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Tolerance stories.
Zigong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius: "Teacher, is there a word that can be used as a lifelong principle?" Confucius said, "That's probably 'forgiveness.'" "Forgiveness," in today's parlance, means tolerance.
The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly.
During the Three Kingdoms period, the state of Shu appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is named Yang Xi, who has a withdrawn personality and is reluctant to speak. Jiang Wan talked to him, but he only answered.
Some people couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi, this person is so snub to you, it's too unreasonable!" Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said:
People have their own temperaments. Let Yang Xi say words of praise to my face, that is not his nature; Let him say in front of everyone that I am not, and he will think that I can't get off the stage. So, he had no choice but to remain silent.
In fact, this is the preciousness of his human being. Later, some people praised Jiang Wan for "the prime minister's belly can support the boat".
Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing because of his meritorious work in "returning to Zhao", and he was above Lian Po. Lian Po was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in person. After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he tried his best to avoid and tolerate it, so as not to conflict with Lian Po.
Lin Xiangru's disciples thought that he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said: "The Qin State did not dare to invade our Zhao State because of me and General Lian. I tolerate and give in to General Lian, I put the danger of the country in front and my personal enmity in the back!
When Lian Po heard this, there was a story of Lian Po's "guilty plea".
During the Ming Dynasty, Dong Duxing, a native of Jiyang, Shandong, was an official in the capital. One day, he received a letter from home, saying that the family had a quarrel with a neighbor over the foundation of the house, and hoped that he could use his power to intervene to solve the matter. Dong Duxing immediately repaired the book after reading it, and said:
Thousands of miles of books just for the wall, I can't help but laugh and break my bowels; You are kind and righteous to marry your neighbors, so why not give up two feet. After reading it, the family felt that Dong Duxing was reasonable, so they took the initiative to give up a few feet when building the house. And when the neighbors saw the Dong family like this, they also felt something and followed suit.
As a result, the two families gave up a total of eight feet of space, and after the house was built, there was an alley, which was known as "Renyi Hutong".
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If you do something wrong, others will forgive you.
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<> example of a celebrity who tolerates two people, I once read such a story, that is, two families worked hard in order to be strong, and then sued one of them to the manager The person replied to him with a sentence, a letter from thousands of miles is only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet The Great Wall is still there today, how to build the Qin Shi Huang of the year? In fact, this tells us that in life, don't worry too much, you have to be too much, but you will be very tired, which is the opposite of intolerance, which is the wrong treatment of others, which is the calculation of things.
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