How can I do good? What does it mean to do good?

1. Be kind to your parents.

We are all the people whose parents feel the most distressed, and we are all the people who were raised by our parents. Treating parents well is the minimum morality, setting an example for future generations, and educating one's children to be filial to their elders.

2. Make good connections.

"If beauty is a letter of recommendation, then kindness is a credit card." "Kindness is a business card, a label for your whole life. Kind you, when you go to the **, you are all welcome, and you can get help from others.

3. Do more good deeds.

Give people roses, and leave a lingering fragrance in your hands". The more a person gives to others, the more they get in return. Even if no one else appreciates you, God will appreciate you. For example, if you do a good deed today, your dreams at night are sweet.

4. Read more good books.

The ancients said, "If you don't read for a day, your language will be tasteless and your face will be hateful." "People who don't read are vulgar in their speech, and their faces are all **.

Only by insisting on reading can we "have poetry and books in our belly", let ourselves speak elegantly and do things calmly. Books are the ladder of human progress, and reading books every day will make more progress.

Of course, to read a book, you have to read good books. Read more meaningful books, not junk books. A lot of junk books are harmful and keep you away from "truth, goodness and beauty". Only by good books can you learn the truth of being a person and the way to do things.

1. Be filial to your parents.

2. Some good deeds do not necessarily have to use money, such as a person can persuade others to change their ways, enlighten others' conscience, serve as a volunteer, take care of the sick and elderly, kindly encourage and comfort others, maintain environmental protection, or pick up banana peels, watermelon peels, and garbage on the sidewalk in the community to prevent others from slipping and falling, etc.

3. Helping the disabled around them in their daily lives; When old classmates, friends, and colleagues are sick and have financial difficulties at home, they can help them as much as they can; Help and relief for those who encounter poverty and hunger;

Four: Pick up things and return them to the gold.

Five: When there is a conflict between colleagues in the company, do not sow discord and speak good words that are conducive to unity.

6. If economic conditions permit, poor children in orphaned mountainous areas can also be supported to go to school.

Seven: such as porridge for hunger relief, coffin for funeral.

8. Maintain a kind heart, speak well, do not say harsh words, and improve your self-cultivation.

How to do good in everyday life.

If you find broken glass on the sidewalk, and pedestrians are at risk of injury, you can clean it up with your own safety (avoid vehicles) or notify a nearby cleaner to clean it, which is a good deed.

The small aspect is to start by helping classmates, colleagues, family members, strangers, and some small things within your ability, for example, seeing a colleague uncomfortable substitute for work.

For large parties, you can contact the relevant charity associations, as well as donations in the event of a large earthquake.

Sponsor orphans, sponsor those who want to go to school and have no money at home! Look at the lonely old man. Neighbors asking for help are good deeds.

Don't take the good as small, start with the small things.

Do you want to speak out if you have done good deeds and good deeds?

This question is quite challenging.

Because it is usually not recommended to say it in the Chinese's consciousness.

"Do good deeds without leaving a name" is a culture advocated by Chinese people. Chinese appreciate restrained and subtle expressions and do not like flamboyant personalities.

Therefore, we are often moved to tears by the sudden discovery of good people, who silently do good deeds for more than ten years or decades, without asking for anything in return, silently and silently pretending to be silent, so that people can experience an ultimate beautiful feeling.

We call them "heroes". When we hear the stories of heroes, we have a lot of happiness, joy, and a lot of emotion in our hearts, but often there are also a lot of distress and sadness.

Heroes are originally from the folk, but most of the time, we feel that we are too far away from heroes.

So heroes become rare and minority. Because, there are always very few people who are inspired to be heroes!

Personally, I think it's necessary!

Now in Douyin, I often see a group of young people helping the lonely elderly, delivering food and clothing, cleaning the elderly, putting on new quilts and new clothes, chatting with them, and cooking for the elderly. These scenes were all filmed on the spot, and they were posted on the Internet to attract national attention, which also affected many people's learning and participation.

