Why do most of those who live together before marriage end up breaking up?

This society is far more tolerant of women, not as much as men. If a man has cohabited before marriage, others will give him some approving glances and think he is attractive and powerful. But if a woman has cohabited before marriage, others will have some strange eyes on her, and even think that she is more casual and does not have a good grasp of feelings.

Some people feel that cohabitation is for the purpose of trying to get married before marriage. But I don't think it's necessary to try to get married. Because cohabitation and marriage are inherently different things, you did not enter into marriage when you lived together, and the situation of getting along with each other after marriage was also different.

As a man, I think everyone has their own past, so I can understand and accept that a woman has lived together before marriage, because this is just a manifestation of love by those people at a certain time in the past, and all this has passed. You love her now, not her in the past, and I hope men can understand that. Of course, for women, I also have a piece of advice, that is, when you are not 100% sure to marry a man, please do not live together before marriage, because this matter is really too expensive for women, once chosen, there is no going back, if you want to really understand a man, in addition to "premarital cohabitation", there are many options.

Premarital cohabitation is good in the Chinese sense. Marriage is a matter of two families. Everyone doesn't want to get divorced in a few years.

The reason for divorce is largely because of the different living habits of two people, and cohabitation can allow two people to understand each other more comprehensively before marriage and determine whether the person is suitable for cohabitation. In this way, the likelihood of divorce is greatly reduced if you get married later unless. Some problems are inevitable.

What can be done then.

After marriage, you can only call boyfriend and girlfriend, or spouse. After marriage, you can give the couple a **. Cohabitation before marriage is called trial marriage, and cohabitation after marriage is called husband and wife.

A child born before marriage is called an illegitimate child, and a child born after marriage is called an illegitimate child. Before marriage, the parties can only separate to settle the custody and maintenance burden of the children born out of wedlock, as well as the issue of joint property during the period of cohabitation. Divorce after marriage is accompanied by the settlement of issues such as custody of children born out of wedlock, maintenance burden, treatment of joint property of husband and wife, and joint debt burden.

When living together, I found that two people would have a lot of conflicts in life, and they couldn't expose each other's shortcomings.

Because they lived together, they found that each other had a lot of problems and shortcomings, and there was no novelty at all after being together, but it was very troublesome, so they broke up.

Because if you live together before marriage, many of your original habits will be slowly exposed, and both people will be close to their truest appearance, and if your patience level is not able to bear his appearance, it is likely to break up to the end.

I agree with this point of view because I am the one who has gone through this stage of Qinhui, and my girlfriend and I have been in a dry wood fire before we officially live together, and you and I have been in a stage, because of her job transfer, suddenly became a different place. Since she and I are both people who can't navigate long-distance relationships, after discussion, for the sake of our better future in the future, I decided to quit my current job and follow her to another city. After a period of recuperation, we began to live together without shame.

Actually, in the beginning, everything was so good, as many other people say. But slowly, because we live together every day and have more time to understand and pay attention to each other, many deep-seated problems similar to living habits, values, character defects, etc., have been violently revealed, and we have never had a quarrel at this stage. Even the idea of breaking up was born.

However, if some people have seen this, do they think this picture is familiar? When you live together after marriage, will you also fight over some trivial things? But because of many other factors such as responsibilities, children, relatives, etc., you have to choose to endure?

Even whenever these situations happen, there will be thoughts such as "she has changed, she is not as gentle as before marriage" or "men don't have a good thing, they are all the same before marriage and after marriage" and so on. In fact, I want to tell you that this really has nothing to do with whether you are married or not, just because you have changed from a state of love to a state of life. Some couples who can handle this problem properly begin to go further and further on the road to happiness, but those who do not handle it well will eventually become strangers.

In fact, the concept of premarital cohabitation, I think, is to shorten such a process, so that you can enter the state of life faster, can understand each other faster, he is really not the person you want. Because during a relationship, everyone wants to give each other the best, deliberately, or subconsciously hides their less glorious side. In the eyes of the other party, you are even more radiant.

And when you get through this period of love and live together, these lights slowly dim, and you slowly let go of your darker side. When you have some conflicts, you can discuss or communicate with the goal of solving the problem without pressure. and will not be imprisoned by the heavy shackles after marriage, and become timid and have a negative attitude.

With the development of modern society, premarital cohabitation is becoming more and more common, especially for couples who have just graduated, and choose to live together with their significant other for the convenience of work. But it is said that the breakup rate of premarital cohabitation is very high, so is it necessary for Yinzen to cohabit before marriage?

1.There is actually nothing wrong with living together before marriage, and two people can get to know each other better, communicate more deeply, and get along better with each other before marriage. Two people support each other, share housework with each other, and can talk to each other when they are tired from work or have troubles, no longer lonely, and someone to rely on.

Of course, if these are built on the future if you are happily together, it is quite a good memory, but if you can perceive that the chain will break up in the future, I believe that most people will not choose to live together before marriage, especially girls. In this regard, girls are often more likely than boys to be afraid, as their reputations are likely to be affected.

2.Of course, there is a downside to living together before marriage, after all, no one is perfect, and the advantages you see in each other in the past are likely to turn into disadvantages, or even the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. And you have no secrets from each other, so naturally there will be a lack of romance and mystery, and as you become more and more familiar with each other, you will no longer be as sweet as before.

3.However, whether it is necessary to live together before marriage still depends on one's own thoughts, after all, everyone has their own ideas and opinions.

In addition, there will also be property division problems in premarital cohabitation, and I believe some people will wonder who will belong to some of the things that the two buy together, such as furniture, refrigerators, sofas, TVs, etc., after breaking up?

Pre-marital cohabitation property is still owned by the individual.

1. Most of the older generation and even young people with stronger traditional concepts believe that male and female lovers before marriage should not live together, because if a girl lives with her boyfriend before marriage, it will have a very negative impact on the girl's reputation. I think this concept is now outdated, and for young couples who are about to get married, cohabitation before marriage initiation is still very necessary. I am very much in favor of premarital cohabitation.

Cohabitation before marriage is actually a process of simulating married life, but this process is realized and executed in advance during the love stage.2 In the process of cohabitation, two people live together, cook together, do laundry together, watch TV together, clean together, etc. Through these small details in life, we can see if each other is suitable for marriage. Small details can reveal some of the other person's living habits and shortcomings, and of course the advantages will also be reflected.

3. Some couples find that the other party is not the ideal partner they want after living together before marriage, because in the dating stage, they feel that the other party is very considerate and gentle, but after living together before marriage, they find that the other party does not care about hygiene, too much "naivety", and he is a very lazy person. At the moment, I'm glad I haven't married the other party yet. If I find out that the other partner has these problems after getting married, I will regret it.

4. I think we should change the concept of premarital cohabitation. Living together before marriage is actually a way to try out marriage, which allows each other to cherish each other more and discover each other's bright spots, but it can also expose each other's shortcomings. The benefits of living in harmony before marriage outweigh the disadvantages, so it is not bound by traditional ideas.

5. Many older generations will think that couples should not live together before marriage, because girls living together before marriage will affect the reputation of girls, I think couples should live together before marriage, cohabitation is very necessary, premarital cohabitation can be seen that the other party has no bad living habits, through cohabitation can also run in the character of two people, premarital cohabitation benefits are still very many.