Is such a child miserable or happy?

There is no standard answer to this question, because the quality of fate is related to a person's family background, upbringing, and other factors. For some children who have experienced misfortune, they may face problems such as poverty, illness, lack of educational opportunities, etc. Fortunately for them, however, there are various institutions and organisations, including charities, volunteer groups, and social welfare systems, that help and support them.

With this external care and help, these children also have the potential to live, learn and succeed

Such a child's life is very miserable, this can only blame his irresponsible parents, otherwise he would not have suffered so much, as long as he can live strongly, then he will be very happy in the future.

It's pitiful, biological parents are not worthy of being parents, born but not raised, their own parents are not cherished, and other people will not be treated kindly, after all, they are not born by themselves, but, then again, even if biological parents, there are children who abuse themselves, if there are no adoptive parents, we can't live now, now we are still young, and we have to rely on others to survive, in order to get better, you must be sensible, work positively, others will not support you in vain, you must be strong, do things well, and be able to bear hardships and stand hard work, life will not be difficult for you in the future, when you are an adult, you can be independent, if you can't stand it, you can still support yourself, the key is that our mentality should be adjusted a little better, no matter how bad the adoptive parents are, at least they will raise you so big, which is still thanks to them!

It must be a child with a hard life.

Children don't want to come to this world by themselves, they are abandoned by their own parents, they are abused by their adoptive parents, they are bullied and treated coldly by the people around them, and they may have psychological problems.

Of course, this child is miserable, and neither do his biological parents, nor do his adoptive parents, who are not good to him, which is a misfortune within misfortunes.

Life is hard, this can't have anything to do with happiness.

For those of us born in the 80s and after us in the 90s and 00s, the vast majority of people grew up in the conditions of a one-child family, and many people think that the children who grew up in our one-child families are more lonely, because they have no brothers and sisters, but many people think that we are happier, because we can get 100% love from our parents, but many times, for some one-child children, they get this 100% love, It may not be what they expect and yearn for in their hearts.

Because for many children who grow up in one-child families, although they can be taken care of and satisfied by their parents materially, and their parents often pour all their love into themselves, but for many only children, they often encounter certain difficulties in the process of growing up, that is, their parents often have too high expectations for themselvesFor example, these children will study as hard as possible, and a lot of learning content may not be what these only children like, but they will still force their children to learn, although for these parents, this is a 100% love, but for their children, this kind of love is too heavy.

On the other hand, for many parents, their children are only children, so they will give 100% love to their children, but this 100% love will also become a kind of spoiling their children to a large extent, making mistakes, parents are reluctant to criticize education, but they do not realize that such love, such an education method is not conducive to the growth of their children, but will make their children in the future growth process will have a lot of problems, Even this kind of education will harm their own children, so for only children, it is a good thing to be able to get 100% love from their parents, but for parents, they should also find a really correct way to educate their children, and be able to love their children with a correct attitude, so that they are truly responsible for their children.

Sensible children are usually happier. Because they can gain more meaning and fulfillment in their studies, lives and socializes, enhance their self-confidence and independence, and better cope with various challenges and pressures. Of course, the guidance and support of parents and educators is also crucial in this process.

The joy of the sensible child.

Sensible children can be happy in some ways. First of all, they may be more affirmed and praised by parents and teachers, which is very important for a child's self-esteem and well-being. Second, they take responsibility for their actions and decisions, and this autonomy can also bring satisfaction and joy.

Potential negative effects.

However, sensible children may also face some potential negative effects. First of all, they may be subjected to excessive expectations and stress, leading to psychological problems such as anxiety and depression. Second, they may excessively sacrifice their own needs and desires to meet the expectations of others, which can lead to self-repression and dissatisfaction.

Advice to promote the well-being of sensible children.

In order to promote the well-being of sensible children, we make the following recommendations. First and foremost, parents and teachers should encourage children to develop their own interests and hobbies, nurturing their creativity and self-expression skills. Secondly, they should give their children a certain amount of autonomy and let them play a role in certain decisions, thus boosting their self-confidence and well-being.

