What should I do? I am in the midst of a confused thinking.

Have faith in yourself!! Learning is for the future.

So I think we should focus on learning, because the world is so big, there will always be people who are suitable for you.

Don't just look at the present, everything is given by your parents now, without the help of your parents, everything is on your own.

That day will come So, work hard.

The feelings in high school are bitter and the most worth remembering, don't give up on the person you really love, cherish the person you love. Don't pay too much attention to the results, the process is beautiful, go with the flow, if you feel right after graduating from college, you can really be together, it depends on fate, people who are destined will eventually come together, come on!

Like is a feeling, like a child who can't eat grapes, because grapes are the sweetest in the world. But when I ate it, I found that it was not as sweet as I imagined. It's the same with love, it's how you feel right now.

Even after a long time, you will remember her because it is one of your most beautiful memories.

Maybe you should try to give up and study hard, men focus on careers, you are only a high school student now, if you put too much time into feelings, you will regret it later.

What I want to say is: buddy! Don't give up, if you give up, you will never get it, you have to work hard, only if you work hard will there be results, whether the results you want will be good or bad, but it is better than no results.

For yourself, the most important thing is to study in the third year of high school, but during this period, if you think about her words in your heart, you will use her as the motivation for your study and lay the foundation for future happiness; For her, even if you don't work out in the future or she doesn't agree, tell her clearly what you think, you like her, otherwise you will regret it, communication and business are important.

Hello classmates!

It's good that you have such determination, and you can see the situation clearly, so I support you, maybe you lose to others under congenital conditions, but the acquired effort is also very important.

I'm sure you'll succeed, and you may encounter a lot of difficulties, but the more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are!

1. Learn to self-solve and give yourself confidence.

This is very important, a person's self-confidence still has a great impact on a person, whether it is in study, life, or in the vision of the future. So, when you feel lost, try to give yourself more confidence to feel that you are not the kind of person who is good for nothing, and that it is not particularly bad.

It's equivalent to autosuggestion. Confusion is mainly people who have nothing to do as a whole, do not know what to do and what they can do, have low self-esteem in their hearts, and have no confidence in their own abilities. Therefore, the first step is to be confident in yourself.

2. Find something for yourself.

You have to do it conscientiously, make a little achievement, comfort yourself, and tell yourself that you can do well and be responsible for your future. It's also a straightforward approach. As we mentioned earlier, most of the people who are confused are the kind of people who don't know what they should do and what they can do.

So, if you can prove that you can do something well, then you will have a lot less of that kind of thinking. In the same way, this practice can also give you a lot of encouragement and make yourself positive to get out of the confused mood.

3. Be your current self.

Try to keep yourself from thinking about the things that are too far away from you, and be your current self, as the saying goes, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. At that stage, you'll slowly know what to do. It's important that many of us live in the present moment and think aimlessly about what will happen in the long, long future.

When you think about it, you feel like you're so useless, you can't do anything. It's not healthy, and it's very harmful to you. You have to remember that being who you are is is your greatest responsibility.

If you can't even do it now, how can you support yourself in the future and make yourself successful? So, don't be too greedy, and don't too much of an unnecessary heart.

Although you feel like you are worthless now, life is always moving forward and changing, and whether you can get a job or not is not something you can know by thinking about it. Be your current self and live every minute and every second of your life, that's the most important thing.

4. Study hard.

In the end, it is to learn a little more things, some skills, many times the confusion is because their job is not easy to find, or can't find it, at this time if you have a little more talent, you will find that your employment is very wide, you will no longer be in the confusion.

One. Calm down and organize your thoughts.

Confusion and anxiety make me uneasy, and occasionally I lose control of my emotions, and whenever this happens, I know that I need to calm down. I will listen to some soothing **, find some famous books related to my interests on Douban to try to read, like to read, if you don't like it, change it, don't force it, don't force it. I will go to the gym to sweat, drink coffee in the café in the afternoon when the sun is just right, listen to my favorite **, write and draw to sort out my thoughts.

Do things that make you relax, and if you don't know what will make you relax, then go listen to the ** sweat.

Two. Write down a goal plan, 3-5 things.

After calming down, you can first think about what your dilemma and bottleneck are. For example, if you are not satisfied with your job, what soft skills will help you? From easy to difficult, 3-5 things, this thing can be to read a few books, you can go to a painting class, you can consider some relevant certificate exams when you are confused at work, big and small things.

However, this plan should not only be an empty and broad goal of reading books, exams, and writing articles, but also digitize and precise the goal. For example: reading 5 books, sketching an apple, traveling to three cities, etc.

If you just get caught up in your emotions and then self-loathing day after day, it's just a vicious circle that won't help you now. If you can solve this matter, then you can solve it, grit your teeth, and you can get through anything.

You need calm solitude. One of the things I've come to understand over the years is that a lot of times, being able to "don't do" is more important than "what to do".

When people are confused, it is often because they have lost their direction to the future, they don't know where they should go, and they don't know what they should do.

Hello dear, first of all, reduce the choice. Sometimes people are confused because there are too many choices, and they can't tell which is more important. At this time, it is necessary to carry out a comprehensive contraction, reduce the choices, stop all the things that are not necessary, and take back more time and energy, rather than be empty rather than confused.

Second, read more. After reading so many books, you may have forgotten many of them. However, the taste and temperament you have formed through reading cannot be forgotten.

Reading books can make us a stronger person. Third, do things. Doing things is the best medicine for all confusion.

We can think as we do and progress as we do. When you are really busy, all the confusion will be cured.

1. Find something you like to do 2. Think about what you want to be 3. Concentrate on your work 4. Study more and exercise more 5. Go out and see more of other people's lives.

1. Learn to self-solve and give yourself confidence. 2. Find something for yourself. 3. Be your current self. 4. Study hard.

What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.

I believe that each of us will have times when we are lost, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life. Often the goal is the brightest when you are confused.