Why don t men like to dress up when they re married?

Why don't men like to dress up when they get married? This question really confuses many women. Perhaps we have seen such a situation before:

When first falling in love, men are always well-groomed, neatly dressed, and elegant. But once they enter the palace of marriage, they gradually become less concerned about their image and dress. Why is this happening?

After marriage, men are more focused on family and career. When they are faced with more responsibilities and pressures, their time and energy are tied up even more. They may spend more time at work and pursue career success to bring better living conditions to their families.

As a result, there will be a corresponding decrease in the focus on external appearance and dressing.

After getting married, a man may feel that he has gained stability and security. Marriage gives them a sense of belonging and satisfaction, and they begin to put more energy into family building rather than on the presentation of personal image. Because they believe that their partner has accepted and adored them, the pursuit of an external image is not so important.

After marriage, men may also feel that their image is not a key factor in the marital relationship. They pay more attention to inner qualities and the fulfillment of family responsibilities rather than relying solely on physical appearance to maintain their marriage. Such thinking makes them more willing to focus on practical actions rather than spending time on dressing up.

Society's expectations of the roles of men and women also have an impact. Traditionally, women have taken on the role of nurturers and caregivers of the family, while men are expected to take on more financial responsibilities and career development pressures. This division of roles may lead men to focus more on career and family building after marriage, and neglect personal image and grooming.

Why don't men like to dress up when they get married? This may be due to their focus on family and career, feeling secure and contented, believing that image is not a critical factor, and being influenced by societal role expectations. Although this phenomenon exists, it cannot be generalized.

Everyone has their own unique lifestyle and values, so there are also some men who still pay attention to their grooming after marriage. Ultimately, the key is to build a marriage relationship of mutual respect and understanding, and to accept and appreciate each other's personal choices and changes.

Before getting married, he has to show his best side in front of you, and everything he does is very generous and decent, and if you want to chase you down, you have to work hard! After getting married, he needs a woman to restrain and pamper him! Of course, after getting married, he has to work hard, earn money, and spend time with his family.

Time and energy are limited, and it is also very tiring, you have to be considerate and care more about him!

Because before marrying a woman, it proves that the man's big rear is unstable, he attracts women by dressing up, and once he gets married, the man's backyard has the protection of the woman, and there is no concern, and he doesn't pay much attention to his dress.

In fact, it's not just men's, some women are like this, just like you want to get a thing, and then you insist on saving money every day until you buy it, you are already his, and he is not afraid of others snatching it again. Then there may be the aspect of work pressure, after getting married, there will be one more responsibility, and other small things are nothing, in this case, you can help him prepare in advance, what has changed is his external grooming, and the heart is still with you, just OK! That's all that matters, isn't it?

If you have a daughter-in-law, you don't care so much about the outside.

Then you can help him prepare and help him remind.

Because before getting married、I want to attract women's attention and make a good impression、

When they are going to get married, their true colors will come out.

But some of them are born with a love of cleanliness.

1. After marriage, men think that not dressing up is for their own sense of security.

This mentality of men is very common and can be attributed to their "ugly wife mentality". Generally speaking, young and beautiful girls are more attractive to men, which can be said to be an evolutionary inheritance. In addition, chasing a beautiful woman will have "face", and vanity also plays a lot of roles.

So, they spend a lot of time courting beautiful girls, complimenting them on their beauty, and even buying clothes and other things generously to please them. At this time, the man stands in the perspective of the connoisseur and feels that the woman is like a delicate work of art, pleasing to the eye, with incomparable attraction and charm.

However, once a man marries a beautiful girl and his vanity is satisfied, the sense of security rises to the top of the country, and only plainness is blissful. People say that "the family has three treasures, and the ugly wife Bo Tian breaks the cotton jacket", without dressing up and grooming, no one covets it, which is equivalent to having a sense of security. "A glass of wine can relieve worries, and an ugly woman can have a white head", these proverbs also illustrate the same truth.

Second, the man after marriage is more realistic and hopes that his partner will be more down-to-earth.

After marriage, there will be subtle changes in the psychology of men who are keen on dressing up for their wives. Just as the advantages of pre-marriage have become disadvantages, it is not the behavior that changes, but the psychology.

But men are often afraid to admit their worries and vulnerabilities. When they don't feel safe, it's rare to communicate openly with their wives for reassurance. Instead, they will treat their wives with an attitude of neglect, resentment, and even blame, hoping that she will no longer attract attention.

In addition, married men generally move from romance to reality, thinking more about household expenses, which also becomes a reason for them to discourage their wives from spending a lot of money on dressing. Moreover, in the eyes of men, a wife who is married and cannot calm down to teach her husband and children does not meet the standards of a good wife and mother after all.

Men are mostly animals and love pretty girls. But after marriage, they are reluctant to praise their wives for their beauty, and sometimes they may be dissatisfied: "They are all married, why are they dressed so beautifully." "So as a woman, you also have to understand some of the psychology of men.

There are many reasons why a man does not want to get married, for example, if he wants to get married, he must plan the wedding, arrange the shooting, register the date, perform the ceremony, entertain relatives and friends, and go on a honeymoon. The man does enough work in order to tell his friends and relatives that he has found a suitable lifelong partner.

And doing this is bound to cost a lot of money. If a man can't afford to afford the wedding, he won't act rashly. By the time a man has the ability, it may have been several years, and it is no wonder that women feel that men are reluctant to get married.

There are a lot of free and easy men who always don't like to get into trouble and be constrained in any way. Marriage is an iron cage for them, because they will feel that after marriage, they will be controlled by their wives. She would approve many things when she was not married, but when she got married, she would restrict many things, such as having to wait for her home every day, and even going to the bar with friends to chat with her.

For these freedom-loving people, married life is not for them.

In men's minds, some women can only be girlfriends, but not wives. In fact, every man has a position in his mind about the object of marriage, if the girlfriend around him does not meet the suitable object in his mind, they will find an ideal partner in their minds, and then they will take the initiative to ask for marriage.

It's not that men don't like to get married, it's that you haven't met yet!

Women don't like to get married either, also because they haven't met!

I don't want to be involved in marriage, but in fact, if you meet someone who you really want to spend your life with, do you want to get married? If she's so good, aren't you afraid that she'll run away with someone else? At that time, would you still say that you didn't want to use a marriage letter to restrain her?

Hehe, I guess you haven't met true love yet! If something is decided, why are you afraid of that marriage letter? Unless ......You want to find a better one! Ha ha.

I advise you to cherish what is in front of you, and don't regret it when you lose it!

One-sided view, how can anyone not want to marry the woman he likes, unless he doesn't really love her.