In addition, it is important to establish a positive home and school environment. Parents and teachers should provide support and encouragement rather than overemphasizing grades and performance. At the same time, it is also important to develop children's cooperation and communication skills with others to help them build good relationships and a sense of contentment.

Conclusion. To sum up, sensible children can be happy in some ways, but there are also some potential negative effects. The perspective of happiness psychology reveals the relationship between sensible children and well-being.

To promote the well-being of sensible children, we need to focus on their individual needs and development, provide support and encouragement, and create a positive home and school environment. Further research could explore the impact of more factors on sensible children's happiness and provide more specific interventions to enhance their well-being and mental health.

The more sensible a child is, the more bitter his life is, and the more heart-wrenching.

Sensible "will please adults and ignore the true self.

I remember very vividly that when I was little, my grandmother took me out to play. At the candy stand on the side of the road, Grandma pointed and said, "Do you want it?" ”

I shook my head and said, "No." ”

The grandmother was satisfied and said, "This child is really sensible." Never mess around with things. ”

From the bottom of my heart, little me, Tanla, actually wanted to eat that colorful, sweet and sour candy. It's just that "sensible" and "well-behaved" were the highest praise for children in that era. I knew vaguely from my heart that I would make adults happy if I was "sensible", so I suppressed my true feelings and tried to make myself likable by being "sensible".

When I grew up, I became a tired "rotten good person" who didn't know how to say no to others and didn't dare to ask for a letter.

So whenever I hear parents say to their children, "I don't like you anymore if you're naughty." Or if I do it again, I won't love you anymore."

The child blinked, and immediately fell silent. Every time I see me, my heart is sour, as if I saw my childhood self. In order to win the love of caregivers, they are willing to suppress their true nature, what is the use of this disguised "sensible" child?

However, this kind of coercion continues to be staged in our educational life.

"Sensible" children do not know how to express their true emotions, in fact, in the final analysis, it is because children are insecure. Why are many children born from poor families unsociable and poor in their ability to communicate? Because they have been insecure since childhood, they have a sense of inferiority in their bones.

Look at working-class parents with good family conditions, who are qualified to meet the basic requirements for their children's growth. Eating, dressing, education, etc. have fulfilled their responsibilities, and the child has been cheerful and generous since he was a child, and has his own opinions and independent thinking ability. Their "sensible" and bitter children's "sensible" have completely different meanings.

The hemp rope is broken in detail, Duan Er only looks for people who are miserable, and the life of a sensible child will be more bitter.

Therefore, it is recommended that parents, whether boys or girls, have the conditions to be more prosperous. If there are no conditions, we should also learn how to give children emotional and emotional nourishment, improve children's correct cognition, and grow up happily and healthily.

The love is like the first Yangwen.

Some people say that parents and children are a fate and practice that will never be repeated. Parents are practicing, and as children, we are practicing. Since it is a practice, it is inevitable to suffer.

A very good classmate of my sister, in his early twenties, spends the same good time, but he is experiencing hardships that are difficult to tell and imagine. A girl with short hair and an optimistic appearance, but it makes people feel distressed.

The two of them have always been classmates in high school, and they have a very beautiful age, so why don't you want to wear beautiful new clothes when you pretend to be a girl? But some of her clothes were given to her by her sister. At that time, I just thought that her parents were old, and she didn't have any big economy, and the conditions were not good.

During the Chinese New Year's winter vacation a year ago, her sister invited her to come to the house to play, but she said she didn't dare to come. Later, I heard that her brother had died in an accident, and she was afraid to see the lively scene in my house. And this news, she gritted her teeth and didn't say anything to anyone, and she didn't tell her sister until later.

After listening to it, she suddenly felt sad, how did she survive? What's even more sad is that perhaps because the parents are also older, the blow of losing their son is too much for them to bear, and they want to drive the only daughter away. Before the winter vacation was over, he directly said to her, you go, go wherever you want.

As a bystander, I was so sad that I didn't know how she survived as a little girl. It is said that happy families are all similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes. I only hope that she can do well in the future, and I also hope that her parents can treat this only living daughter well, cherish the people in front of them, and hope that they can live well.

Parents and children are indispensable in every family, and I hope everyone can be kind to themselves, their families, and their lives.