Where do my troubles go, where do they come from?

Your problem is that you are too contradictory, even if there is a chance, at the moment of your contradiction, it may be snatched away by others. People should have momentum, decide what to do, hurry up and do it, whether it is Shanghai or the south, if you want to stay in Shanghai, go out and find a job, if you can't work hard, go to the south. In fact, there are two sides to everything, and there is no absolute.

If you know you should look for a job, why don't you do it? Isn't it okay to invest without a boyfriend? Go out for a walk, forget about the unhappy things, make up for the hollowed out places, I hope you get out of the predicament soon!

People have to know what they want to do it! What is the point of your visit to the South? If you talk about development, it's all the same in **!

Hold on. If you don't feel safe because you broke up with your boyfriend, then find a boyfriend, but women had better endure loneliness, slowly find your good man, and find your happiness while working. Don't be impulsive to go south, sometimes it's not as good as you think!

If you want to go and see, you can go to ** Zhou Ran to see the situation.

Let's be honest. Shanghai is indeed much better than the south.

It's really no good for you to go to the south alone.

Let's look for a job in Shanghai.

There are not many opportunities in Shanghai, and I think there are quite a lot.

Hehe. Don't overthink it.

Good luck!

What is in your own heart?

In life, we all encounter troubles, but why do people have troubles? Many people don't know and don't know the true face of Lushan, only because they are in this mountain. Because the affliction is within us, we can't see it for what it is.

We can only blindly bear the anxiety it brings us, everything in the world has its own reason, since there are troubles, there are causes of troubles, find the cause of troubles, we can get rid of troubles, no longer be bound and disturbed by it. In a word: If the heart is quiet, the present is heaven, and if the heart is not quiet, how can the world come to the pure land.

If you don't care, why bother.

Don't care about those who can't get used to it, and don't worry about those who can't get it. It's human nature, and it makes sense! In this life, you will meet many people, some of whom are like flowers, and you can only appreciate them; Some people are like the wind and can only feel it.

Some people are like wine, you need to taste it carefully to know that the longer its aroma, the better! In this life, no matter what kind of life you live, don't complain and blame others. Troubles are self-founded, and pains are self-accumulated!

Joy, anger and sorrow are things that you need to feel; The ups and downs are something you need to experience and taste by yourself! The heart is simple, everything is simple; When the heart is happy, people will be happy and healthy. How good the heart is, how true the love is.

How good the heart is, how deep the blessing is, the heart does not care, why so many troubles!

How do people go about interpreting their own lives? Mindset determines height. Walking into the corridor of time and starting an interactive journey, life is a journey, taking the train of the times, and the scenery is infinite all the way.

In the past, the years were unharmed, and the heart was like a flower. If you don't care, why bother. Life is reincarnated, life is like a dream.

The breeze is lifting, the mood changes, and the sun is on the other side! With peace of mind, he can pretend to be the world. The sun is shining and the flowers are in full bloom.

Smiling life, time precipitates true feelings, cherishes hobbies, can't get used to it, don't care about people's lives, it's not easy to live, for those bittersweet years, joys and sorrows have been experienced. What does it taste like? Only the heart knows.

A person must be measured in life! Don't think about it, don't worry, don't worry about it, everything is beautiful! There are no troubles in the world, but all the troubles are self-inflicted.

If the heart is big, things will become small, and if the heart is wide, the sea will be small. Sesame trivial things are afraid of fermentation, which will add fuel to the fire. Send a smile when you are not used to it, and remember not to hide a knife in your smile.

In times of crisis, you should stretch out your hand, and do not disturb if you are not sincere. Born with a pure body and nothing, a calm heart and a wide heart, never old!

The age when I should have struggled again is cranky, so there are troubles.

The so-called troubles are all about finding unhappiness for yourself

Why bother?

A rush of greatness, troubles arise from persistence: there are many good and bad times in life, and it is certainly frustrating and troublesome when people encounter difficulties, such as unemployment, lost love, and scattered people; When you are in good times, if you are attached and afraid of losing, you will also be trapped by good times. This is the same as iron chains can lock people, and gold chains can bind people.

Therefore, no matter whether you encounter good or bad situations in life, you must know how to change the situation and not be persistent; The greatest effort in cultivation lies in the word "turn", to "turn the Lotus" and not "be turned by the Lotus", that is, not to be attached. You can not be afraid of troubles, do not cling to troubles, and be at ease.

2. Afflictions arise from ignorance: Ignorance is ignorance, and our innate ignorance is greed, hatred, ignorance, and suspicion. With ignorance, there are afflictions such as greed, anger, pride, doubt, etc., so there are afflictions.