My boyfriend always thinks about playing every day, and he s not too young, should I break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    My personal advice to you is: break up, an unmotivated boyfriend, what do you do with him every day, there is no meaning, you yourself know that he doesn't know how long it will take to mature like this, there is no sense of responsibility at all, and he is the same age, maybe he has already begun to support his family, he is still like this, I think it is better to break up early, find a new boyfriend who is at least self-motivated and responsible, at least can give you a guarantee, don't delay yourself, the older the girl, Excellent boys will be snatched away by others, so hurry up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Hello, dear, if your boyfriend always wants to play every day, doesn't want to make progress, and doesn't work hard, in this case, I think you should consider breaking up, because this kind of man can't be relied on for a lifetime.

    But if your boyfriend has a stable job, will work well when he is working, and will have a good time when he plays, then I think this boyfriend is very good, and there is no need to break up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    In a fun-loving situation like your boyfriend, I think it's time to break up, he can't bear the future of the two of you, and he hasn't reflected on himself until now, so it can only mean that he is a more self-centered person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It is recommended to take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend, hoping that he will not play every day and work hard to earn money and work, if you feel that you can't communicate, it means that you have actually had a point of disagreement, and there is no way to solve this point of disagreement, then it is recommended to break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I feel that we should separate, it's just my own opinion, and the decision is still up to me. Because I have had a similar experience, I think that kind of situation should not continue, I am worried about who he is with, worried about what he is doing outside, but he is indifferent, and he doesn't care about his feelings at all, that kind of person, I think is a person who has no sense of responsibility, he can't even take care of his girlfriend, he only knows how to go out every day, and he is not worth someone to worry about him at home, and he is not worthy of someone to love him and miss him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you're not that kind of sister, you don't have to think about it, you can divide it, regret it later, and look for your true genius while you're young That kind of man is not worth wasting time

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    mm You're still young, aren't you? I advise you. It's best not to talk about it, it doesn't matter if he plays, the important thing is to take you with him, it doesn't matter if his friends are not good, the important thing is to let your friends recognize you, he seems to do it, he didn't put you in a very important position, and he should be busy with his career at this age, he was also 25 years old when I met my husband, he did graphic design, and he was working overtime every day, busy with work, in order to have a happy home in the future.

    Remember, it's good for you, otherwise everything else has nothing to do with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's divide it directly! You are suitable for a man with a steady focus and can give you a sense of security.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you should think about it Irresponsible men are unreliable Boys are young and have experience to play It doesn't matter if you get married later No matter how young a girl is, you have to think about having a baby in the future Could it be that you have been crazy with him until you are thirty or forty years old? That's when the baby is your biggest problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What else do you want to do with such a man, he is 25 years old, and he is still like this, speechless.........

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is for marriage.

    What woman would want to marry such a man?

    So the question is obvious.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How so?! It's kind of like a mix outside.,But if it's me.,It's going to be divided.。。 He may be tired of playing with you ...

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you continue like this, you may become a third party at some point. I know so many of these people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At this time, you should talk to your boyfriend about it, after all, the two of you are at the age of marriage, and you should not continue to hang out, and you should think about working hard.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should break up right away. Because your boyfriend doesn't love you at all and is not self-motivated, the two of you have no future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should tell the other person what to do, and what is the most important thing to tell the other person, so that the other party will know that the other party is wrong, and the other party will immediately correct it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sister, I feel the same way after reading your description, I have encountered the same problem as you. At first, I was also arguing, making noise, crying, sad, desperate, I was tormented, and he played it right.

    First, you have to know that play is in the nature of children, and your boyfriend has not grown up yet. As a child, playing games to make yourself happy is the most important thing for him, and that doesn't mean he doesn't care about you.

    Second, don't say the word "breakup" lightly. When the girl said that she broke up, she actually wanted to be retained and wanted to see that he cared about herself, but if you haven't made up your mind, you must not say these two words casually, hurt your feelings, hurt each other.

    Third, don't give up on him if you love him.

    My way, play with him, and one day he'll have enough. My boyfriend is less obsessed. There is always a day when children grow up.

    By the way, those who care deserve it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's better to disperse It's not good for the future You definitely still have him in your heart, and you're definitely not used to leaving for a while, but thinking that your boyfriend will definitely be a person who doesn't care about his family in the future, so it's better to persuade you to leave him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, he is still a child, he has not grown into a man, so you feel that you can't understand his behavior, but he still likes you, but there is a problem with the way, it is recommended that you separate from him for a period of time, persuade him to correct it, and then see the effect is not too late In short, don't break up easily!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's an online game again! A man who is so obsessed with games is useless Really, he will give up whatever he plays, and he will continue to play if he invests money, which shows very well that he is not a competent man, he can only be regarded as a boy! Men are responsible!

    Be responsible for the people around you!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I also played games and online games for a while, but then I stopped playing when I found it boring, and men should focus on their careers, and they should first deal with the people and things that are important to them.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Landlord, you realize that you don't need to spend so much bounty to waste, you are right, people like him have no conditions to make the situation recover, right? It's just a pity that this bounty...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You think you can save him if you think there is salvation. But not all men are not saved after playing online games. I've also played in online games. Walked. Stayed; Obsessed. But now I don't play either.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but you just can't let go of it for a while.

