Men ask what you re doing, what about women with high emotional intelligence?

1. I'm waiting for you to chat with me!

Usually men will say: what are you doing, what should you do at this time? The average woman may tell the truth and tell the man truthfully, so it is easy to have an awkward conversation, so that the two people have nothing to say, and a woman with high emotional intelligence will say:

I'm waiting for you to talk to me! This will arouse his desire to talk to you, and there will be no awkward conversation.

2. I'm thinking about you!

If you tell your boyfriend that I'm thinking about you, then the man will be very happy to hear it, and will think that you care about him, what about the crush? You can use it as a temptation to tell him in a joking tone, if he politely rejects you, you can also act as if you don't know what to do, this is a joke, just don't take it seriously, however, it is worth noting that this can only be used for boyfriends and crushes.

3. Guess what!

Guess what! This creates a sense of mystery for the other party, and the more you don't know, the more you want to know, in fact, this is a truth.

4. I'm wondering what you're doing.

What it means is up to men to understand. But no matter what kind of understanding, it can mobilize the enthusiasm of men and also set a good atmosphere for chatting.

For women with high emotional intelligence, chatting is not just a chat, but a way to convey their hearts secretly. Often let the other party know a sentence that cannot be said clearly in another way, which is the art of language and the embodiment of emotional intelligence.

5. Deliberately not, or divert the topic.

In this case, a man with high emotional intelligence has already understood what the woman means, and she has no feelings for you, so don't continue to ask.

1. I'm in a daze.

In a daze? This is high emotional intelligence.

The answer of the woman or the answer of a woman with low emotional intelligence, I want to listen to my narration, and listen to my examples to see it at a glance.

There was a pair of friends of the opposite sex chatting, and the man asked, "What are you doing?" In a few seconds, the woman replied, "I didn't do anything, I was just in a daze!" ”。

At one point, the man was puzzled and sent a questioning expression, was it a god or something, and the woman replied in seconds, "I'm thinking about you, I'm thinking in a daze!" ”

Do you understand it in seconds, so now do you know the difference between women with high EQ and women with low EQ? The woman who replied "in a daze" is a woman with high emotional intelligence, because her completely makes men confused in their thinking.

2. More than what are you doing in reply?

When a man asks a woman what she is doing, a clever and high-IQ woman, if she says that she is out playing with her friends, a high-IQ woman may say, they are all having so much fun, I feel that I am so unsociable, so lonely!

Or some girls will say that I am outside, but I forgot to bring a coat when I went out, and now I suddenly feel cold, remember to add a coat when you come out, don't catch a cold, and use a warm word to warm a man's heart.

The man asked what you were doing? Don't be direct, most people with high emotional intelligence will reply to him.

I love you too.

Not only do women love romance, but so do men, and in this society, people subconsciously believe that men are the ones who create romance and women are the ones who feel romance.

In human emotional communication, words are the most common way to express emotions, and the art of using words can make others understand that you care. Lovers often use love language to deepen their relationship between the sexes, and this verbal expression of love also has a warming effect on feelings.

What am I doing, and what are you doing? And guess what? I'm waiting for you to talk to me, wondering what you're doing

1. What am I doing and what are you doing?

A smart woman will not only know how to accept the olive branch thrown by a man, but will take the initiative to create topics and have more contact with each other. So when they meet men who have a good feeling, they know how to take the initiative to find topics. In this, the man throws up the question, if you only say what you are doing, then maybe you will continue to talk about what you are doing, or it may make the man think that you are just straight about his problem, and then there is no more.

And if you are interested in him, then ask you what about you, what are you doing, etc., it will make the man feel your interest indicators, so that he will know that you are also interested in him, and then he will be more willing to chat with you enthusiastically.

<> two: Guess what?

Start a new topic with your guess, and let the man know that you have a crush on him and are willing to continue chatting with him. So a sentence of "you guess" covers the three roles of interest indicators, flirting, and opening new topics.

3. I'm waiting for you to talk to me.

This is an earthy love sentence that makes the atmosphere of the chat not too heavy. First of all, it is a good choice to let both parties have the desire to continue chatting, whether it is a ridicule of local love words or an extension of other topics, to avoid the result of awkward conversation.

Fourth, I wonder what you're doing.

When a man asks a woman what she is doing, he doesn't really want to know what the woman is doing, but just wants to find a common topic. Therefore, a woman with high emotional intelligence will know how to turn the conversation to the man, so that the woman asks the man what he is doing, and then she can give the man enough opportunities to behave and listen to him start talking.

Fifth, the answer is not the question.

When the man asked the woman what she was doing, the woman replied that she had eaten two steamed buns yesterday morning. I'm just telling you euphemistically, what do I have to do with you? Just mind yourself, I don't like you, don't mess with me.

A woman with high emotional intelligence is so tactful and complicated even when she refuses to pick someone up.

1. I'm thinking about you. No one will refuse a woman with a sweet mouth, especially for this kind of woman who can tickle your heart with one mouth, and no man can resist their charm. Therefore, when a man asks a woman what she is doing on WeChat, the woman casually says a sweet and sweet love word, "I'm thinking about you", what man would refuse such a sweet and sultry woman with high emotional intelligence?

Two, guess what. When a man asks a woman what she is doing, it is most likely that the man wants to chat with the woman and connect with the relationship. How can a woman with high emotional intelligence not see this careful thinking of men?

Therefore, when she replied to the sentence "guess what", she had perfectly transferred the initiative of the topic to you, and at the same time had more interaction with you, giving you more opportunities to understand him Zhou Lu Cong, do you dare to disagree with such a girl with high emotional intelligence? 3. I'm wondering what you're doing in Siga. When a man asks a woman what she is doing, he doesn't really want to know what the woman is doing, but just wants to find a common topic.

