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Anonymous users2024-02-161.First aspect: No.
Everyone deserves their own life, their own space, even more so in the most intimate relationships. More often, couples don't need to maintain a high-frequency chat rhythm every day, if you are a student, then you still have to attend classes every day, and you may not have any extra time to maintain a high-frequency chat rhythm, and you can't delay your study in order to maintain the frequency of chatting, you can chat when you have free time, and you don't have to deliberately chat for the sake of chatting. If you are an office worker, then you still have a certain amount of work every day, your working hours may be the same as you, how can you maintain a high frequency of chatting, if you are in a different place, you may have no time to chat, but this does not mean that you have no feelings.
2.The second aspect: the relationship maintenance of couples should not just rely on chatting.
Sometimes we have to be busy with other things, and you may not have the time and energy to spend on chatting with the partner, or you may explain what you want to do in a few words, but your heart is not that you don't care about the other person, just because you really have something to do, you have to do it, and you will go to the other person first when you have time. In my opinion, a stable relationship, sometimes it is not necessary to deliberately maintain a high frequency of chatting, there are too many things in life that are involuntary and forced to do it, you need to understand each other, accommodate each other, there will always be a period when you don't know what to say, when you do what you should do, do it with your heart, don't be half-hearted, and talk only after you are busy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-15Because of this, as long as you chat more, you will know each other, have feelings, and have common ideals.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Couples don't need to keep a high pace of chatting. Let's analyze it together!
1.Too often, resulting in a sense of boredom
If the couple chats too often, the call time is long, and the love period is hot.
It's okay, but maybe after two or three months, there will be no topic to talk about, although it is through **, but it is struggling to find a topic to talk about, and the people who listen to it feel more and more boring, and gradually make people have the illusion that there is something wrong with the relationship. In fact, there is no need to deliberately maintain high-frequency chatting, moderate communication will be better.
2.Chat is about quality
Communication between couples is very necessary, and it can also enhance the relationship and eliminate misunderstandings. But chatting too often makes people feel that they are so annoying, endless, ruined, and difficult to refuse, and annoyed. But talking more interesting, high-quality, exchanging feelings and experiences may be more conducive to feelings, and it is better to leave a little time for the other party to be unique to themselves when quality is not about quantity.
3.Expose personality issues
If you chat too many times, both parties know each other's personalities too well, there is no sense of mystery and distance, personality problems and shortcomings are gradually exposed, and there will be more contradictions, so nothing should be too much.
4.I don't have time to talk to my friends
If you spend too much time chatting with your partner, you won't have time to talk to your friends, but friendship is also very important, and you still need to set aside a little time for your friends.
5.Some people don't like to chat a lot
If the object actually doesn't like to chat often, but can't bear to refuse, so he reluctantly copes with the chat, which is counterproductive and not conducive to the development of the relationship.
To sum up, couples don't need to maintain a high-frequency chat rhythm, but should have a high-quality chat.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13Couples do need to maintain a high-frequency rhythm of chatting with each other. So that both sides can be made. Get to know each other better.
After all, two people who have never known each other have come together. Even if it was a colleague relationship before. Yes, the details of everyone's life.
Or. Perspectives and opinions on a variety of things. None of them are fully understood.
When two people are in a relationship, they should further deepen their understanding. See if both are right for you. So keep the rhythm of high-frequency chatting.
It should be mutually understood. A good idea.
As a couple. That means that they are rushing to get married. If only two people.
I want to try the process of falling in love. It's not for the purpose of getting married. Then there is no need for such frequent chats.
There is no need to get to know each other in such detail. On the contrary, if you are rushing to get married. Then you have to get to know each other better.
As a husband and wife, it is important to know each other. And we have to be tolerant of each other. It is better if two people are complementary.
Such. Marriage lasts for a long time. In other words, it can smoothly pass the seven years of itching.
If two people in a marriage don't know much about each other. Especially those who get married in flashes. After two people really come together.
Chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea. Housework for the family. And so on.
Problems that are common in marriage arise. If both parties know each other better before the marriage. Then the probability of problems after marriage is much lower.
