2 celebrity examples of asking for tolerance and a negative example of intolerance

1. The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly

During the Three Kingdoms period, the state of Shu appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is named Yang Xi, who has a withdrawn personality and is reluctant to speak. Jiang Wan talked to him, but he only answered.

Some people couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan:"Yang Xi, this person is so snub to you, it's so unlikely! "Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said:

People have their own temperaments. ”

Let Yang Xi say words of praise to my face, that is not his nature; Let him say in front of everyone that I am not, and he will think that I can't get off the stage. So, he had no choice but to remain silent. In fact, this is the preciousness of his human being.

Later, some people praised Jiang Wan"The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly"。

2. Six feet lane

During the Qing Dynasty, Prime Minister Zhang Tingyu and a squire surnamed Ye were both from Tongcheng, Anhui Province. The two families lived next to each other, and they had to build houses, and there was a dispute over the land. Mrs. Zhang repaired the book in Beijing and asked Prime Minister Zhang to intervene.

This prime minister has extraordinary knowledge in the end, and after reading the letter, he immediately made a poem to persuade the old lady:"Thousands of miles of family books are only for the wall, so why not let three feet? The Great Wall is still there, and Qin Shi Huang is not seen.

Seeing the book, Zhang's mother immediately took the initiative to retreat three feet back from the wall; Seeing this scene, the Ye family was deeply ashamed, and immediately gave up the wall three feet back. In this way, between the courtyard walls of Zhang Ye's two houses, a six-foot-wide alley was formed, which became famous"Six Feet Lane"。What Zhang Tingyu lost was the ancestral homestead, in exchange for the harmony of the neighborhood and the reputation of the century.

3. Renyi Hutong

During the Ming Dynasty, Dong Duxing, a native of Jiyang, Shandong, was an official in the capital. One day, he received a letter from home, saying that the family had a quarrel with a neighbor over the foundation of the house, and hoped that he could use his power to intervene to solve the matter. Dong Duxing immediately repaired the book after reading it, and said:

Thousands of miles of books just for the wall, I can't help but laugh and break my bowels; You are kind and righteous to marry your neighbors, so why not give up two feet.

After reading it, the family felt that Dong Duxing was reasonable, so they took the initiative to give up a few feet when building the house. And when the neighbors saw the Dong family like this, they also felt something and followed suit. As a result, the two families gave up a total of eight feet wide, and after the house was built, there was an alley, which is known as the world"Renyi Hutong"。

In general, it is enough to give one example of the negative example.

Zhou Yu died of hatred because of his intolerance to Zhuge Liang.

Wang Lun was killed for not tolerating Lin Chong and other heroes.

There are many examples of tolerant celebrities, such as Confucius, Mencius, and many modern celebrities.

<> example of a celebrity who tolerates two people, I once read a story about the clan Jianchang, that is, two families worked hard for the sake of strength, and then sued one of them to the manager The person replied to him with a bright sentence, a letter from thousands of miles is only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet The Great Wall is still there today, why did he build the Qin Shi Huang of the year? In fact, this tells us that in life, don't worry too much, you have to be too much, but you will be very tired, which is the opposite of intolerance, which is the wrong treatment of others, which is the calculation of things.