I ve already decided to leave, why can t I let go?

Hello. I think your question is very similar to mine, and I hope my advice can help you. In fact, if you really can't let go of him, then don't let it go, after all, you have worked hard to remember your love, and this relationship will not change all of a sudden, unless you like someone else immediately, but is it possible?

So, why do you have to forget everything and let go of everything. You can keep him quietly in your heart, and you can also relive the sweetness you once had, and it will definitely be difficult at first. But, over time, you'll realize that that's all there was to it.

So, why leave, if he doesn't care about you, then even if you go to the ends of the earth, he still won't remember you. I still remember that I didn't know what happiness was, but now I'm very happy, because at least I can see him, even though he already has someone else, so whatever, as long as I'm happy, anything. ps I think it's still very good to have friends around After all, friendship is more valuable than love This is my experience I hope you can take a look.

Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless and chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't forget, his life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, you are a lovely girl, there should be someone who understands you to help you heal the wound, dilute everything unpleasant, let's wait together, okay?

I have the same experience, I sympathize with you, but I can't help you with anything but yourself.

I wish you happiness.

Because the other person once walked into your inner world, and now you can't let go.

Summary. Dear, you can't let go of it, it means that you have feelings for this person, although you are formally disconnected, but you still think about him in your heart, thinking that he used to be good to you, so you will not forget him.

Dear, you can't let go of it after leaving Jiannu, which means that you have feelings for this person, although you are formally disconnected, but you still think about him in your heart, thinking that he used to be good to you, so you will not forget him.

So what should I do.

I'm in pain. Dear, if you really can't let go of her, you can go to her, if it's your mistake to let go, you can sincerely apologize to him, and let him forgive you, what do you think he has towards you?

Dear, why did you break up?

The two of us have been separated many times by a loud noise. I ran away from home.

When I left that day, it was because he couldn't afford to buy cosmetics for me, and I told him to buy them for me right away, but he couldn't buy them for me.

Dear, the two of you are noisy when you're together, how long have you been dating like this?

Chang shouted a lot in a year. He didn't do what he promised me before, and then I kept it in my heart and felt uncomfortable, and then he usually took it to his home and did this and that, and then I felt that I couldn't make up for the defects in my heart.

Dear, everyone's ability is limited, if his promise is not fulfilled, it means that he does not have the ability to achieve the goal of the gift he promised you, although she also does this and that for you at home to make up for you, but if you don't have the ability, don't give people promises, painting a big pie will make people feel that this person's ability is not as strong as he said, so the grinding stool will also be greatly discounted to him in his heart. You are separated, what is the reason why you are reluctant to him? Leather Brigade.

Ask what the world loves, only let people live and die, love is the most wonderful thing in this world, sometimes even if people leave, emotions are still in us, we are really reluctant to let go, but the pain comes from attachment, if people can not give up, then only live in pain, in fact, giving up is also a kind of wisdom, if we let go, it will usher in a new day, see the sun rise as usual, happiness will be closer and closer to us.

Some people are walking, in fact, they are chattering in their hearts, every time they go to some specific places, they will always stop inadvertently, recall the previous time in their minds, and it is impossible to forget it, after all, spend a period of time together, even if the ends of the world are forgotten, they will always mutter those inaudible whispers in their mouths.

Some people leave helplessly, some people leave is destined, some people leave reluctantly, after a long time, I think I will forget, I think I won't remember it again, yes, it is true that you rarely remember her in the days to come, but you still always pay attention to what she is doing occasionally.

Because of reluctance, because of thoughts, because of the inextricable emotions or the thread that is cut, not to say that it is put away, nor is it to say that it is broken, the bits and pieces of the past are pictures one by one, and if you can't put it down, it's actually between a thought, if you can't let it go, if you can't let it go, if you give it up, you can put it down.

That is to show that the person has a pivotal position in his own psychology. That person is someone in your life or someone you think is important in that situation at that time. Because during that time with you, he not only made you grow, but also made you better.