Therefore, couples should maintain a high-frequency rhythm of chatting. In this way, both sides can understand more thoroughly. Lay a good foundation for entering the siege of marriage in the future.
Otherwise, neither side knows much about it. temperament walked into the siege of marriage. And then I found out.
Advantages and disadvantages that neither side can tolerate. And then the quarrel began. Cold war.
There is even domestic violence. Others use mental violence. In the end, the marriage failed.
Then the gains outweigh the losses, and a failed marriage is for both husband and wife. None of them are good. Especially once you have children.
If both spouses divorce again. The harm to the child is the greatest. Therefore.
Husband and wife. It must be fully understood before you get married. And then come to the guarantee.
The stability of this marriage.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Couples do need to maintain a high-frequency rhythm of chatting with each other. So that both sides can be made. Get to know each other better.
After all, two people who have never known each other have come together. Even if it was a colleague relationship before. Yes, the details of everyone's life.
Or. Perspectives and opinions on a variety of things. None of them are fully understood.
When two people are in a relationship, they should further deepen their understanding. See if both are right for you. So keep the rhythm of high-frequency chatting.
It should be mutually understood. A good idea.
As a couple. That means that they are rushing to get married. If only two people.
I want to try the process of falling in love. It's not for the purpose of getting married. Then there is no need for such frequent chats.
There is no need to get to know each other in such detail. On the contrary, if you are rushing to get married. Then you have to get to know each other better.
As a husband and wife, it is important to know each other. And we have to be tolerant of each other. It is better if two people are complementary.
Such. Marriage lasts for a long time. In other words, it can smoothly pass the seven years of itching.
If two people in a marriage don't know much about each other. Especially those who get married in flashes. After two people really come together.
Chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea. Housework for the family. And so on.
Problems that are common in marriage arise. If both parties know each other better before the marriage. Then the probability of problems after marriage is much lower.
Therefore, couples should maintain a high-frequency rhythm of chatting. In this way, both sides can understand more thoroughly. Lay a good foundation for entering the siege of marriage in the future.
Otherwise, neither side knows much about it. temperament walked into the siege of marriage. And then I found out.
Advantages and disadvantages that neither side can tolerate. And then the quarrel began. Cold war.
There is even domestic violence. Others use mental violence. In the end, the marriage failed.
Then the gains outweigh the losses, and a failed marriage is for both husband and wife. None of them are good. Especially once you have children.
If both spouses divorce again. The harm to the child is the greatest. Therefore.
Husband and wife. It must be fully understood before you get married. And then come to the guarantee.
The stability of this marriage.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Not necessarily
Couples need to chat to enhance their relationship, but it is not necessary, and it is important to maintain a high rhythm of chatting. Because we all know that there are stages of falling in love, such as the hot love period, the exhaustion period, and so on. If you go to chat frequently in the tired stage, it will not be of much help to each other's feelings.
It is likely to lead to a breakup due to exhaustion. Chatting is the most direct way for couples to maintain their relationship, but it is not necessary to be frequent, and it is not even necessary to keep chatting mode all the time.
Chat is the most direct way for couples to maintain their relationship, but the omen key pair is not high-frequency, and even maintains chat mode all the time. Love is a part of life, not the whole story.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10There is a hot search on the Internet: "Do couples need to maintain a rhythm of high-frequency chatting"?
Under this hot search, many netizens have shared their opinions.
Two points of view. First: you need to chat every day.
People with this point of view, they think that only by chatting every day can they better maintain the relationship between two people.
Second: Air and land do not need to chat frequently.
They believe that even if two people love each other again, they need to keep their own space, and Dou You has their own things to do; High-frequency chatting will only have the opposite effect on the feelings of two people.
In the poll, the majority agreed: there is no need for high-frequency chatting.
So, do couples want to chat frequently?
Let's talk about the conclusion first: two people who love each other need to maintain a certain frequency of chatting, but chatting at a high frequency all the time will only accelerate the consumption of love between two people.
Why?
Because the early stage of the relationship and the hot love period have passed, the mode of getting along with couples is constantly changing.
