What should I do if I pursue a divorced woman and my parents don t agree?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    In this case, you can only communicate well with your parents, after all, your parents are also for your good, so you must get your parents' consent before marrying this woman, otherwise it will hurt your parents' hearts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Any marriage that is not blessed by your parents will be unhappy in the future, so listen to your parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If you really love this woman, then you can stick to your own ideas even if your parents don't agree. After all, it's the two of you who will live in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You don't need to be influenced by your parents, if you think you are the right person, go for it, and don't care about others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Then you have to show your attitude to your family, and your attitude must be firm. Tell your parents that you are already an adult, that you have your own mind, that you have your own judgment. What you love is someone, a person who can accompany you for a lifetime, and a person who is worthy of your life's care.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on whether the woman is worth your effort, if the woman is better to you and doesn't care about anything, you can slowly convince your family through time

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Calm down for a while and consider whether you are suitable for herIf the family does not approve of you dating this divorced girl, you can calm down for a while and consider whether you are suitable for her. After all, this girl has already been divorced once, and she can't withstand another blow.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you like it, be bold, communicate well with your family, what happened to the divorced does not prove that he is not a good woman, many people find it difficult to accept divorced people, especially people in the previous generation, you need to communicate with your family slowly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel free to marry, and if you both love each other, you can talk openly and honestly to your parents until they agree.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should listen to your heart, divorced women are also very good, as long as you like it, you must be brave to pursue it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should listen to your parents, because your parents are from the past, you must respect your parents, and a marriage that is not approved by your parents will not be happy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you like this woman very much, you should be brave enough to pursue it, your parents may be worried that you are not doing well, you can have a good talk with your parents and tell your parents what you think now, I believe your parents will still support you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People are just a drop in the ocean, and death is nothing but to make your parents sad and your loved ones sad.

    Since the parents do not agree, they are afraid of losing face. Then just run away from home, go to your lover, and make their faces swollen for a while!

    After all, your parents love you, and you run thousands of miles away and give them a **, which can not only appease the old man (don't let the old man come out in a hurry), but also show his determination. The old man saw that the raw rice was ripe, and it was estimated that he could only give in.

    It's just that you have to negotiate with your lover and ask for her consent.

    Also, young people are rebellious, you must think calmly: Is your love for her so strong because of the opposition of your parents? Assuming your parents agree from the beginning, do you love her the same way?

    If you think it through, then the choice will be clear.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The vast majority of parents wouldn't agree!

    We need to understand this!

    The point is, what do you love about this woman!

    You have to convince yourself first!

    And then convince others!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What should I do if I have a crush on a divorced woman, but my parents don't approve of me?

    Then you have to communicate with the family, tell the family why you want to marry this girl, and then listen to the reasons why the family does not agree.

    Look at the gap in this, you have to figure out how the girl is in all aspects, and then analyze the reasons why your parents disagree, and then prescribe the right medicine.

    Your parents definitely want you to be happy, and you also have to tell your parents that you are already an adult and have the ability to take responsibility for your choices.

    If something goes wrong, then it's good to work on it.

    If you want two people to finally enter marriage, there are some contradictions and oppositions, and whether you can finally enter marriage depends not on fate, but on each other's determination and efforts to move forward hand in hand.

    Parents' opposition, long-distance relationships, incompatible personalities, frequent quarrels, etc. are the reasons why couples often do not make it to the end, and for some couples, even if these problems occur, they can still make it to the end well.

    In the case of your family's disagreement, you need to understand why your family members disagree. Age? Degree? Looks? Nature? Family? Find the problem first.

    The reason why many parents disagree is that there are not many solutions to the mold, or the understanding is too one-sided, so it is easy to generalize, and feel that the other party is a little bit bad, so they will oppose it and lack tolerance.

    Therefore, after understanding the reasons for the opposition of our parents, on the one hand, we need to promote the contact between our target and the family members, and increase the family's goodwill towards the object; Secondly, you should also say a lot of kind words yourself, so that your family knows the merits of the object; Finally, you have to express your decision to be with her, so that your family can see your attitude, because family members will often test their children's emotional decisions through opposition, if the children do not firmly choose their other half, parents will feel that their children are just joking, and not suitable for marriage.

    So, work hard, try to solve problems first, if you haven't worked hard, then the problem will not disappear by itself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe your parents think that it is not appropriate for the two of you to be tall, so they don't agree with you, you can tell your parents the advantages of this girl and let your parents know that the divorce is not the reason for her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You need to know what your parents have to worry about, and then talk to them about your thoughts and communicate well before making a decision.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you have special confidence in this relationship, you can marry this divorced woman according to your heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should convince your parents to let your parents agree to your relationship, knowing that you are very serious about this relationship and you will not give up easily.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Anyway, this woman is with you, and Chawang is not with your parents, if your parents don't agree, then you can move out, as long as He Qingkai is true love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At this time, you should let your parents go to see this girl, see that this girl is really very good to you, and the relationship between the two of you is also very good, so that your parents can rest assured.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think I can convince my parents that after all, feelings are a matter of two people, and they should not be swayed by their parents.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should let your parents get along with this woman for a while, look at each other's character, and then make some advice.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What to do if you fall in love with a divorced woman and her family does not agree.

