How long do you think it s best to live together when you re in a relationship?

Updated on society 2024-08-14
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    A year or so of cohabitation is the most suitable, when preparing to live together, you must be prepared, you have to face the run-in with each other's different lifestyles, two people together will be noisy because of some trivial things in life, but also because the other party does not wash clothes, said many times, the other party always has an excuse to prevaricate, that is, forget, people with cleanliness habits generally can't stand this way of life, and their hearts will be very repulsive, this is that two people have not lived, and they can't accept each other's way of life, which produces a lot of contradictions.

    I believe everyone has heard a sentence, distance produces beauty, people who have not lived together, feel that the other party is perfect in front of themselves, whether it is the figure, conditions, appearance, these are in line with the image in their hearts, because two people have lived together, these advantages of the other party, after living together, all become shortcomings, the psychological gap is actually very large, and it is unacceptable, I didn't expect that the person I thought was perfect turned out to be so sloppy. But I also know that I haven't lived together, and I don't know that the other party has so many problems in life, and people are lazy, so they are waiting for someone to serve him, as a more pampered girl at home, I can't accept it, and I don't want to let myself become an old mother to serve such a man, I don't know that I think I'm bringing a son, not a future husband, and this is what it looks like if I'm not married, so do you feel that anything is taken for granted after marriage, and you don't pay at all.

    Cohabitation can really see a person's personality and behavior, and you can also find out many of the other party's shortcomings that you can't accept yourself, which will consume your feelings more quickly, and over time, you can't stand each other and it will lead to a breakup, which is why many people say that people who have lived together will break up easily, and they are all broken up due to poor run-in with each other in life and can't get along.

    If you want to live together, you must think clearly, don't live with others casually, this is responsible for yourself, but also for your own sake, you must protect your bottom line.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Now if you fall in love, you can almost live together in four or five months, and during this time, the two people can have some preliminary understanding, and they can get to know each other more deeply through cohabitation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It's probably about two years, but try not to live together before marriage, because this way is very unfavorable for girls and will affect the relationship between two people.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Two years is enough, at this time everyone has a very clear understanding of their feelings, if you want to get married, you can try to live together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I feel that this still depends on the feelings of the two of you, if it feels right, it can be at any time, as long as both of you are willing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This should be determined according to the feelings of two people, if the relationship between two people is already very deep, you can choose to live together, and it has nothing to do with time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How long is cohabitation appropriate? Depending on your situation, if you feel like you can live together in your life or whatever, you can get married, then you can live together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    For today's girls, it is best to live together after marriage, and it is not recommended to live together before marriage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think it's appropriate to live together at any time in a relationship. If you just determine the relationship, you can walk into marriage.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no set answer, you feel that the relationship is in place, you can live together, but hopefully you can go to the end.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you can live together after a year of love, because a year can fully see what kind of person the other person is.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It mainly depends on whether you are considering getting married at this stage.

    If you are thinking about getting married at this stage, then living together before marriage is a good choice. It is the best way to judge whether the two are really suitable to get used to each other's living habits before marriage and have a deeper understanding of each other's lives. If it is suitable, you can enter the marriage hall quickly, and if it is not suitable, you can break up as soon as possible and find another good match.

    But if you don't plan to get married at this stage, or you are just thinking about getting married in the future, or if you are in love.

    I advise you not to start cohabitation so quickly.

    You want to stick to each other every day, but maybe when you get along for a long time and many living habits are different, you find that this person will become less and less like the person you once knew, and your relationship with each other will gradually become estranged.

    I also have a lot of such friends in my life, for long-distance relationships.

    For that kind of person, in fact, they really don't see each other for very much time, and they have a limited understanding of each other, so if you want to start living together after only talking for half a year, then I think it's still a little too early.

    But as we often say, a little is better than a new love, and friends in long-distance relationships usually have a stronger urge to live together. Mainly because the emotions have been suppressed for too long, when the thoughts are extreme, they are extremely eager to be able to hug each other. So if there is a sudden opportunity to live together in a town at this time, they will often choose to be together desperately.

    But in fact, it is not rational to choose cohabitation in this situation.

    On the one hand, you just want to spend more time with each other, and you don't take into account other factors, this simple emotional impulse is often defeated by the reality of life, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

    These things are impossible to avoid.

    On the other hand, a long-term long-distance relationship will release your long-suppressed emotions, and you may not be able to restrain your impulses to do some irrational things, especially for women, and there is a risk that the man will be responsible for you after sex.

    If you find that the two of you are not suitable at this point, and you have given your whole body and mind, how much courage do you have to get out of this relationship?

    In fact, cohabitation is a big hidden danger. This means that you have to take risks to get to know the other side of him that you may not be familiar with, and it also means that you have to take some responsibility for the dedication and giving you have made.

    If you're ready to take on all the consequences, give it a try.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When it comes to cohabitation, everyone has their own different opinions, and boys and girls have different opinions, which has a lot to do with their family education style and their own personality and thoughts. Plug the nagging of parents, some people fall in love, they really love each other, and they really want to be with each other, thinking that there are many definitions of love for Ji Yanqi, and there is no right or wrong. Not all two people who are in love can eventually come together, plugging their parents' nagging, some people fall in love, they really love each other, they really want to be with each other, there are many definitions of love, and they can't be divided into right and wrong.

    Not all two people who are in a relationship end up coming together, and a lot can happen in a relationship that leads to a final breakup. First of all, see if you can accept cohabitation, some people hail and imitate death and do not accept cohabitation, then there is no point in discussing this. As for how long you can live together in love, it mainly depends on the feelings of 2 people, and it also depends on the age of the girl.

    Generally speaking, it is not recommended to live together during school, because it is still in the learning stage, especially in college, there are many people who live together, but breaking up after graduation has become an iron law, and even if you don't break up, there are very few people who can really have results. Therefore, it is not recommended to live together in college, even if the relationship is good, there is no need to live together.

    If it is after graduation and work, how long can you live together in love, it depends on the individual's thoughts, and it has various influences. Some people are forced by life, and cohabitation can reduce the burden of renting. Some of them are emotional, and the two people have a good relationship and naturally live together.

    Some do whatever they want, they just want to have a partner, so they live together. Personally, I think that if you live together after half a year of love, just in love, it must be all kinds of sweetness, I can't wait to be tired of being together every day, and the other party I see at this time is a good aspect.

    So after half a year of love, you will calm down, and then clearly see the advantages and disadvantages of the other party, and then decide whether you can live together. Finally, no matter when you live together, it is necessary to take safety measures.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Generally speaking, after two people fall in love, it is best not to live together until they get married, because in the process of cohabitation, two people will expose more problems between each other. Tan Yin.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that they can live together for about a year, at this time the two people already know each other better, and they will not be defeated together, there will be too many contradictions and conflicts, and living together can also respect the feelings of two people, and can also further develop the relationship Chapai.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's three years, because the two of them have already understood each other for three years, and if the three years haven't been divided, then the two defeated lead spike chab individuals are indeed very suitable for being together, so I think this time is suitable for cohabitation.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personally, I feel that the general love for half a year can only be cohabited by the Zhao clan, because the two people can understand each other very well in the year of love and half-clan, and they also find out each other's bottom line.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The most suitable time to live together is after two years of love, because within two years you have a very full understanding of each other.

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