For example, when pursuing someone we like, we need to chat with each other every day, create various topics every day, and take the initiative to find topics to talk about for each other's banquets.
What is the purpose of this?
Of course, it is through chatting to deepen the relationship between two people and establish "understanding" between each other.
Only when you know more can you have a chance to be with each other.
And once you are in a relationship, your goals have changed, and you will naturally reduce the frequency of chatting.
After the love period, the relationship between the two of you has stabilized, and there is no need to chat every day.
You know, when you pursue someone, it takes a lot of energy, time, and money.
You need to make a choice between your lover and your life and work, and in the end you choose your lover.
And what about after being together?
In order to get married, you have to manage your own life, and love is the icing on the cake for you.
In this late stage of love, when talking about marriage, it is inevitable that there will be less chatting.
You have a job, and so does the other person.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Couples do need to maintain a high-frequency rhythm of chatting with each other. So that both sides can be made. Get to know each other better.
After all, two people who have never known each other have come together. Even if it was a colleague relationship before. Yes, the details of everyone's life.
Or. Perspectives and opinions on a variety of things. None of them are fully understood.
When two people are in a relationship, they should further deepen their understanding. See if both are right for you. So keep the rhythm of high-frequency chatting.
It should be mutually understood. A good idea.
As a couple. That means that they are rushing to get married. If only two people.
I want to try the process of falling in love. It's not for the purpose of getting married. Then there is no need for such frequent chats.
There is no need to get to know each other in such detail. On the contrary, if you are rushing to get married. Then you have to get to know each other better.
As a husband and wife, it is important to know each other. And we have to be tolerant of each other. It is better if two people are complementary.
Such. Marriage lasts for a long time. In other words, it can smoothly pass the seven years of itching.
If two people in a marriage don't know much about each other. Especially those who get married in flashes. After two people really come together.
Chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea. Housework for the family. And so on.
Problems that are common in marriage arise. If both parties know each other better before the marriage. Then the probability of problems after marriage is much lower.
Therefore, couples should maintain a high-frequency rhythm of chatting. In this way, both sides can understand more thoroughly. Lay a good foundation for entering the siege of marriage in the future.
Otherwise, neither side knows much about it. temperament walked into the siege of marriage. And then I found out.
Advantages and disadvantages that neither side can tolerate. And then the quarrel began. Cold war.
There is even domestic violence. Others use mental violence. In the end, the marriage failed.
Then the gains outweigh the losses, and a failed marriage is for both husband and wife. None of them are good. Especially once you have children.
If both spouses divorce again. The harm to the child is the greatest. Therefore.
Husband and wife. It must be fully understood before you get married. And then come to the guarantee.
The stability of this marriage.
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In principle, it is necessary to make a clear distinction. He can choose whether to win or lose mahjong or not, but you must give money to the person who wins, this is a matter of principle for a person. I hope my pro is helpful.
That's his character, don't think about it, his character is like that, if you are guessing, it is estimated that you will break up without dividing, you love him to understand what kind of person he is, some people like the feeling of meeting, because he only feels happy when he meets, he thinks that he is only happy when he calls, he just has nothing to do, so it is a waste of time and money, more than accounting, or meeting is affordable, maybe you don't understand why he has such thoughts, you will think what age is now, Doesn't it have to meet to be affordable? But people are sometimes like this, before we didn't have a mobile phone, we can only increase feelings through this way of meeting, but now we all have mobile phones, but some people still like the previous way of meeting, they don't like to call you very much, and rarely meet, but they are on your heart, it's just that time does not allow them to meet often, and when you have time, when you are meeting, he is still happy to have fun with you, but everyone's way of expressing it is different, So don't guess, everyone's love style is different, don't think that he doesn't like you like this, it's just that he likes to meet to increase the relationship between you. If you don't like his way of falling in love, you can put what you want forward and see how he explains, because if you don't communicate, some things are difficult to solve, I have met this kind of person before, and I had the same cranky thoughts as you at that time, and later told him, he said that he liked the feeling of meeting, and he didn't feel it when he texted **, so he didn't want to text **, and then I thought maybe I was too worried, hehe I wish you good luck.