If your boyfriend always regrets what she promised, is there still any need to be together?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-06
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Your boyfriend often repents about what he promised you, which shows that your boyfriend is a person who makes promises easily. So for this kind of boy, whether there is a need to be together depends on the boy's character, so it depends on whether the thing promised to you is a big thing or a small thing.

    If it's something trivial in your daily life, for example, if he promises you to quit smoking, but you don't; promised that you would not drink again, but in fact still drank; I promised you to play less games in the future, but I still can't stop playing games every day; promised that you would not be angry again, but still unconsciously made you angry. This situation is often a common problem for some boys, and it is not a boy, all people are like this, they will make some promises to you at that time for a moment of inner peace, and this kind of regret is actually very normal. After all, "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change".

    So if it's this kind of problem, it's okay to be together.

    But if it is some major event, some matter of principle, then it is necessary to consider whether it is necessary to be together. If you and your boyfriend often make promises, for example, he promises to accompany you on a trip on your birthday; When will I go to your house and discuss the marriage with your parents? I also promise you that you will not have too much contact with other girls. If it is a matter of principle that he has not changed, then it means that it is a matter of character.

    There are some boys who are born with a crush on other girls, and while dating you, they also unconsciously associate with other girls. Questions like this can be directly opted out of. After all, he promised you nothing.

    Promises, just to coax you to be happy for a while. is still the sentence just now, "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change". Character problems like this are hard to change. If there is such a principled problem of character, then it can be directly and decisively abandoned.

    Of course, whether it is together or not should be considered from multiple angles. Love is an important criterion, if you are willing to change for him, he is willing to change for you. At this time, you can sit down and talk and establish the principles of communication between the two of you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is completely unnecessary, because he always regrets what he promised, which means that he has no sense of responsibility, no sense of responsibility, and cannot take on the responsibility of being the head of the family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, I think that if a man can't do what he promises, it proves that he has no responsibility and responsibility, and besides, a man, if you can't fulfill the promise you promised, you will feel hurt after a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is no need. Because this behavior shows that he is an untrustworthy person, and he will not be happy with such a person.

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