My grandfather is celebrating his first anniversary today, but I can only go in the afternoon, can I

Yes, you are you and they are them.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's okay to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person.

On the fifth anniversary of the old man's death, he was going to the grave. Relatives have gone with the crane, leaving sorrow in the heart, a stack of burning paper and three incense sticks, and the parents know that they are in Jiuquan. Mornings and afternoons are acceptable.

It is not said that you must go to the fifth anniversary, it depends on your own decision whether to go or not, and it is generally in the morning to go to the grave, so it is best to go early.

There are no taboos, don't worry about these.

Being vegetarian is one thing, not just to make merit, but also to cultivate your compassion. So, go vegetarian as much as possible.

If you believe in Buddhism, you can copy the sutras and then dedicate them to the elderly, copy the Amitabha Sutra, the Jizo Sutra, you can. The copied scriptures should be kept well and should not be burned. Just copy it seriously and respectfully.

Buying flowers or something, it depends on your heart, there are no special taboos about these. Just to express the longing for the elderly.

The monastery does not have so many taboos, and there is nothing to bring.

If you want to worship the Buddha, worship with a respectful heart, and pray for the blessing of the Buddha and Bodhisattva for the old man to be able to be reborn in the Pure Land of Western Bliss, the Buddha and Bodhisattva are all compassionate, and there is no difference. Burning incense is meaningless, whether it is worshipping Buddha or burning incense, it is a manifestation of respect, not that you have a lot of money, what can you do if you burn incense, these are all wrong ideas. So, don't get too attached to that.

If conditions permit, recite the Jizo Sutra, Amitabha Sutra or the Mantra of Death and dedicate it to the elderly.

I wish you all good luck.

Prepare some fragrant wax money paper during the Qingming Festival, face the direction of your relatives on three incense sticks, you can put some fruits and other things, the money paper can not be turned when burning, and the heart silently reciting blessings! Kowtow three heads! The best way to repay is to comfort your most beloved elders with your excellent academic performance!

Amitabha! Wonderful! You are filial, respectable!

In fact, the best way to do this is for you to copy the scriptures for him! This merit is the greatest! Your elders will benefit greatly. It is possible to copy the Jizo Sutra, which can remove the karma of the dead.

May your elders be reborn in the Land of Bliss!

Amitabha!

In fact, in our country, sincerity is spirituality.

It's usually burned on the same day.

It was the first anniversary of his death.

But there is no time limit.

Burn that day, anyway, we're like this.

In the first few years, it is best to go in the morning, there are three years, and there are five years.

Generally, you go to worship in the morning and do not worship in the afternoon.

Go in the morning, before half past eleven!

It shows that your grandmother is a good person, she has a good life over there, and the neighbors helped your grandmother before her death.