my husband's problem, not my own problem. The two discussed it, and in order to protect their husband's face, they didn't tell the family about it. <>
The mother-in-law forced Xiaoqing to divorce
The mother-in-law is getting worse and worse for Xiaoqing, and Xiaoqing finds fault with her mother-in-law in everything she does, and later forced Xiaoqing to divorce. In this way, Xiaoqing couldn't live in the days of grievances, so she filed for divorce, and until the day of the divorce, Xiaoqing's husband did not tell the truth. Later, Xiaoqing met another man, and the two got married, and in less than half a year of marriage, Xiaoqing quickly became pregnant, and it was still a dragon and phoenix fetus.
The news reached Xiaoqing's ex-mother-in-law, and at this time, the ex-mother-in-law realized that it was her son who had a health problem, and at this time, Xiaoqing's ex-mother-in-law's family became the laughing stock of the whole village.
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Nowadays, many families are destroyed by children, many people do not conceive children after marriage, and the man's family feels that it is the woman's problem, so that the son divorces the woman, in fact, this idea is not right, although the child is particularly important to a family, but the marriage of two people is also very important, do not say divorce at will.
We will have our own marriage when we grow up, but we will encounter many problems when managing our marriage. I don't know how to make my marriage successful, especially when a woman puts her focus on the family after getting married, which makes women particularly unassertive. Many women will quit their jobs after getting married and leave their focus in the family, wanting their marriage to be happy forever, but women's efforts will never be rewarded, which makes them particularly uncomfortable, so as a man, you must know how to take care of your wife.
Children belong to the family, and I hope that every family hopes that their children can grow up healthy and happy. Parents expect their children to have a baby after marriage, but many people get married and their families fail to conceive a baby, which makes the man's family particularly anxious, in the hearts of many people, two people can not conceive a child is generally a woman's problem, so many people will choose to divorce a woman, even if two people love each other, their son will divorce his wife. It is very important to pass on the lineage, and I think that a marriage without children will not last long, and such a marriage is not a complete marriage.
In fact, not having children does not mean that you have to divorce, two people get along with each other is a special fate, and this fate needs to be cherished. Only in cherishing this fate will it become long-lasting, and if you don't cherish this fate, you will miss the time you want to keep, and it will be a thing of the past. Therefore, when your wife can't have children, you should cherish the relationship between you and your wife, instead of easily saying let go, after you let go, you will make yourself regretful, and your life will also leave regrets, not being able to have children is a matter of two people, not one person, so you should know how to understand your wife.
Many families choose to divorce because they cannot have children, and women will choose another marriage after divorce. From this, it can be shown that not being able to have children is not a woman's problem, so we must know how to respect each other when managing marriages. In particular, it is not the fault of women who cannot have children, and do not have an inferiority complex, which is often the problem of men.
If the man doesn't know how to cherish your marriage, you don't need to continue, because the man doesn't really love you, and even if this marriage continues, you won't be happy.
Therefore, in a family, if there are no children of their own, it is not all the fault of the girl, and both parties should know how to cherish this marriage instead of thinking about letting go.
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This is really a good topic, some people will definitely say categorically that they should not be divorced, but for many people, they still hope that they can have the next generation, so this is also a very realistic topic. Some people will definitely say, what age is this, how can there still be people who are so backward in their thinking, but think back, it is very important to have children in several major events in life. If many families like children, but the daughter-in-law just can't conceive, then the mother-in-law will think that there must be something wrong with the daughter-in-law, and then many mothers-in-law will begin to persuade their sons to divorce and find someone who can carry on the family lineage.
The protagonist of today's story encountered such a problem, and he was married for many years without getting pregnant, and then he was forced to divorce.
The story goes
Xiao Wan is a quiet girl, at that time I met Xiao Zhang in college, and the two talked about sweet love, Xiao Zhang's family conditions are not very good, but at that time, because Xiao Wan loved Xiao Zhang very much, so she didn't care about each other's family. Then after graduation, the two worked together for two years, and then the parents of both parties also felt that they were old enough to get married, so it was logical for the two to form a family. Xiaowan's mother-in-law is a very traditional mother-in-law, there are always all kinds of rules, and there are all kinds of sayings, Xiaowan was not used to it at first, and then slowly got used to it.
Later, the two of them have been married for a year, and Xiaowan's stomach has not moved, and her mother-in-law has become anxious. <>
Children are always mentioned intentionally or unintentionally
The mother-in-law hopes that the two of them can have a grandson earlier, so in this year's time, she always urges them to hurry up and have one, but a year has passed and there is no movement, and the mother-in-law is even more anxious, and directly found Xiaowan and said Are you not in good health, what is the problem, which made Xiaowan very angry, and then there was no way Xiaowan went to the hospital for a detailed examination, and the results of the examination came out, Xiaowan did not have any problems, in the face of the results of the hospital's examination, the mother-in-law actually did not believe it, I always thought it was Xiao Wan's problem, and then I got Chinese medicine, and then let Xiao Wan drink it, so Xiao Wan couldn't drink it for a year, and there was still no movement. <>
It turned out that the problem was with the man
Later, Xiaowan felt strange, so she took her husband to the hospital for an examination, and sure enough, it turned out to be her husband's problem. In order to save her husband's face, the two didn't say anything after they got home. In the days that followed, the mother-in-law intensified her bullying of Xiaowan, and told her neighbors everywhere that her daughter-in-law was a chicken that couldn't lay eggs.
Xiao Wan was very angry, but in order to protect her husband's face, she endured it, and then her mother-in-law began to force the two of them to divorce, Xiao Zhang still didn't speak, and finally Xiao Wan divorced in a fit of anger. After the divorce, Xiaowan met her other half again, the two got married, got pregnant half a year after marriage, and then gave birth to a pair of cute dragon and phoenix fetuses. This matter was known to the ex-mother-in-law's family, and the ex-mother-in-law and ex-husband at this time became a joke in the eyes of many people.
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