    Hello, here's how: First of all, you need to understand the reason why her family disagrees, whether it's because of differences in your age, occupation, status, cultural background, etc., or because of the reason for her divorce and family background. If it's just because of some superficial differences between you, you can consider communicating with her family to make them more aware of your real situation and strengths, and to show your sincere feelings and sense of responsibility for her.

    If it's because of her divorce and family background, you need to think more carefully about your relationship and future, while respecting her family's decisions and feelings. In addition, you need to consider whether your relationship is healthy and future-oriented, and whether you share common values and goals. Divorce itself is a complex issue that requires many considerations.

    You need to have in-depth communication with her to understand her thoughts and feelings, while also respecting her choices and decisions. The most important thing is that you need to be sincere and patient, and at the same time, take into account the feelings and interests of others and make the best decisions. I hope the teacher can help you and wish you a happy life

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Dear, I have seen your question, and I am happy to answer it for you! , Wait a minute, dear, does the other party think that she is divorced and doesn't want her parents to worry!

    1. You have a good chat with her and tell her that it is not right to do this, because after all, sooner or later, you have to know that paper can't contain fire after all. 2. You can give her spiritual comfort and make the other party feel that you are sincere. 3. In love, all we can do is to cherish the moment, always be sincere, love hard, manage with heart, and everything else will be handed over to time, and time will precipitate the right person.

    Dear, I see your question, I'm happy to answer it for you! , Wait a minute, kiss, is the other party thinking that she is divorced, and she doesn't want her parents to worry, so she doesn't tell her parents to scatter the auction! 1. You have a good chat with her and tell her that it is not right to do this, because after all, sooner or later, you have to know that paper can't contain fire after all.

    2. You can give her spiritual comfort and make the other party feel that you are sincere. 3. In love, all we can do is to cherish the moment, always be sincere, love hard, and manage with heart.

    She said that she was 40 years old and could make her own decisions, and I doubted that she wanted to remarry her ex-husband if she didn't tell her parents.

    It is also possible to kiss, in fact, nothing happened between them, and she must still have her own careful thoughts about not telling her parents.

    So what should I do?

    Give up or continue.

    Teacher. Dear, what is her attitude towards you? There is also a real understanding of whether I have completely broken off contact with my ex-husband.

    She said that she completely broke off with her ex-husband, who knows.

    Kiss, you can see if she cares about you, and how to deal with the child's disadvantage? Talking to you with Burying Qing and mentioning your ex-husband will be a normal chat, and you will not escape your ex-husband's family affairs.

    She didn't talk to her ex-husband in front of me, and the children didn't know that she was divorced and followed her man.

    Kiss, it's hard for you to get this, the child doesn't know yet, this vertical woman still has reservations about you, will she not go back for the sake of the child? She's impossible, she's a fierce woman, but also a mother, in front of mother's love, she will also go back to be with her children.

Related questions
17 answers2024-08-14

The situation seems to be the same, but we are relatively small, are twenty-one, he is also an intern, in the company to learn from others, his family conditions are not very good, the family also knows him, not very agreeable, but did not clearly prevent us from dating, so I plan to take him to meet my family next year, and then give him three years to develop his own career, I heard that the project budget is a good job. The only thing that worries people is that you are three years older than him, and if he changes his mind again when his career is better, it will be a bit not good. >>>More

10 answers2024-08-14

Prove that he loves you with his actions in front of his parents, why would they disagree, if it's because of money, then don't care. Tell them not to interfere if it's really for your good. Even if you are deceived, the path of life is your own, and it is better to decide by yourself. >>>More

20 answers2024-08-14

As long as there is nothing wrong with the person you like. >>>More

31 answers2024-08-14

As long as it is not a close relative marriage, there is no concern, if it is just that the family does not agree, it is just an old idea of feudalism, to communicate more with the family, try to persuade, do not make a stiff, it is not good for everyone, if necessary, ask for help from volunteers or staff of the civil affairs department to persuade it, it is the most complete in the case that everyone can accept, I wish you happiness.

22 answers2024-08-14

If you really love her, you should love him desperately

The reality is really helpless, you have to be mentally prepared, girls get married, it is inevitable that they will be talked about by your relatives here, the biggest obstacle is your parents, if you can still be together in the end, then your love will move her, move your parents, and move everyone around you. >>>More