Therefore, a woman with high emotional intelligence will know how to turn the conversation to a man, so that the woman asks the man what he is doing, and then he can.

The man asks you what you are doing, high emotional intelligence is as follows:1. Come in a humorous way.

2. A ridiculous way.

For example, "I was thinking about you, and you suddenly messaged me and I was so happy." Saying such things will not only make the atmosphere between you very harmonious, but you will also feel more comfortable getting along, which will make you want the man to talk about the next topic and let the man know what kind of person you are.

Precautions. On WeChat, the man's seemingly ordinary sentence "What are you doing" may contain his unusual mood. A wise woman will fully consider the mood of the man who said that, will consider the level of your relationship has reached, will fully consider your relationship, and respond appropriately, without hurting the man's self-esteem, and appear very decent.

A smart woman will come to you very simply, and there won't be too many reasons, what she is doing at this time is to tell you what she is doing very bluntly, without hiding at all.

The high EQ is "thinking about you", "guessing what", "thinking about what you are doing", "thinking about you", "waiting for you to chat with me", don't answer the wrong question, otherwise you will talk to death and leave a bad impressionThe reasons for this are explained below.

1. "I'm thinking about you".

When a guy asks you to take the initiative to chat, it must be interesting to you, but it doesn't pierce the layer of window paper.

So when he asks you "what are you doing", you must seize this rare opportunity, provided that you are also interesting to others, you can directly reply to him "I am thinking about you".

2. "Guess what".

Men who are too conformist usually don't like it, and when the other party asks you "what are you doing", you directly reply "eating" or "sleeping", which instantly turns your conversation into an awkward conversation, which is also the reason why the other person can't answer. So, when the women are there, they can be a little "skinny", and they can say to each other what do you guess or what do you say I'm doing? In this way, the interaction between the two people will be more and more, and the language can also achieve a warm feeling.

3. "What are you doing?"

There are times when men chasing women are usually more subtle, but before you confirm the relationship, the other party does not understand your thoughts and will naturally not blurt out. So when the other person says "what are you doing" in a chat, they don't really ask what you're doing, but usually probe your thoughts in a different way.

4. "I'm thinking about you".

If the man you say to yourself like this is the crush in your heart, then you can use this opportunity to test and reply to him directly: I am thinking about you, showing your heart in a joking tone can also make him understand your thoughts, which is much better than reckless direct confession.

5. "I'm waiting for you to talk to me".

In fact, a man can't ask you casually like this, a woman with low emotional intelligence is likely to start chatting along this topic, saying some ambiguous and direct words, thinking that she is very smart and flirting with a man, but in fact, this will leave a frivolous impression on the other party.

Usually men will say: What are you doing, and women with high emotional intelligence will say: I'm waiting for you to talk to me! In this way, it can arouse his desire to talk to you, and there will be no awkward conversation, so women! When a man asks like this, he can reply like this!

2. I'm thinking about you!

This kind of words can only be used on crush and boyfriend, if you say to your boyfriend that I'm thinking about you, then the man will be very happy to hear it, and will think that you care about him, the crush can be used as a temptation, tell him in a joking tone, if he politely refuses, you can also act as if you don't know what to do, this is just a joke, don't take it seriously, however, it is worth noting that this can only be used on boyfriends and crushes.

Men with high emotional intelligence will be very popular with women in love, and men with high emotional intelligence will not have any situation where they can't get a woman, they are very comfortable in the relationship, and can bring people a particularly comfortable sense of getting along. Research data shows that the success rate of men with high emotional intelligence in falling in love is as high as more than 90%. High emotional intelligence brings a man not only a sweet and stable relationship, but also a very successful life.

1. "I'm thinking about you" When almost all women ask men what they are doing, they want to receive a reply of "I'm thinking about you". Because this can show that this man loves himself very much and will miss him all the time. Although this answer is very simple, only men with high emotional intelligence can answer like this, and men with low emotional intelligence generally reply with "nothing to do".

2. "What gift am I thinking of buying you" When a woman asks a man with high emotional intelligence "What are you doing", the man will reply "What gift am I thinking about buying you", this sentence is definitely a sentence that women like and will make women very excited. After all, no woman doesn't like gifts, and receiving a gift from someone they like is the happiest thing for them.

3. "I'm thinking about taking you to ** play on the weekend" "I'm thinking about taking you to ** play on the weekend", this answer will also make women very happy, because the purpose of her asking this sentence is to hope that the man is thinking about her, caring about everything about her, or knowing what the man is doing, and the man with high emotional intelligence answers all the words related to women, which will make the woman very satisfied.

Usually men with high emotional intelligence will definitely reply, and I was thinking, you believe that such a reply will definitely make a woman's heart flutter and definitely promote the relationship between each other.

1. Girl: What are you doing?

Boy: Guess what, there is a prize for guessing right, 2. Girl: What are you doing?

Boy: I'm looking at the navigation.

Girl: Where to go?

Boy: Go to your heart, but the navigation indicates that the destination has arrived.

3. Girl: What are you doing?

Boy: I'm chatting with a young lady!

Girl: Oh? Boy: The young lady seemed to be angry, and only replied to me with an "oh".

4. Girl: What are you doing?

Boy: I'm replying to a message from a beautiful young lady!

5. Girl: What are you doing?

Boy: I'm studying the cultural differences between Chinese and foreigners.

Girls: What's the difference?

Boy: When foreigners miss you, they say I miss you, while Chinese only say "what are you doing".

6. Girl: What are you doing?

Boy: I'm picking the lock!

Girl: What kind of lock?

Boy: Open the door to your heart.