There is also no digging to help children read, through filming to let everyone know that there are many groups in need of help in this society, in addition to knowing how to cherish more, people will also find effective channels to do practical help.

As a result, more elderly people and children have been helped. More and more people can also fulfill their desire to do good.

For human reasons, we appreciate heroes, but we can't be heroes, but everyone has angelic dreams in their hearts. Even if it is a small act of kindness, if a person can influence a person because of it, then there will be more and more angels.

But if it's for showing off, for performance, or even for personal gain. Naturally, that is not recommended.

That is not a true good deed, but rather deception is an ugly deed.

What do you think?

Once, when I was shopping with a friend, I saw a person who seemed to be disabled sitting on a wooden board with wheels on a busy street. There was a speaker on top of the plank, and a wooden box for money.

The disabled man pushes the ground with one hand to move the plank forward, while the other holds the microphone and sings his own song of begging for mercy from passers-by.

A friend put a dollar in the wooden box, but I didn't.

In the evening, when we rested and ate, we habitually drank two glasses. My friend suddenly asked me, "Why don't you give up a little bit on that beggar today?" ”

Why should I give it up? I asked my friend.

Don't you think he's sorry for him? Why don't you have any sympathy at all!? My friend said a little excitedly, "Good intentions will always be rewarded!" ”

What a "good heart is rewarded", isn't my friend scolding me in a different way? Looking at his obsessive appearance, he really deserves sympathy! So I enlightened him and said, "If you believe in retribution, don't give money to that beggar!" You're doing evil! ”

I was kind enough to give him money, but why did it become an evildoer? My friend retorted unconvinced.

I saw that my friend was still not enlightened, so I had to patiently continue to enlighten him and say, "A criminal has done many evils, and the judge has sentenced him to death. If at this time, you just feel that he is going to die if he is so good, and you sympathize with him and plan to rob the Dharma field to save his life, what is this not evil?

Why would a person be a beggar? That's because he used to oppress the good and humiliate the weak at will, so he is now a beggar. He is now serving his sentence, and when his sentence is over, he will naturally be reborn as a human being.

Before his sentence is completed, you go to reduce his sentence without permission, isn't this an evil? You have done evil things, and you are still unaware, and you still have the luxury of hoping to get good rewards, which is even more sinful! ”

Hearing this, my friend seemed to wake up, and he slowed down his breath and asked me a little inquisitively, "Then how can it be regarded as really doing good?" ”

I said to him, "You have to do good deeds without knowing that you are doing good deeds when you are doing them, and that's when you really do good deeds." It's like a child learning to walk:

At first, the child always tries to stand up, but always can't stand up. Finally able to get up again, he tried to move forward again, but fell ......After falling and getting up countless times, the child finally learned to walk. Once a child learns to walk, he doesn't have to walk with his heart, and walking is just a natural thing.

Who thinks they're walking when they're walking? ”

Hearing this, my friend seemed to wake up and kept answering. But does he really get it? I don't know, and maybe he doesn't know either.

1. Be filial to your parents.

2. Some good deeds do not necessarily have to be done with money, if a person can persuade others to change their ways, enlighten others with wisdom or conscience, serve as volunteers, take care of the sick and elderly, encourage and comfort others with kindness, and maintain environmental protection.

3. Donate money to poor areas; Helping people with disabilities around them in their lives; When old classmates, friends, and colleagues are sick and have financial difficulties at home, they can help them as much as they can; Help and relief for those who encounter poverty and hunger; Unpaid blood donation.

It is not ignorant to find things and return them.

When there is a conflict between colleagues in the company, do not sow discord, speak good words that are conducive to unity, if the economic conditions allow, you can also support orphans and poor children in mountainous areas to go to school.

Try not to leave a name for doing good deeds.

As long as you do it with joy in your heart, it is a good deed, and you can get good fortune. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke sent a message to make good things beautiful.