For example, I couldn't let go of my ex before me, because he made me know how to love others and myself. The next time you meet someone you like, try to accept that feeling, and then don't hesitate or complain, just accept this love naturally. Those people taught me to grow, those people come and go, there will always be some people who will come, some people who will go, and no one will always be there for you.

People are people with feelings, and people are also animals with feelings, not that all people leave, they will take everything with them and look inside, leaving no traces, and what they leave behind is called memory.

The sweeter the memories are, the more hurtful they are, and the pain is hard for us to forget, but what really makes you happy from the heart, the person who has really walked into your heart, you may never forget it for the rest of your life.

Some people are destined to be passers-by in our lives, maybe he has appeared, you won't remember, maybe he did something, you won't remember. Don't say that people are ruthless, because we don't identify with him in our hearts.

But some people, even if they appear once or twice, have already planted an indelible mark on your life. You may remember his smile clearly, the quarrel or happiness between you may not be forgotten for the rest of your life, not to mention that you are cheap, because you really care about him.

In the life of each of us, whether we want to or not, we have to look down on many things, let go of many people and many things, some people are we who take the initiative to wave goodbye, while some people choose to turn around and say goodbye to us first.

First: there have been sincere feelings for each other. Let us not give up, even if it is painful, and refuse to let go for a long time, it must be the people we once cared about or still care about.

And to a certain extent, each other has occupied a certain position in each other's hearts, people have emotions, and after a long time, suddenly the person who cares about you or the person you care about leaves, there will always be a little unaccustomed.

Second: This is also a kind of status quo for many people to me, always reminiscing about the past, we often complain that the current life is not satisfactory, and the friends around us are not as considerate as their previous friends, and do not understand you enough, we are always comparing with each other, but we always think that what was once and has lost now is the best. In this way, it is easier for us to lose what we have now.

So, it's okay to be right, but don't let reluctance and nostalgia take over the whole of life.

Because I know that the love with you is hurtful to you, and I want to leave to make you feel better and make you happy. But how can I let go of loving you? I want to let go, but my heart can't let go of you, I love you, I think you can live well!

I still want to selfishly keep you by my side, but by my side you are hurt, I don't want you to get hurt, but I can't really let go! I don't want to leave you ... I'd rather you leave me than I leave you.

I want to leave, I want to let go but I can't, what does it mean?

You want to let go. I want to put it down. can't let go yet, which means that you still have this person in your heart, he is in your position, and you still have him in your heart.

It's just your own thoughts to some extent, certain things and certain aspects. You may be a little disappointed in him, or something that you are not satisfied with, and you want to leave him and want to give up. I want to let go of no more contacts and no longer interact, but you can't let go.

This shows that you have not let go of him from the bottom of your heart. From the bottom of my heart, I still miss him, and I still have him. If a person wants to leave, wants to let go.

It's just that you don't have a good impression of him anymore, and you don't love him anymore, then he must be able to let go of the heart, so he has a status in your mind, so you don't want to, since you can't let go, you can't let go, then you have to maintain a good business. This relationship. Managing a relationship is also the fate of two people, since we can't let go, then why do we?

Just go down, right? There's no reason to separate like that. Fate is not over, so keep dating.

You love her, everyone can see that, but she is mostly dependent on you. If you continue like this, your relationship will be chaotic and not good for everyone. Write a letter to her and tell her what you think about it, with a clear attitude, "Love me, come back, love him and let me go" with your heart.

Hope you can get the best answer. I also hope that your life will return to normal.

Since she can't do without you, and you can't let go of her, why should you choose to give up and leave. Isn't that a paradoxical thing?

If you choose to leave because you think that you can't give her the happiness she wants, then what you give to the other person while leaving is not happiness, but the greatest harm. When you can have it, you can cherish the empty world, and no one can predict what will happen in the future, since you can be willing to pay without asking for anything in return, then why can't you wait until she chooses to leave your wild judgment and let go and bless her.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; also because he loves you, he calls for your interest to turn it into a ...... for him and Yu Xiao's interestOr because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

A beautiful love enriches life, and a ruined love that has passed the test is perfect.

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!