Children and Adolescents Research 2018 05 after reading

This is a tragic story, this is a story that people can't bear to look at, this is a history of the suffering of China's lowest peasants. In the most turbulent and chaotic half century in China, various forces such as the Japanese invaders, the Returning Hometown League, and the Communist Party came and went like a lamplight, and various movements such as the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, the War of Liberation, natural disasters, the Cultural Revolution, and the reform and opening up came one after another. And all she can do is desperately raise the remaining children and the offspring of her lost daughter. No matter how the times and circumstances change, the only thing that remains unchanged is the deepest and most selfless love of mothers for their children.

If Yu Hua's life is a story of unremitting struggle and brave life in the face of tragic fate; Then Breast Fat Buttocks is an epic that fights unremittingly in the face of a tragic fate and lives bravely. Mother said, "In the past ten years, the people of the Shangguan family, like leeks, have died with stubble, stubble with hair, life and death, death is easy, life is difficult, and the more difficult it is, the more you have to live." The more you are not afraid of death, the more you have to struggle to live.

I will see the day when my children will rise to the water, and you will all fight for me."

Since the teacher helped us subscribe to the journal "Juvenile and Child Studies", we will read each issue carefully, which is indeed a great benefit for us as parents. Every time I go to the office to learn with my colleagues, I think the good thing is to be shared with everyone, because their children are all about the same age, everyone agrees that this book teaches us parents a lot of good methods, and I also feel that I usually have a lot to do in educating children.

In fact, since my child went to school, I think my biggest problem is that I care too much about my child's performance in all aspects of school, and always hope that he can do everything well, but it backfires, so I feel very tired. Especially in mathematics, this child in my family does not have strong comprehension skills, and there are always some problems with every word problem, and he always can't combine the words in the question with life, so he only knows to look at the words and think about it. Whenever we are very anxious at this time, he is not happy when he sees us, and he is even less confident when he does the question, and he is always afraid that we will criticize him if he does something wrong, so he will not achieve the desired effect.

This state of affairs continued until I read the article "Every Child is Unique" in the fourth issue, and I felt that my mood suddenly brightened up. Some of those words struck me deeply: "If your values are to focus on the elite, focus on scores, and want your child to be a human being, then most parents will be angry at home because their child is too far away from your requirements."

If parents can accept a child with mediocre grades, the family will have less scolding and more laughter and relaxation. We want to tell our children that although you are not the best, you are unique. "It feels like these words are just being said to us.

So we just thought that since the child is just an ordinary child, not a special child with superior intelligence, then we parents should look at him with a normal heart. Instead of blindly putting pressure on him, it is better to let him grow into a healthy and optimistic ordinary person in a relaxed and happy environment. Of course, saying this doesn't mean that we don't care about his learning, we will still cooperate with the teacher to educate the child well, but we don't feel so tired in our hearts!

Wouldn't it be better if everyone could improve their grades in a relaxed and happy way?

There are many things in this set of books that are helpful for us to educate our children, and we will continue to learn and improve our mentality. Let children grow up healthy and happy with us!