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Anonymous users2024-02-12I don't know if your former tablemate has helped you in any way to impress you or be "grateful" or if you are particularly close to her, these may make you nostalgic for the previous study with her. But it doesn't matter, try to communicate more with your current tablemates, maybe he or she is also outstanding? It is recommended that you do not think that you like her because you are still a student.
I think students want to do well and develop well in the future. Even if you have green feelings in your heart, don't burden yourself too much. The pure feelings of the student days will be memories for a lifetime
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Are you a boy? Maybe it's not necessarily like, but it's also possible that there is nostalgia between friends. I'm a sophomore in high school, and I miss my junior high school tablemate, a naughty boy who often quarrels with me.
It's okay, don't think too much in your heart, don't go to the old and don't come to the new, and don't always live in memories and ignore the beauty in front of you. That would only make it more painful......
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Anonymous users2024-02-10It's normal, I've had it too.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09If we want to get out of this state of mind, we first need to have an objective understanding of ourselves.
Realize that you will definitely have a lot of shortcomings and that nothing is perfect. Each choice has its own reasons, and there's no need to waste time wrestling with these minutiae. As I have repeatedly emphasized to my clients, accepting one's imperfections is also a process of striving for a more perfect self.
The second is to build our own self-confidence, we should believe in our own choices when encountering unexpected situations, and realize that once we have made a choice, there is no way back. Instead of going back and comparing whether your choice is reasonable, you should cherish the present and look to the future, and invest more time and resources in the process of completing your choice.
Perfectionism traps
At present, choice difficulty has become a hot word on the Internet, it is not a real mental illness, but refers to the psychological characteristics of some people who are very easy to fall into a tangled state and have difficulty making choices. In life, we will see a large number of patients with choice difficulties, as long as they are faced with choices and trade-offs, they will enter a state of suffering from gains and losses, and they will not be able to make a choice for a long time.
From which clothes to wear today, which takeaway to order, to the direction of further education, work unit, partner choice, etc., they will not be able to make a choice due to entanglement, and eventually miss a good opportunity, and their hearts will continue to be tormented. In fact, from a psychological point of view, this meaningless entanglement is a manifestation of the internal friction effect. It will make a person inefficient or even lose the ability to make decisions, and at the same time, it will consume a lot of energy, and in the end, the gains often outweigh the losses.
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Do what you want to do, dare to try is progress, and the advice given to you by others is always based on your own situation, so you still have to decide by yourself.
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In love, men want the process, and women want the mood. Men have to give, women have to enjoy. She received a text message from you and didn't reply, it means that she is thinking, women should be reserved, and after finding that a man responds to her thoughts, this performance is a reply, that is, action, so, you have to continue to work hard, happiness is not far from you.
Feelings can indeed affect a person a lot, but you must know that emotions are not the whole of life, if you put your energy into this area, it can be said that the more you care, the more you think, but the melancholy feelings make you think very depressed, such thoughts are not right. People always have to be positive, just like your thoughts are reflected in all aspects, know why no one likes you, the more you seem to be melancholy, the more difficult it is for others to approach you, girls prefer to associate with sunny and cheerful boys, and you, the first thing is to let go of the worries in your heart, force yourself not to think about anything, or to divert attention to think about other things. Talk to people more, smile more, so that your interpersonal relationships will also be better, just take fantasy as a vignette, in fact, everything in life is a mutual test for everyone, you have to do better, but even if you don't do well, it will definitely not stay away from you because of this, remember, don't suppress yourself, isolate yourself, then it will be difficult for others to pull back.