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1.It means that you have grown up.
It's good to start attracting the attention of the opposite sex, but you have to analyze what your charm is? What do they like about you? If it's because of your good character, then you keep your good style of being kind and helpful.
If you study well, then you have to stay at the top of the list, and preferably a few more places. If you have a good temperament, then you will continue to insist on reading a wide range of books and improving your cultivation, a woman's temperament is cultivated, exuded from the inside out, not pretended.
2.Always remember self-esteem and self-love.
Tell your child not to do things that you regret because of a temporary hormonal change, and that the most precious thing for a girl is to give it to the person who is most worthy of her love. If you just want to experience this feeling, and give your precious first time, you will only feel regret when you think about it later.
3.Don't despise yourself because the other person is excellent.
Since the other party can choose himself, then he must have a lot of outstanding advantages, no matter how good the other party is, don't ignore your own advantages, and you don't need to feel inferior in front of the other party. Love is about "evenly matched", if you show inferiority, you may make the other party worse, and you don't know how to cherish yourself.
4.The question of consumption must be clear.
Love in school is often poor, after all, neither of them has enough financial resources to fall in love, so they can only rely on the support of their families. If girls want to make each other respect themselves, they must learn the appropriate AA system, not to let girls rush to pay when they consume, but to show boys that our relationship is equal at the right time.
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Yes. With the continuous progress of society, the degree of tolerance for other people's love and marriage problems is getting higher and higher, and the protection of others' emotional privacy is getting stronger and stronger, but it is not appropriate to advocate early love, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of teenagers.
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The society's tolerance for early love is not getting higher and higher, but more and more attention is paid to correctly guiding and strengthening healthy psychological education, and actively guiding teenagers to treat their youth correctly.
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Early love is more and more common in today's society, this is not the society is more and more tolerant of early love, I believe that many parents will not support their children's early love, most parents will intervene as long as they know that their children are in early love, but early love in society is very common, which is what many parents are puzzled about.
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Society will become more and more tolerant of puppy love because society is always advancing.
The progress of society is the characteristic of cultural enlightenment, and it will also be an enlightened attitude towards early love.
Therefore, there is nothing wrong with puppy love, it is human nature and should not be suppressed.
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Society will become more and more tolerant of early love. With the development of the times, especially in modern times, young people learn the openness of the West and other advanced ideas, gradually, Chinese society has become more and more tolerant of early love.
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The society's tolerance of early love will not be higher and higher, this is a matter of education, and the behavior of early love as parents will definitely not be more and more tolerant, and it will generally be controlled and stopped.
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Everyone has a different view of early love in society, and it is better not to have early love from their own experience! Because he has just come out of society, he is still an ignorant teenager, he is not sensible, and he is easy to be deceived!
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Society's tolerance for early love is not necessarily getting higher and higher, but it will depend on our specific situation to make a decision.
If you are developing on the good side, then society will definitely increase the tolerance of your early love.
But if you are going in a negative direction, society will never allow it.
Therefore, society tends to have a higher tolerance for good things, and tends to be more truthful, good, and beautiful, and you try to develop in a good direction, so as to improve the tolerance of your early love.
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More than 99% of people in this society are opposed, after all, this kind of thing is harmful when two people are not fully able to bear it. Not only does it affect academics, but it also causes excessive distraction or early exposure. It's a very bad thing for others and for yourself.
And early love doesn't know what love is, at most it is a good feeling.
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Clause. First, it will damage the mental and physical health, early love will inevitably take a lot of time and energy, and you will worry about being discovered by parents, teachers, and classmates, and the mental pressure and burden will be relatively large, damaging physical and mental health, and not conducive to the development of adolescents. Adolescents are emotionally unstable, impulsive, have poor self-control, and are prone to deviant behaviors, and even pregnancy, which will cause great mental and physical damage.
The first hole is blind. Second, it may affect the future of the individual, early love wastes time to a certain extent, distracts energy, affects learning, and most of them may cause a decline in academic performance, affecting the individual's prospects for further education.
Clause. 3. If the relationship fails, it will also cause a lot of pain, and most of the endings of early love will end in failure, which will cause psychological trauma and mental pain.
Clause. Fourth, there may be illegal and criminal behaviors, when you are in love, you need money and energy to invest, for the sake of funds, some people may embark on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes, these are the dangers of early love.
If puppy love occurs, it should be discouraged in time, and if necessary, a psychologist can be sought to help change the situation.
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1. The relationship between the two parties in early marriage is not solid, and the divorce rate.
High. Due to the young potato cloth, the psychological development is not mature, will not cultivate feelings, do not know how to understand and take care of each other, it is very easy to lead to the breakdown of marriage. I think that we should start a business first and then start a family, and my life will gradually become stable, my relationship will gradually become stronger, and I will have certain economic conditions, and then I will get married, which is often a happy marriage.
2. Affect work or study, and waste the good years that should be struggled.
Early marriage will lead to oneself being tied up by the family, and the good youth will be busy with the family.
In the good years, we should take advantage of the good time of youth, study and work hard when we are full of energy, and strive to produce results early and more. Don't regret it later.
3. Affect physical and mental health.
Adolescence is an important period for physical growth and development, and if you get married before your development is fully mature, your future development will inevitably be affected. Early marriage also has a negative impact on psychological development, and when it comes to trivial matters, they quarrel endlessly and do not give in to each other.
4. The economic burden is too heavy.
At present, young people's incomes are generally not high, their economic conditions are poor, and they have no basic number of eggplant ears, and if they no longer manage their families diligently and thriftily, it will inevitably lead to financial constraints, and even quarrels over economic issues, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife.
