My mood is very tangled, and my heart is very tangled

You still don't really like him.

Could it be that you are a Scorpio possessive!!

It's better to give up and find one that you really like.

Really like it, you'll love everything about him, including his faults really! If it's a Scorpio, it means that you don't like him at all.

It's simply possessive!! I'm a Scorpio, I know it very well!!

I think it's a habit, you get used to his existence, and maybe the reason for your breakup at that time was very small, maybe it was a momentary impulse, you can give him and you a period of time to separate and calm down, think about why you broke up at that time, what changes have happened in your life without him for a while, if there is nothing to do, and you don't think about him often, then you shouldn't like him.

Contradict you! Let's find other men!

I haven't gotten used to it since I broke up, I used to have someone who was kind to me and stuck to me, but now it's gone, and it's time to break it.

Don't drag mud and water.

It seems that you don't like him anymore, and you are just a dependence on him!

I'm like that too.

Because I have given affection to him, even if I feel that I have no feelings for him anymore and want to forget, but every time I see him, I will unconsciously change my mood, and I can't tell what my mood is.

This sense of entanglement is normal, you can't forget it, just let him be a silhouette of a past in your heart, don't care too much.

The main contradictions of the subject are as follows:

1.Pressure from oneself: inner anxiety, high study pressure, no goals, no motivation.

2.Pressure from mom.

3.Poor physical condition due to stress.

I think we should go to the physical condition first, and as for 1,2, we can put it aside for the time being. The body is the capital of the revolution.

Recommendation 1Check-up, recuperate the body.

2.Don't put too much pressure on yourself, find an outlet to relieve stress, such as traveling, asking good friends to go out to play, confide in others, you can try to cultivate a hobby by yourself, even if it is to raise flowers and plants, it is to give yourself a spiritual sustenance.

3.About the part of mother, maybe the concept of mother has been ingrained for so many years, it is difficult for you to change her, I think if you can't communicate, try to adjust your psychology, after all, it is difficult to change others.

4.Regarding no goal in studying, anxiety, I think give yourself a deadline, such as one month, two months, relax, buffer, set a deadline for yourself, during this period, do not take study as your focus, let yourself relax, and when the time comes, plan your life well.

I just want to tell you, please don't think that learning is to please others, but learning will make your future life road more and more exciting, learning is not to please anyone, but to let your knowledge pave the way for your future future, so study hard, and you will definitely thank yourself for not giving up learning on the road to success in the future

It may be that you have a learning anxiety disorder. I recommend talking to your mom. Now you're a sophomore. It may be a little hard, but you have to be courageous. I'm sure after this talk. The relationship between your mother and daughter will definitely increase.

Make complex things simple and don't overthink it.

Hello, I also watched the drama Hidden Corner, I understand that you will be very entangled in your heart, please read some books of positive energy to make your heart stronger, you can change your thinking, don't take learning as to please your parents, you study well is really beneficial to yourself in the end, is to pave the way for your future, is to let yourself have more choices, maybe you are complaining about your parents in your heart, maybe you feel that they are not good enough, but parents also have their pressure, life pressure, may not care enough about their children, But for the sake of their birth and upbringing, let's forgive them, forgive our parents, and our hearts will be liberated, and we will be happy, and blood is thicker than water.

There's no way, I just hope that the choices you make after you are entangled!

No matter what you do? If you are not at peace in your heart, or if you are very unhappy, then I believe that you will feel very entangled in everything. Feel very uncomfortable, at this time we can't bring emotions to work, feel very panicked, irritable, then we listen to **, relax yourself, don't bring emotions to your own life, this will also affect others.

At work, we can try to relax ourselves, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, if possible, sing songs, go out to eat, so that we can relax properly and relieve stress. Same idea as me, just take it!

Don't get a lot of worries because you are entangled, calm down, close your eyes, and think about it.

I've had it too, so I can have a good chat with them, but I can't do it and I can only endure it.

Isn't there a lot of community in the university, join some, and slowly you will become confident and cheerful, of course, you will have a period of discomfort at the beginning, and if you persist step by step, you will see changes.

Since they have stayed up until college and are away from the supervision of their parents, they will have their own new life in the future, what are you worried about, "will not be subject to military orders abroad", don't you have this sentence.

Therefore, entanglement is seriously redundant, don't study at all, no, you can relax your nerves appropriately, and then work hard to complete your studies. But while it's still too young, join the community and make yourself energetic.

You give feedback to the instructor to see if you can take a year off from school, come back in September next year, and then you take a few days off and go to work on the Foxconn assembly line or other places.

For the universe, the whole human race is actually meaningless. But for the future of mankind, it is still meaningful to experience and enjoy high-tech life, and the future development of mankind.

My personal advice to you is that you don't need your parents' approval, or more absolutely, you don't need to communicate with your parents, and the gap between people is about bigger than the gap between people and dogs. People actually live for themselves, don't be influenced by the outside world, this outside world is the outside world that makes you troubled, such as your parents' requirements, the comparison of people next to you, this is the root of trouble, in fact, these things are meaningless to the body of "people".

Most people's lives are meaningless, people live just to experience enjoyment, this is the purpose of human life.

In this case, as a young person, we should have an independent sense of individuality and have our own boundaries, and in order to alleviate our own suffering, we can choose to abandon these, for example, we don't need the love of our parents, or even need to give back the love of our parents; You don't need to have the same values as the people around you, you can find people who share your values, as long as they don't break the law.

In this way, the complete acceptance of self-consciousness, the understanding of self, the knowledge of self, the knowledge of what can be discarded that seems to be tense but completely useless. For example, the above-mentioned parents' request for the so-called love of the parents can be thrown away, you can let them keep the cost of your college graduation, and the rest can be thrown away, and the rest can be borne by yourself, to find, to complete, to solve.

After that, you should realize that your learning is the learning that will make you more able to find a job you like, the learning of skills that will allow you to enjoy a raise, and the learning for other purposes.

Most people are ordinary people and don't make much money in their lives, but some people work hard to do what they should do and choose. Finally, the elder said:

A person's destiny, of course, depends on self-struggle, but it also has to take into account the course of history....

Relax and calm down if it's a solution.

What are you struggling with? Don't get too tangled, or you'll get even more annoyed.