How to deal with the needs behind the baby s crying?

I think the main thing is to see what causes the baby, and the child cries endlessly. If we feel unwell or fall and bump, we can comfort the child, but if the child is vexatious, first of all, we have to tell the child that it is useless to do so, and if the child cries and we compromise, then he will use the same method in the future.

Crying because either he poops or the baby is hungry, according to one of the baby's facial expressions. To judge the baby's current state, if the face is red, it means that he is pooping.

The first point is to ask the baby why he is crying, so that the child can go to this question positively, the second point is that the child crying should let the child calm down first, and then let the child express the thoughts in his heart, the third point should tell the child that it is wrong to cry often, so that the child can develop the habit of not crying.

The most important thing a newborn baby does every day is sleep. If he cries, it may be that he is lying down uncomfortable, or he is urinating, or he is hungry, he will express it in this way.

Hunger, comfort, discomfort, etc. Due to the poor development of the stomach and intestines, the baby needs to replenish the amount of milk in time, and will cry when he is hungry; comfort, need the company of family members; Babies can't speak, and they can cry when they feel uncomfortable.

The baby is hungry, the diaper is wet, the baby has nightmares, the baby is awakened, the baby misses his mother, the baby is hot, the baby is uncomfortable, sick, etc. will cause the baby to cry.

When the baby is hungry, he will cry to express his needs; The baby has a stomachache and can't bear it and will cry, and if he has a fever and cold, the baby will only sleep; If the baby wants to attract attention, he will cry and tell the adult to play with him.

In children, crying is not only a way to express discomfort, pain, unhappiness, or anger, such as being sick or feeling unwell, but also a way of communicating to get needs or attract the attention of others, such as wanting to get something, being anxious, etc. Therefore, when many children solve their needs, they will immediately stop crying and even become happy.

Some children are sensitive by nature and naturally like to cry, but that's not a bad thing. In addition, for children, there are too many "opportunities" to cry, such as: if you want to do something, you cry if you can't say it clearly; I cry when I fall; Toys are snatched away by children and cry; I want to eat an extra piece of candy, but if I don't give it, I cry.

In general, I think there are a few basic principles to grasp when dealing with children's crying:

1) Figure out the root cause of crying, and treat different reasons differently.

2) Don't be afraid of crying, moderately letting children cry is not a bad thing for the cultivation of children's character and way of doing things.

3) Don't just cry and talk about crying, and appropriately guide children to distract themselves.

4) Don't punish crying, don't intimidate, scare, or even scold your child because of crying.

Whether the baby is crying unwell or hungry.

My baby is squeezed when he is not full moon, and the baby will hurt somewhat, but I feel that it is better to squeeze it, and my baby is a little watery when he squeezes.

Yesterday I took my child to the supermarket, walked to the toy area, and saw a mother and baby arguing over a toy car. The child wants it very much, while the mother feels that there are too many toys at home to buy anymore. The child cried and was unwilling, and the mother finally bought it for the child in a huff.

In fact, you will often see such a scene in the supermarket, and most mothers will have two ways to deal with it, one is to say that the family has no money and will not buy it, and the other is to buy it if they think the child likes it. In fact, these two solutions are not good, and they will affect the formation of children's future personalities.

1. The wrong way.

1.Our family is poor, so we take out our wallets that don't have a penny and show them to our children.

In the face of crying children who have to buy toys, many mothers are more extreme, because they really can't handle the children, so they can only tell the children that they have no money, and let the children see the empty wallet, he will die. Many mothers still think how clever their methods are, but in fact, this has hurt their children's hearts in unaccustomed ways. As a parent, the best way to instill a correct view of money in your child is never to tell him how poor our family is, because after a long time, the child will have an inferiority complex and feel that he does not deserve to have good things.

2.Don't say anything, buy, buy, buy.

Since there is no shortage of money at home, the mother should tell the child the value of this thing, if it is not good for the child's growth at all, or the family is already much better, it is a waste to buy it home. If every time the child opens his mouth, Bi Kusan's mother will buy it, and in the end he will develop a luxurious nature.

2. The right approach.

1.Make an appointment before you go out.

Before taking the child out, the mother should agree with the child what can and cannot be bought, so that the child will not ask for what he likes when he sees it in the supermarket. If the child still sees everything, the mother can tell the child that when he goes out, he will take the money according to the shopping list, and if he buys toys, he will not be able to buy food, and the child will generally think about it clearly.

2.Give your child choice.

Mothers will definitely give a birthday gift to the child when he has a birthday, if the child goes out and sees a thing he likes very much, and asks for it, the mother can tell the child to wait for his birthday to buy it for him, if he wants it now, the birthday gift will not be rotten. This can not only give the child an expectation, but also take care of the child's mood, which is simply killing two birds with one stone.

When the child cries, I will treat it coldly, I will not care about the child, when the child calms down, I will communicate with the child well. Because when the child is crying, if the parents coax the child at this time, it will only make the child's smile and temper become bigger.

If Bao Chi Jing Hongbao crying because of the invincible requirements, I will not meet the baby's requirements, at this time will let the baby cry, if the baby is because of the manuscript and is wronged or injured after crying, I will accompany the baby to comfort the baby book.

Soothe your baby, tease him with toys, give him food he likes to eat, sing softly to him, and make him laugh.

I don't care about the child when I cry, and I will only communicate with the child after the child has calmed down.