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It can be said that many students now tend to fall in love, and the age of early love is getting younger and younger, in my opinion, the society's tolerance for early love is indeed a little higher, but I don't think that early love will not become a very normal thing, because early love itself is a harm to both parties.
Puppy love can be said to be regarded as an insurmountable forbidden place by schools and parents, I said that parents or teachers who find that students have a tendency to puppy love, must be stopped in time, do not let puppy love develop further, because puppy love is definitely not a normal thing.
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I don't think so, because early love is indeed not very good for the development of children in all aspects, and it may cause a lot of harm. Let's take it personally.
When I was in high school, I was with a boy from our class, and I actually think that early love is very normal for high school students. At that time, we were all young and frivolous, and we felt that everything was secondary in the face of love. So the two of us were quite bold, and then we didn't pay much attention at school, and we were discovered by the teacher.
Because we were all doing well in our studies, the teacher didn't change us much at first. But maybe it got a little rampant later, so we both got to see the parents. At that time, I felt that I was not wrong, so I kept talking back to my parents, and I didn't listen to what they said.
We were together until we graduated from high school, and then I came to college and he went to the army, so we naturally separated. When I grew up, I realized that what my parents said was for my own good, and I also understood that early love was not beneficial.
So in the future, I will also teach my children not to fall in love, and according to this development, it will not become a normal thing.
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I think society is becoming more and more tolerant of puppy love, and some parents and teachers don't care about it anymore. But it's best not to fall in love, as they get older, children's minds are becoming more and more mature, early love is a necessary distraction, and middle school is a good time to study, so it's better to fall in love or go to college.
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What stage is puppy love? Kindergarten or Elementary School? Does junior high school count?
What is love, two people are in love when they are together! What do kindergarten and elementary school kids know about two people working together? That's just the little friends who like to play together!
Because junior high school students have their own adolescent development and their own emotional awareness, the likes of this period are called love, that is, the emergence of early love.
But I personally think that they don't know about love, they just like each other because of different genders, and as for the content of love, it won't appear until high school!
After all, a woman like Lin Daiyu also knows her emotions and understands the meaning of love in high school. Only let people promise life and death! Puppy love is an acceptable thing, I understand, but not advocated!
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The problem of early love is whether you tolerate it or not, it all exists, and the hearts of young people are relatively fragile nowadays, and sometimes you try to prevent things that may lead to more tragedy.
In fact, tolerance or intolerance is just one of our attitudes, the key is to develop their correct concepts, and you can grasp this degree yourself.
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Society cannot tolerate puppy love. Because there are too many problems of early love in this society now, which seriously affect the development and future of children. Therefore, in the critical period of children's youth, teachers and parents must guide and communicate in a timely manner when they find this problem, and it is not that early love is bad, but generally early love does not have good results, right?
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Yes, after all, puppy love is very common now, the ignorance of adolescence, and the phenomenon of precocious puberty have all been experienced by the post-90s, so I also know that as long as I don't cross the bottom line, I can still tolerate it.
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Early love is normal now, sometimes Xiaobao in kindergarten will also say to his parents, I like to play with Xiaohua, maybe the times are advancing, and it is no wonder that "early love" is no longer strange.
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I think puppy love is really not a good thing, and the society will not tolerate the occurrence of puppy love, after all, schools and parents are cracking down on this matter, although it can't be avoided, but it can be controlled in the general direction.
Personally, I think puppy love is not good for studying, because you always think about how the other person is when you are in class, and for a person like me who is particularly purposeful, high school is too uncertain, if I choose a boy, we both quarrel over various issues, it's really a waste of time, if the person who is with me in the end is not him, what should I do with all this time I waste? If you don't come back, it's a waste there, I don't think you should waste the best memories on early love, few people mention that early love will not regret it.
There is also the fact that early love is not good for parents, parents work hard for us to go to school, and as a result, you fall in love, how chilling and sad you make your parents, and there will be opportunities to meet the right person in the future, don't treat three or five years as a lifetime in junior high and high school.
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Society is against puppy love. Chinese parents, or more precisely middle-class parents, oppose early love because it "maybe" reduce access to higher education, which in turn makes class leaps hopeless or even slippery. For those who do not need the college entrance examination, their parents do not think that there is a so-called "early love" at all.
In the eyes of the man's parents: if the son is in early love, it is difficult to marry his girlfriend home, so there is no benefit in this matter. And early love may affect grades, fail to get into a good university, and cause class decline.
Therefore, puppy love can only be bad, not good.
In the eyes of the woman's parents: once the daughter is pregnant, it means that her education will be interrupted, and she will inevitably decline in class. It is almost impossible for the man to get married for this, and even if he does, the man is a "waste" who has slipped to the bottom of the class.
And if her daughter is admitted to college, she will have a better choice. "Puppy love" must be cracked down. But others don't have this annoyance.
The natives of first, second and third-tier cities often don't care much about the so-called "early love". Vocational high schools and five-year colleges are basically indigenous, and they basically don't plan to take the college entrance examination (even if it is a corresponding high school, the difficulty is very low), and there is no need to consider the housing prices in other places. So whether it's parents or school, it's just "don't get pregnant".
Although the natives are not highly educated, the total income of their families is not necessarily low, they may be grassroots cadres of state-owned enterprises, senior skilled workers, or they may be second-generation people who have bought houses and have small businesses, and they are more relaxed than most of the "middle class".
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