    To be a woman, you have to be reserved, you have to be simple, and when you have a decision, don't procrastinate.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Nowadays people are caught up in online games a lot. He's not doing well right now. Whether he is scattered or not, he must be allowed to leave the network and enter the real society. If you really can't take it without confidence, just give up.

    If you still love him and believe that there is a glimmer of hope, then save him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If a person does not put his wife first, then this person basically has no value in living! Looking down on this kind of person, can the game stay with you for a lifetime? It's still your wife for the rest of your life!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes.. Faint to play the game and play so addictively not to mention

    Why do you want to say such a thing?

    It's not good for boys to be too addicted to online games

    Do you want to wait for how much youth do we girls have to waste?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Have you watched "Struggle"?

    Xiang Nan in it is like your boyfriend, and then look at the ending of him and his wife. I think you know how to do it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    At the age of 20, he takes an illusory world so seriously, I don't understand what he thinks, whether he is scattered or not depends on how much you like him

    You ask him, do you want to play a game, choose one of the two.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't just say you're going to disperse. If you love each other, change him. Change him with your heart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it should be dispersed.

    Online games are no different from drug use.

    My brother played a game and almost killed my aunt=

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Look at the psychiatrist, borrow the game, or play with him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Not suitable, twisted melons are not sweet.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think that since you are his girlfriend, even if you are a girl, you should also take responsibility, if you love him, find a way to get him to quit Internet addiction, don't give up to yourself so early, try to do something for him, or do something for the two of you, in fact, I also believe that you have done a lot, but I still hope you can help him more. If you don't love him, just be short-term, be good to him and you, which is what I don't want to see.

    Ask him to go playing ball, swimming, or something with you, and take up his time playing games.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it is important to refuse, and if he really loves you, he will not go against your heart and impose on you what you are not willing to do.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You should refuse, you should keep your distance when you are still young, you can't lose the scale, if you steal the forbidden fruit, the consequences are very serious, you can't bear it, so you can't try anything.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you don't want to, you can say no, because everyone has the right to refuse, especially in this more private situation. If that boy really likes you, then he will definitely respect your choice. I'm not going to force you to do something.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If he is addicted to playing cards every day and doesn't even go to work, such a person must be decisively separated from him, and there will be no future if he continues like this.

    As a man, be responsible, and when he decides to be with you, he should be responsible for you instead of always indulging in playing cards. Even if it is just an amateur hobby of his, if this hobby delays normal life and work, then the man is simply a waste, and there is no need to expect him to do anything at all.

    You hope that being with him can create a better life, and even walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand, but in fact, his psychology is not about these, but how much money can be won on the card field, when he loses, he thinks about how to catch up with the book, so it creates a vicious circle, and in the end there is nothing left.

    You hope that in your spare time, he can accompany you to some places that you have not been to, you can contact the relationship together, talk about your heart, tell him about your feelings for him, go outside to relax, you feel that this kind of day is what you want most, even if he is not so romantic, but he is willing to give you his spare time, you are already very satisfied.

    You want him to go to life with you, go shopping together, go to the vegetable market to buy groceries together. But even these most ordinary lives, he didn't give them to you, you suddenly feel very wronged, I don't know what you are with him for? How much you wish you could live with him is the kind of life with little smoke, but what he gives you is a cold home.

    If it's such a love, you should break up with him, because he has become addicted to playing cards and can't extricate himself, he won't want to be able to spend more time with you, he gives all the time to the card field, and you can also walk away quietly, from then on, go alone.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The leisure and entertainment activity of playing cards can be said to be small and pleasant, and the big one is bankrupt or even bankrupt. There are countless examples of wives being separated due to gambling in real life, so stay away from gambling and cherish a happy life.

    If your boyfriend just likes to play cards instead of gambling, we need to stop his behavior in time and help him quit gambling so that he doesn't go astray. It takes twenty-one days for a good habit to form, while a bad habit is far from that long, and it is often just one step away from liking to playing cards to indulging in gambling. Therefore, whether as a girlfriend or an ordinary friend, what you need most at this time is to dissuade and give correct guidance to help them correct their mistakes and return to their normal lives.

    As his girlfriend, it is more responsible to help and guide him, rather than blindly breaking up with him, you should accompany him to do other things of interest to distract him and divert his energy to other activities and work, which will help him quit gambling. This way your boyfriend will not only get rid of his bad habits, but he will also thank you for your help and companionship, which will strengthen your relationship. You can be regarded as saving a runaway teenager, saving the happiness of a family, and contributing to social stability.

    If you have tried many times to help him quit gambling, but there is no result, and your boyfriend is not determined to adopt or change his bad habits, and he is very impatient with your efforts, you need to think about breaking up, because he is unwilling to change his bad habits, indicating that he is not self-motivated and enterprising, even if you are together in the future, you will be reborn because of all kinds of small things, this kind of contradictory love is not worth having, this kind of unmotivated man is destined to be lonely for life.

    Therefore, you should carefully consider and carefully observe your boyfriend's behavior, and if it can be saved, don't abandon the treatment. If he insists on living and not correcting his mistakes, you don't care about him, this kind of boyfriend is unmotivated and addicted to gambling, don't do it, it's a wise choice to break up early.

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