How to treat people who don t know how to be grateful?

Don't pay attention to people who don't know how to be grateful, this kind of person is not worth socializing, and let people who don't know how to be grateful develop, God has its own arrangement. People who don't know how to be grateful are more pitiful and unblessed people. Because he doesn't know how to be grateful, then there will be very few people to help him.

When we meet people who don't know how to be grateful, we should first be ourselves, and then use ourselves to infect others, rather than trying to change others, so that everyone can get along very comfortably. But Buddhism.

Be compassionate, teach him to be grateful, and tell him the truth of gratitude. There are three things in life: one's own business, other people's business, and God's business.

All we can manage is "our own business", and nothing else. If you take care of his business and God's business, you will reap the pain. If you ask others to be grateful, it is excessive, and you lose the original intention of helping others.

There are basically two kinds of people who don't know how to be grateful, one is to take advantage of it, and the other is to not know what gratitude is. The first type of person generally takes other people's efforts as a bargain to earn, and this kind of person takes advantage of the advantage as a profession, so it is best to meet this kind of person as little as possible, so as not to suffer a loss.

The second type of person is different, in his heart gratitude does not exist at all, when you do everything you feel is right, for example, you are doing him a favor, but he feels that this is the right thing in his heart, he doesn't know what is courtesy, as the old saying goes, come and be rude, so that you can live for a long time, but in the hearts of these people he can ask you to help him is already for you to look up to you, let alone grateful. If the first type of person can barely pay it, then this kind of person can't even pay it.

Don't think that you help with all your heart, you can get the same reward if you give it all. In this world, there are always some people who don't know how to appreciate it, who have cooled your heart and hurt your kindness. Don't think that if you are magnanimous, you can be tolerant and generous, and you can get the same honesty.

In this world, there are always some people who don't know how to be grateful.

Forgetting your kindness chills your heart. Therefore, when you meet people who don't know how to be grateful, you leave decisively, and there are many kinds of friends, and it is very important to prefer lack to abundance.

If it is an ordinary friend relationship, you can stay away from this kind of person, if it is your own relatives, you can maintain a stable mentality, and you still have to pay without asking for anything in return.

Stay away from such people, and you should not make any demands with him.

Zi said, repay virtue with virtue, and repay grievances with straightforwardness.

Compassion requires a grateful heart.

"I would have turned my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shines on the ditch. ”If you really give, you meet people who don't know how to be grateful, even if you pay more, you will be taken for granted, as long as it doesn't go well, you will forget all your good.

Some people are as ruthless as wolves, as indifferent as snakes, and after receiving help from others, not only do they not know how to be grateful, but they may also bite others back.

Sometimes, you even hurt yourself by your efforts. There is one thing that cannot be used, that is to give sincerely, and there is one thing that cannot be forgotten, that is, gratitude. A person who does not know how to be grateful will not be kind to anyone in the world.

Some people take for granted that others are good to them, that they are the center of the whole world, and that everyone revolves around them. Always inch in, always want help from others. When one day, when others see through it and no longer help him, he will scold and not be grateful to others for helping him.

To be a man, you must understand Entu. No one is born to help anyone, and no one is born nobler than others, and those who are willing to help us are all noble people in our lives, and they are all people who care about us in their hearts. They don't hesitate to pull us when we're in trouble.

It's right to be a person and do things, but you have to help the right people. There is a good saying: "If you are not afraid of being let down by good people, you are afraid of being used by bad people."

In any case, a person who does not know how to be grateful must not help, so as not to encourage his villainous anger.

People, if you have a conscience, no one's money falls from the sky, and anyone's money is hard-earned hard-earned money, and they are willing to lend it to you because they trust you, and you should also keep your promises, at least you must repay what you borrow, and then repay the kindness.

Others have helped you, you have to know how to be grateful, it's okay if you're not grateful, please remember not to take revenge.

To be born as a human being, you must be kind. But your kindness should be sharpened! It's okay to be helpful, but you have to learn to see people clearly, and don't give everything you have when you meet people.

You must remember: your kindness should be left to those who know how to repay it. Your contribution should be left to those who know how to cherish it!