Twenty to thirty years old is the golden decade to start a family, how to work hard?

The first half of the decade should be spent on a university campus, studying hard at the undergraduate level and guaranteeing a graduate student. Now society is the age of knowledge, and a good diploma can make people enjoy higher salary conditions, so it is right to study seriously, after all, reading is a good way out.

Although it is called the first decade, it is really difficult for anyone to really reach the height they want in these ten years, but there must be a small goal, for example, earn him 100 million first.

You'll need to set a goal for yourself during this time. And make unremitting efforts towards this goal, this goal does not need to be too big, but it cannot be too small, it is not the kind of goal that can be completed without hard work, nor is it the kind of goal that can be achieved after working hard for a long time, and the goal must be moderate. You can set small goals, set small goals every day, and add up to a big goal.

In this way, you will find that you will be different from you ten years ago, you will become more mature, you will be more successful, you will be more capable, and you will be more experienced.

This decade is called the ** decade, but you have to give, accumulate experience every day, and make more friends. I have to get up early and go to work and study every day. Set a small goal for yourself every day to work hard, and in ten years, you will find that you have improved a lot.

As a person who has come before, I think that a man must have a goal before the age of 30, because with a goal, you will know what you want to do and what you need, otherwise you will waste time and energy like a headless fly, and no matter how hard you try, you will not be able to achieve the results you want. <>

At this time, the best thing is to study hard, try to improve your work ability, seize every opportunity you encounter, and don't let the opportunity flow away in vain, so that you can get a lot of gains and even success during this period.

There is a premise, when you are in college, you will study professional knowledge and learn solidly. If possible, you can improve yourself through the postgraduate entrance examination. In this way, you will be able to work well after entering a company, and then you will learn advanced knowledge of your profession while working until you become a master in this field.

In fact, many times it is not enough to work hard, there must be opportunities, but don't think about it so much, just do your job well, if you are lucky, you may be able to succeed, even if you are unlucky, since you have worked hard, the days will definitely not be bad, but it is not so good.

I don't think so, there is an ancient saying that thirty is standing, but in today's society, it is not very appropriate. This is an era of lifelong learning, and people of all ages should continue to learn and improve their skills. In this sense, there is no such thing as a watershed.

I think 30 is a watershed moment in my life. Because at the age of 30, many people have to start a family and live independently. I can't rely on my parents anymore.

No. Because you have to look at your own life plan, you can know which age is the watershed in life, many people have a family in their twenties, and some people choose to start a business first and then start a family.

At the age of 30, it is a watershed in life, you can better train a man and better achieve your career.

No, you should have a goal at every stage of life, and you can't just talk about being 30 years old.

I think the age of 30 is indeed a watershed moment in life, which is why I have this statement.

In fact, there will be many stages in life, the stage of starting a family in your twenties is not necessarily the most difficult period of life, after all, your parents may not be so old at this time, and you still have a lot of hope and confidence in your future life, so as long as you maintain peace, optimism and progress, this period of time is not the most difficult in life, on the contrary, when you enter middle age, there are old and young, but the relationship between husband and wife is not too good, and there is no career. It's the hardest time in my life.

Everyone will experience a lot of pain and setbacks in their lives, for some people, it may be that life is smooth, there are no storms and waves, and there are no difficult moments, but for some people, it may not have been smooth since birth, and many stages have made them feel pressure, feeling that life and life are difficult. Brother Qiang is a person who belongs to the latter, he has passed the age of 20 years old, and is now about to enter middle age, and he has a lot of helplessness about life and work.

Brother Qiang in his twenties was full of spirit, even if he didn't have any money at that time, and his work and life were not smooth, but he had a good attitude and felt that all his hardships were for a better life in the future, so at that time, he didn't feel how difficult it was, and he could be regarded as successfully finding a job, and then getting married and having children.

But now Brother Qiang's mentality is not so good, his parents are also old, they can't work anymore, and they need him to raise them, and his children are just in junior high school and need a lot of education funds, his wife doesn't understand him very well, and his work is not smooth, and his salary has not changed for several years.

If a person who only lived for more than 20 years would probably think that this was the most difficult period. I don't know where the word "difficult" comes from.

I believe that for people in their 20s now, if you just start a family, it seems that there is no pressure. I don't disagree with or do the following, but that's the reality.

When I was in my twenties (and I'm just leaving my twenties now), all the people around me who needed to start a family did these two things very easily, I don't know if I really started a business, but the most critical issue in starting a family is not the economic conditions, but whether there is a person who has a family. If you can't even find a partner, then no wonder others, my parents help you pay for marriage I think it's already very good, and you have to help find someone, then such people think that the 20s are the most difficult I have nothing to say, and I believe that in the future life journey of such a person, there is no difficulty, only more difficult.

Except for the matter of finding a partner and starting a family, all of these things around me were not done with the support of their families. Buying a car, buying a house, doing business, and even looking for a job, parents are present in the whole process. What's more, it's been several years since graduation, and I'm still living on my parents, so I don't believe it's an exception.

So parents have the ability to take care of their children, I have nothing to say, but if you are in your twenties, there is neither the pressure of providing for the elderly nor the pressure of raising children, even if you have a baby, your parents may be able to help take care of it.

In your twenties, you are strong, your limbs are developed, and you are energetic, and you have the most energy and physical strength to do what you want to do, and your parents are not at the age when you need to be by your side every day to take care of them, what pressure can you have? Where does the difficulty come from?

The reason why it is only reluctant is because although there are many burdens on their shoulders, at least the people who bear these responsibilities are intact, even if they are in their thirties, at least they can still be called the kind of people who are in the prime of life, all the problems need to be solved, but there are still opportunities! So it's a little harder, but there's hope.

Whoever lives in the world is not a purgatory, everyone's family is different, but we all need to survive in this world. And the difficulty of life is that if you don't have the means to get through something that others can't, then you won't grow. At the age of twenty, we have the vision and ideas of young people, we have a healthy body, and this stage is the happiest stage of our lives, because we have not experienced too much darkness in society, and we have not experienced many life and death.

The most difficult period of life should be when people reach middle age, because at this time, there are old and young, and the pressure of life and work is very high. And when you are in your twenties, life is not so sad, because our experience has just begun, we have just started a family, and our career and love have just started, we understand that life is not easy at this age, and we also have a part of the yearning for this society, and want to try unknown challenges.

Middle-aged we can talk about the most difficult stage of life, at this age we have learned to mature, but also know that life is not easy, even if the abyss ahead, we have no way to choose to retreat, since we have come to this world, we have no intention of going back alive, right? Every family has a difficult scripture to read, and each of us has our own story, but when you reach a certain age, you will always realize that you are not good enough in those areas.

At the beginning of our family, we still had the marks of youth, and everyone was not mature enough, nor did we have much social experience. When you get older, your knowledge will increase more and more, when we are at that age, we will understand those truths, the most rare stage of life is not in our twenties, but when we reach middle age, we look down on the warmth and coldness of people, and get used to life and death.